PLAY IT AS IT LIES

BETHPAGE STATE PARK:
5 STARS

By Jeff

“I think I’m ready to play Bethpage Black. I’ve been playing Tiger Woods on Playstation”. Famous last words uttered by a friend of mine before heading East to Farmingdale, NY and the site of the 2002 US Open won by Tiger himself. Bethpage will be host of the 2009 US Open after an impressive initial showing 6 years ago. If you watched on TV or were at the course, you experienced all that a New York venue can do to you. The home crowd serenaded Phil Mickelson for his birthday as well as laughed at Sergio Garcia (golf’s bad boy) for crying about the Black Courses’ unfair difficulty level.

In many ways, The Black Course is as unforgiving as the state in which it resides. Ordinarily, I wouldn’t do this but I have to warn you. This is not an easy course by any means. As a matter of fact, there is a sign right on the wrought iron fence of the 1st tee to tell you just that. There are golf demons on this course. Bethpage Black is as rigorous a golf test as it is a mental and physical torture. If your golf skills aren’t up to par, the ranger patrolling the course will kindly ask you to leave. You will be given a rain check or ….an opportunity to play one of the other 4 easier courses on the premises.

That being said: Test 1, acquiring a tee time. Most of the prime slots are given to those dedicated golf warriors who choose to spend the night in their car in an orderly line. When the starter arrives, you will exit the holding parking lot in the same order in which you entered. The purpose is to get a “baker’s ticket” . This is a numbered ticket that tells where you were in the line. When you get into the clubhouse, you’ll line up for the available slots on a first come (or slept) first served basis. Test 2, once you get a coveted tee time, you will have a color coded band attached to your arm showing you’re about to be a victim/guest on the Black course. Test 3, the driving range. I know you are all asking, why this is a test? Well, because other players tend to gather behind a banded player to gauge the state of their game. Some even say they’re taking bets as to how long you will last before getting asked to exit the course. Once you arrive at the 1st tee, you get the experience of any tour pro on TV. You actually get to hit your 1st shot in front of a gallery of waiting or curious players and people who packed a lunch just to see if you have control of your nerves. Isn’t this fun already?

Test 4, the course. Designer A.W. Tillinghast is an absolute master at creating visual challenges. He leaves no stone unturned. This particular design is a vehicle for bringing out your accuracy game. You do not want to miss the fairway anywhere on this course. It is penal. Even the primary cut of rough adjacent to the fairway is thick enough to swallow your ball into oblivion. Let’s see - almost 90 degree turning holes to 50 foot high elevated greens, diagonally crossed sand bunkers that make the hole appear to be shorter than it actually is, fairways squeezed harder than Florida orange juice, and tall as well as swirling ground fescue grass ready to make you cry with a missed shot. But, above all, AW makes you walk this epic course. There are no carts allowed. The only one you’ll see is that of the aforementioned ranger. So, you have a choice, either carry your bag, rent a pull cart or, at a nominal fee, hire a caddy for the day.

If you look at the picture above, that is the fairway of the 18th hole with it’s green in the foreground. Call it “three tiers of pain”. Good luck. If you need anything, the pro shop is one of the very best in the U.S.. Enjoy the U.S. Open experience, and as always, play it as it lies. Oh, by the way, my friend quit after the sixth hole from the psychological pain and embarrassment of a mediocre skill set. But at least he wasn’t asked to leave - he quit first

Photo courtesy of Bethpage State Park (web address below)

Recommendation: 5 Stars
Current Price: Week $60 Weekend $120
Par 71 Slope 140 Rating 73.1 Yardage 6673
Address: 99 Quaker Meeting House Rd
Farmingdale, NY 11735-1847
Website: http://nysparks.state.ny.us/golf/info.asp?golfID=12

DW's Loop

“How can you stay in the Loop, if you aren’t in the Loop?”
August 29 – 31, 2008

Friday
Chicago Fridays @ Krem
1750 N. Clark
Hosted by Carlos R & Rock City.
Doors open 4pm Eat and drink until close
http://www.kremchicago.com/

Velvet Fridays at Club Royale
205 N Peoria
Hosted By AE of Kinetic Werkz, Inc
Mention AE for complimentary admittance
8pm – 2am
For bottle reservations/special occasions email rsvp@kineticwerkz.com http://www.royalechicago.com/


Saturday
Patti LaBelle @ Country Club Hills Theater
4116 w 183rd Street, Country Club Hills
http://www.countryclubhillstheater.org/

Saturdays @ Y Bar with DJ KJ
Y Bar
224 W Chicago
Hosted by Tony Macey Productions
10pm – 2am


Sunday
Rastafarian Reggae Cruise on the Free Spirit
Burnham Harbor (Dock J)
559 S. Lake Shore Drive
Open bar, food and fireworks.
Tickets are $95 per person and must be paid in advance.
For more info: Whitey Mandell or Howard Fishman @ 312-447-7548 or 773-677-1267

Global Adrenaline 11 Year Anniversary Festival: Featuring Sugar Ray
Enclave
220 W. Chicago
Cost is $10-$25
5pm – 2am
$25 festival and club tickets, includes admission to after party
$10 festival ticket includes Sugar Ray outdoor performance
Get Tickets @ http://www.neptix.com/
For table reservations: 312-654-0234.

Cocktail for the Week – Get in the Skyy
SKYY Party Favor

• 2 oz. SKYY Vodka


• Splash of cranberry juice


• 1/3 oz. Midori Melon Liqueur


• 1/3 oz. amaretto


• 1 twist of lemon


• Shake all ingredients in a shaker with ice. Strain into a martini glass. Add the twist of lemon.

SKYY Rocket

• 2 oz. SKYY Vodka


• 3 oz. Red Bull


• Splash of triple sec


• Splash of cranberry juice


• Pour ingredients into a highball glass over ice


• Garnish with a twist of lemon
  

Bonuses of the Week – Nas and Divas
Nas - The Official After Party
August 31, 2008 - 10pm
Hosted by Nas with special guest MC Talib Kweli
DJ for the night Green Lantern
10pm-4am
http://www.theboutiquelifestyle.com/

Diva Series featuring Barbie Adler and the Matchmakers of Selective Search
September 4, 2008 - 7pm
JBar
610 N. Rush St.
Sounds by DJ Jesse De La Pena
Snow Queen hosted bar from 7-8 p.m.
$100 Snow Queen bottles
RSVP to Andy Demetriou at andy@jameshotels.com for guest list

This Week in Chicago

Labor Day Weekend Advisory: Click Here to see DW's Blogspot

O' Corner: Dulcie's Cheese Cake

Years ago I lived in Virginia Beach, VA. I was a young wife raising young children in a neighborhood of other young wives with young children. Most of them were wives of servicemen. One of my fondest memories is of seeing the Blue Angels or the Thunderbirds fly over our house during their air shows. I was away from my family and old friends, so as neighbors we babysat for each other and shared recipes, housekeeping, and child-rearing information. The following recipe is from the wife of a naval pilot. Their son and my son were best friends who would spend their days racing up and down the block on their Super Hot Wheels.

DULCIE’S CHEESE CAKE

• 16 ounce cream cheese
• 2/3 cup sugar
• 3 eggs
• 1 teaspoon Vanilla

Mix all ingredients together. Beat well by hand. Bake in greased glass pie plate (no crust). At 350 degrees for 30 minutes. Cool.

• 8 ounces sour cream
• 3 tablespoons sugar
• 1 teaspoon vanilla

Mix together the three ingredients. Pour over pie and bake at 350 degrees for 10 minutes. Chill. Top with cherry or blueberry pie filling.

Until next Wednesday, Remember Keep it Simple and Fast.

ANGELA'S IPOD

HIL ST. SOUL BLACK ROSE (2008)
3.5 STARS

This is the newest album by Hil St. Soul and while not as spectacular as “SOULidified” it is still a keeper. If you buy it, you are going to be in for a treat! They keep the same ingredients from their prior CDs flowing in this CD. It has well written, articulated and projected lyrics, harmonious productions and silky, soulful tones. The CD is at once exquisite, cool and strong.

The first track, "Wash Away" brings flavor as Hilary Mwelwa caresses the harmonies and the music brings you a tight groove line. Interesting and unexpected, the double entendre lyrics seem to speak to self-pride and to how those of the fairer persuasion, who sing soul, are given more credit than those of the darker hue: "Don't get it twisted, 'cause I gotta speak my mind/I'm not trying to split hairs, but I gotta bee in my bonnet/English rose singing soul music, they get praised for it/A black rose singing soul music gets no love for it."

In "Don't Forget The Ghetto", easily the best song on the album, we are presented with an insightful and inspiring cautionary message that reminds people not to forget their roots. “Sweetest Days" slows the tempo down a little bit. This is a song that reminisces about the past, but the stand out is her voice which sounds as rich and thick as a spoonful of honey. "We Were In Love" is a lush, rich song about a fractious relationship. "Broken Again" is an ultra-slow, heavy bass groove that follows a woman through the painful, yet cleansing process of mending her broken heart and “Gravity“ is a sexy song of love. "If I Was You" is an ironically deceptive upbeat groove about domestic abuse. In it, she advises a battered girlfriend to escape her abuser, saying, "I'd pack my bags, leave his a**, take a chance, play the wild card." And "Smile" is a beautiful mid-tempo song.

The beauty of Hil St. Soul is in the execution. Black Rose is a solid CD that combines soul with jazz and a little hip-hop. The production is crisp and perfect and the lyrics well written. The collaboration is solid and interesting enough to immediately draw you in. The beats have just enough of a progressive edge to keep things sounding new. Finally, a mid-tempo groove persists throughout much of the album. This makes for smooth, easy listen that will keep your head nodding from beginning to end. Ultimately, my suggestion is to pick this one up. You will be glad you did.

Check them out at http://www.myspace.com/hilstsoul

PLAY IT AS IT LIES

RIVER WINDS GOLF CLUB:
5 STARS

By Jeff Louis

At what point does one declare themselves a certifiable golf junkie? Is it when you’ve spent designated bill money on that new “distance advertised” driver? How about the golf vacation you took with your buddies during your wife’s pregnancy? Well, for me, it was debating whether or not to play in a rain and lightening storm. Before you say I must be off my meds, let me explain. I wouldn’t be doing my job effectively if I didn’t risk it all for you …. the readers (LOL).

River Winds Golf Club (RWGC), located in West Deptford Township, in southern New Jersey, is an absolute winner! Although RWGC has only been in existence since 2002, this course has matured to a celestial level. Course designer Ed Shearon, along with one of the famed “US Open” doctors, Tom Fazio, has brought British Open ,“links style” golf to New Jersey …. with a fury. In a word, this course is a beast, and I mean that in the most affectionate way. There is no shortage to the amount of emotional peaks and valleys RWGC places on your psyche. Offering native swirling love grass to frame the fairways and sand bunkers would have been enough to get your attention. But it doesn’t stop there. You will be challenged on every shot you take to think about the ramifications of an error. This course has eventual “PGA Tour venue” written all over it.

The 2003 PGA championship brought about a famous comment from designer Pete Dye that his creation was like “popcorn. Sometimes, people choke on popcorn.” Well, if that was popcorn, RWGC has caramel on it. Framed by the Delaware River (which separates New Jersey from Pennsylvania), RWGC offers panoramic views of the Philadelphia skyline. But don’t get caught up in that. If you take your mind off of this course too long you’ll suffer agricultural purgatory. There’s more drama here, from shot to shot, than watching your only daughter have her first date. For example, the signature hole is the par 3, 17th hole (above). Oh yes, that’s an island green that you fire at from an elevated tee box located 150 feet up on an adjacent bluff. Indeed, RWGC is the intravenous excitement factor golf needed in the Northeast...

Okay, let’s recap. Not only do we have all of the ingredients of your new championship level course; just think, you can grab a world famous Philly cheese steak sandwich afterwards and wax poetic about how many balls you’ve lost in a single round. You may not be a pro golfer, but on this course, you can feel like one. That is, until you hit that 1st tee shot. Remember, play it as it lies!

Recommendation: 5 Stars
Current Price: Week $50 Weekend $60
Par 70 Slope 70 Rating 69.3 Yardage 7072
Address: 1251 River Winds Drive, West Deptford New Jersey 08086
Website: http://www.riverwindsgolf.com

Photo courtesy: http//www.riverwindsgolf.com

Spiritual Journey - discernment and peace amid turmoil

.13 DISCERNMENT: Part ThreeBy Angela Skeete Davis

Now, last week we were discussing bringing peace into our lives? How does it happen? The books I have read suggest meditation. It is supposed to ground your spirit, put you more in tune with your body and your inner you and give you peace. I am working on that. I try to meditate as often as I can. I find it does keep me more grounded and in tune with the needs of my body and spirit. I find that I am more at peace when I practice meditation. It does work. The hardest part is just finding or rather carving out time to meditate.

There are people in my life who exude peace and serenity but their lives are in turmoil. When I ask them how this could be, they say they don’t let the turmoil around them touch them. They tell me to let go of the things that make me crazy, to let go of past issues that bring me down. I tell them it is not so easy. They say that is what makes it worth it. I am trying to do those things as well. It does work. It is also not easy...

I also know people who seem wired yet there lives are, for the most part, in order. They can’t explain why they always seem in turmoil, but I often sense that they don’t appreciate the balance in their lives. Frequently these people are never satisfied or are always complaining. I find that they let even the little things get to them. Trust, I don’t want what they have. It doesn’t seem to work. I would rather be at peace amidst turmoil than be in turmoil amidst peace.

Finally, I also know of one person who says his life is in flux, who says he is seeking peace. It is sometimes hard to believe because there are times when he seems so serene it is almost palpable. But upon careful evaluation. I find he is not necessarily serene he is just tired. Now, tiredness can bring on peace. But that is not how we want to get peace in our lives. We want it to happen in a positive way and sometimes tired means depression, a state we don’t want to be in.

I think we have to realize that we are given opportunities to experience the things we most desire. We just don’t know how to go about capitalizing on those opportunities. I would suggest we look at our lives. Perhaps the things that are happening to us, that are frustrating us, are the very things that, if we let them, will help us to find what we seek. Perhaps my friend’s life, like most of our lives, is revolving in a manner that is really an opportunity for him (and us) to receive the peace he (we) seeks. I believe he (we) must pay attention to the moments and be discerning. Peace will come. That is the one thing you may not find by giving it to others.

So this week, do not let life get to you. Let go of the things that normally frustrate you. Refuse to be ruffled by things that normally make you crazy. Pay attention to the moments and opportunities for you to be at peace. Practice does make for perfect and eventually peace may be an automatic part of your life. If that is what you seek.

Next week, back to “The Invitation”

“Dedicate yourself to the good you deserve and desire for yourself. Give yourself peace of mind. You deserve to be happy. You deserve delight.” Hannah Arendt (German-born American Philosopher and Political Scientist. 1906-1975)

Democratic National Convention in Denver

Perennial
is proud to be hosting “Party With A Purpose,” a series of receptions during the week of August 25th, 2008 at the Democratic National Convention in Denver, Colorado. Each of the eight events will be centered on themes ranging from a “Welcome to Denver ” Celebration to a “Celebration of Civil Rights Icons” honoring the achievements and contributions of Coretta Scott King and Fannie Lou Hamer, among others, on Tuesday at Earls Restaurant...

Throughout the week there will be appearances by political figures such as the Rev. Al Sharpton and other influential personalities. On Tuesday evening at Vinyl Nightclub, actor Hill Harper from CSI: NY will headline a reception for his foundation, “MANifest Your Destiny,” a non-profit youth organization dedicated to empowering, encouraging, and inspiring underserved males to succeed. On Wednesday morning at Earls Restaurant , actress Annette Bening will receive the Spotlight Initiative Award from the Creative Coalition in conjunction with her work for the film “14 Women.”

The week will culminate on Thursday with two significant events. In the morning, Martin Luther King III and his sister Elder Bernice King will help celebrate the 45th anniversary of Dr. King’s “I Have a Dream” speech. Later that evening at the Hyatt Host Hotel there will be a “Yes We Can” Celebration, following Senator Barack Obama’s acceptance of the Democratic nomination for President of the United States . Special guest Will.i.am and friends from his groundbreaking music video “Yes We Can” will be in attendance along with members of his band, The Black Eyed Peas, and numerous other celebrities.

Click Here for more info.

This Week in South Florida

Thursday, August 21 -24
Art Metrano’s Accidental Comedy: Jews Don’t Belong On Ladders
Location: Broward Center for the Performing Arts in Fort Lauderdale
Cost: $25-$35
You'll be buoyed by the triumphant spirit, and bowled over by the outrageous humor actor/comedian Art Metrano brings to the stage in this riveting account of his rise to fame and subsequent fall from the ladder of success. Click Here for More info.

Friday, August 22-24
Patrick Swayze Film Festival
Location: Bill Cosford Cinema, University of Miami
Ph: 305-284-4861
Including Red Dawn, Road House, Dirty Dancing and To Wong Foo. Click Here for more info.


Sunday, August 24
Classic Sundays
A HISTORY LESSON IN MUSIC EVERY WEEK CALLED "CLASSIC SUNDAYS"@ LOVE/HATE LOUNGE 423 Washington Ave, Miami Beach featuring PROFESSOR DJ SELF BORN rockin OLD SCHOOL HIP-HOP & SOUL till 5am!!!Doors @ 10pm NO COVER, NO WAIT, NO BULL

This Week in Chicago

Weekend Festivals - August 22- 27

• Friday: Jammin' at the Zoo: Soul Asylum, Lincoln Park Zoo
• Saturday: Chicago Reggae Festival, Union Park
• Saturday & Sunday: Taste of Greece, Halsted (Monroe to Van Buren)
• Saturday & Sunday: Viva! Chicago Latin Music Festival, Grant Park, 10:30am - 9:30pm
• Wednesday: Music Without Borders, Millennium Park
  
  

Saturday, August 23
Napa Wine Tasting
Location: Winestyles, 1240 S. Michigan Ave.
Time: 7pm - 10pm
Enjoy live music by jazz trumpeter Corey Wilkes and bass player Junius Paul and fine wine by WineStyles.

Wednesday, August 27
Jazz Club Tour
Time: 6pm - 12am
Cost: Advance tour button sales are $25 and are available at any of the participating clubs August 1- 26, 2008. On the day of the tour, buttons cost $30.

The Jazz Institute’s 22nd Jazz Club Tour is an annual kick off for the Chicago Jazz Festival sponsored with the Mayor’s Office of Special Events. Click Here for participating clubs, artist, and route.

This Week in DC

Friday, August 22
Ben's Chili Bowl Celebrates 50 years
With a Block Party today from 10:30 am to 2pm. There will be food, games, and music. Sunday there will be a free concert at the 9:30 club and door open at 1pm - first come basis.

Saturday, August 23
Thai Embassy Festival
Location: Union Station
Time: 9:30 am - 8:30pm
Music, dancing, food, and other cultural activities.

Dating Dimes* on a Dime in DC

*slang noun in relation to physical beauty in place of a "perfect ten"

21. Tigers and Lions Continued: Cat’s out of the Bag

By Howard Westmoreland

Txxx squinted as my attorney said her goodbyes, and made her way past us. She had an obligation, to a friend, that required she be awake at the crack of dawn on a Saturday morning. You know, if my friendships rested on such compliances, I’d just face this cold, stark world alone.

“Man, I have some stories to tell you…” Now, I already knew what kind of cat would jump out of the bag Txxx was holding. For effect, he jostled the bag a bit. I could hear the tabby shriek and claw at the burlap. “Miami is crazy.” His smile dimmed. “I am having 3somes…”

Want to roll with the Dimes? Click to continue reading…

Yeah.

You know, you don’t have to be an educated, groomed and articulate Black Man -– from a good college -- to have exotic – er – dating experiences in Miami. Or in any city, really. I mean, CNN did this whole thing on being Black in America which was, like, an infomercial for any Black man in this country who has a) Jobs, b) Baby_Mommas, and/or c) HIV_Infected_Cells. The standard for success was not, um, like, super-duper high.

So given the math, a Black man with a job, his health and no children get the lion’s share of the single (and perhaps not-so-single) women in any major city, for as long as he wants – or until he develops a reputation for overindulging. And depending on his financial circumstances, those 3 criteria become pretty flexible. Don’t believe me? A certain retired basket ballplayer can illustrate the flexibility of the health criteria.

And with these statistics played out so dramatically, you don’t have to be, like, deep into Trigonometry to play some women like marbles. And if you are pursuing romantic liaisons with certain women, it doesn’t take a lot of engineering to find yourself in a love-triangle (or a 3way).

This guy, like me, is a Tiger. He didn’t have to tell me about the 3 Card Molly in Miami. And it really resonated for me why he found it so hilarious that I was ready to settle down.

He reminded me that I went to Morehouse, and that my first obligation was to get my money. “I’m okay on money” I told him. I remind you, I had been drinking. He scolded me, immediately. “You are not alright on money until your name is Buffett!”

Five years ago he would have been correct. I affect this whole, Bohemian creative lifestyle, but under the wrinkled white t-shirt, beats the steady rhythm of a Machiavellian ambition.

But, five years ago I sort of decided that being a husband and a father was where I was really driven. And that does not make me less a great predator. It just makes me a different one. Lions are no less powerful or ferocious than tigers. But they are very different in one respect: A lion raises his family. He finds a nice, quiet patch of African savannah, and he presents it to his lioness(es). She is the one who goes about the business of preparing meals and nursing cubs. The lion is not the King of the jungle because he roars and has big teeth. It is because he is the head of a household, which is called a Pride. And all he does all day is sleep, play with his cubs, mount his lionesses and protect his Pride.

Far be it from me to knock another tiger’s hunt, but I have been through this jungle before, and I am ready to change my stripes.

GOLF NEWBIES

02 Links Life

By Jeff Louis


So you still want to play golf? Once again, your personal mentor, is here to guide you through.

What are the different clubs and how many should I have in my bag? 14 clubs is the rule. You have:


1) the driver-the biggest club in the bag. It is used for tee shots.
2) Fairway woods/hybrids - they are used to hit long distances from the ground or off the tee. Specifically, they are used to control distance and accuracy,
3) Irons - they are used to advance the ball finite distances or for escaping trouble - like trees, bushes, or in thick rough*,
3) Wedges - they are scoring clubs. They are used when you're 100 yards or closer to the green, and
4) Putters - they are used on the green to roll the ball into the hole.

How many people are allowed to play at the same time?

If you've watched golf telecasts, most of the time you'll see 2 players in a group. For the weekend warriors like us, 4 is the maximum in a group; unless, of course, you have permission from the course to have 5, and that, is rare.

Who hits (tees it up) first?

You may have the person who finished the previous hole in the fewest strokes tee up first. This is called Honors. You may hear someone say, OK it's your box. That is a sign of respect. You can also play ready golf, meaning, if you're ready to hit, do so. This is to maintain pace of play. It would not be considered disrespectful to play out of turn in that style.

What are the colored balls or markers on the tee boxes for?

1)The black markers signify championship/pro skill. They usually indicate the highest skilled golfers playing the longest distance of the course. They also indicate a scratch or low handicap ability.
2) The blue markers signify very skilled golfers. They usually indicate a mid to low handicap ability.
3) The white markers signify the average ability golfer. They usually indicate a mid to high handicap ability.
4) The red/yellow markers signify senior or average/nonprofessional lady golfers. This usually indicates those playing the shortest distance on the course.

Note, the furthest tee box in the rear is very skilled golfers. You shouldn't be back there as a beginner. That should be your aspiration.

Why do I hear someone say good shot when the ball they hit wasn't that good?

In a word, etiquette. It's just plain good manners. Trust me, there will be occasions when something negative is said due to a wayward shot. That should come from the player who hit it, not you. Encourage good play, don't tear down another players misfortune.

In the meantime, enjoy your Links Life.

This week's golf terms:
par - is the number of strokes the course determines it takes to finish each hole and then to finish the entire course.

scratch - is the ability to shoot par or better. Better, it is your ability to play based on the course you are playing. More specifically, it is your ability to play the course in the number of strokes the course determines. So if you are generally a 70 stroke golfer and you play a 70 par course, you are a scratch golfer at that course.

handicap - is your ability to play, in numbers. The lower the number, the better the player. A handicap index is used when two or more golfers are playing together. It is like being spotted points in basketball because the person you are playing against is better than you. For example, if you play with a golfer who is a scratch person at a par 70 course and you are an 8O stroke player, the scratch player should give you a handicap of 1o to balance the two of you out, thus giving you an actual chance of winning. To sum it up, a handicap index gives golfers of different playing abilities a chance to fairly compete against one another.

rough - is the grass on the side of the fairway that is longer, thicker and gnarly and therefore harder to hit through.

fairway - is the oasis of closely mowed grass that can give you the best shot - usually the area you should be hitting from.

green - is the surface that you putt on.

strokes - are the number of times you either attempt to hit or actually hit the ball.

This week, I will also give you a few pieces of encouraging golf lingo and metaphors. Use them to celebrate a good shot. Try these commonly heard terms, or, make up some of your own. "That's a golf shot there!" "Nicely done." "Useful, that." "That was restaurant quality right there." "Tasty."

Spiritual Journey - more on discernment (to get what you want)

SPIRITUAL JOURNEY .12

DISCERNMENT: Part Two

By Angela Skeete Davis

To follow up where I left off last week, I also had a conversation with a friend who said he ached to have peace in his life. When he started to talk about it, it became clear how important it was to him. It also became clear he was spending so much time wanting it, that wanting it had, in a sense, become for him a way of thinking, being, living.

Our conversation really bothered me and I got to thinking about all of us, the things we crave and the things we want. How do we get the things that we say we want in our lives?

I watched a movie recently that I thought I would dislike, but I actually enjoyed it and learned from it. Following is the movie's message. Basically, it said when we ask God/The Universe/the Ultimate Energy for something, it is not just magically given to us…instantly. Although, if we are honest, that is what we usually want and expect. Instead, we are given opportunities to receive the thing or things for which we have asked. Therefore, if we want love or joy or peace in our lives, we can’t just sit back and wait for it to miraculously happen. We must first believe we will receive the things we ask for; and then, we have to see the opportunities we are being given to receive the thing or things we desire. Last we have to act on those opportunities.

I want happiness, so I wake up each morning anticipating happiness. I make it a point to both enjoy my day and look for opportunities for happiness. Then, at the end of the day, I look back and say thank you for the moments of happiness I received and enjoyed. I truly believe most of us are given the opportunities to have the things we most desire but we just don’t see those opportunities.

It’s like looking for love and not realizing the person you should be with is right in front of you, because he or she has not come gift wrapped the way you expected. I think the answer to receiving the things we ask for is discernment. I think the answer is to appreciate each moment. By doing so we give ourselves the chance to see the opportunities God/The Universe/The Ultimate Energy is giving us to receive the things we most desire.

If you try this approach and do not begin to receive what you seek, try examining yourself. Are you holding yourself back from the things you most want out of fear? Are you your own worst enemy? When you have honestly answered those questions, take a step back and make a plan of action. There is no time like now to actively seek what you want. Oh ……. And trust …… if you don’t have what you seek, plant a seed. If you don’t have love, start by giving love to others; if you don’t have joy, start by bringing joy to others; if you don’t have happiness, start by making others happy. This works.

But how does this get you peace? That is a hard question. I am still working on this and will finish next week. In the meantime, spend this week bringing joy, happiness and love to the lives of others. Trust …. It will be returned tenfold and you will be glad you did.

“Whatever we are waiting for - peace of mind, contentment, grace, the inner awareness of simple abundance - it will surely come to us, but only when we are ready to receive it with an open and grateful heart.”

Sarah Ban Breathnach

author, columnist, lecturer

This Week in South Florida

Tuesday, August 19

Simply Sushi 

Location: Fairchild Tropical Botanic Garden, 10901 Old Cutler Road, Coral Gables, FL

Time: 6:30pm

Cost: $65

Registration Deadline: Thursday, August 14 

Contact: 305-667-1651 ext. 3322  

Chef Bulgarin of Delicious Catering is hosting a sushi preparation class.  You can now learn how to prepare, roll and cut sushi. He will also share his recipes and tell you where you can buy the ingredients to prepare sushi. Bring an apron.

Friday, August 15
Tiki Sunsets Happy Hour
Location: Poolside at the  Lava Tiki Bar & Grille at the Crowne Plaza Hollywood Beach, 4000 S. Ocean Drive, on the intracoastal at Hallandale Beach Blvd. 
Time: 6pm - 9pm 
You can refresh with a cool Tiki cocktail or an ice cold beer as you unwind to the relaxing rhythms of live tropical music. The Chef offers specialty grill items and delightfully fresh sushi. Promises a spectacular South Florida sunset and incredible views of the Intracoastal Waterway.


Thursday, August 14 

Olympic Chamber Dinner
Location: Mr. Chu's Hong Kong Cuisine Restaurant, 890 Washington Ave., Miami Beach
Time: 7:30pm
Cost: $35 pp
The Miami Beach Chamber of Commerce and Mr. Chu's are hosting the Olympic Chamber dinner. The theme is the summer Olympics in Beijing. Traditional gourmet Chinese dishes will be served and the evening features a five-course dinner with a variety of dishes. Open to Chamber members and outside guests.

O's Corner: Fast Meals With Pantry Staples

Yes, cooking from scratch is almost always the better.  Good ingredients are the key to great results.  But convenience has its place, even in the best kitchens.  Here are some products we always have or should have on hand.  I give the brand when it matters.


1.  HELLMAN'S MAYONNAISE
It's not just something you spread on a sandwich.  This brand is consistently high-quality.

• Uses: Dress it up with pureed canned chipotle peppers or red pepper or tomato paste from a tube.  Brush it on fish before broiling.

• Or make garlic aioli: Mix 1 cup mayo with 2 tablespoons olive oil, 1 tablespoon lemon juice, 4 cloves grated garlic and 1/4 teaspoon salt.  (Watch out - it gets stronger as it sits.)

2.  GREY POUPON

The only thing handier than mayonnaise is Dijon mustard.  There are plenty of good brands, but Poupon is still great quality for the price.

• Uses: Add a little to the vinegar when you make vinaigrette and the dressing will emulsify more readily.
• Or try this easy mustard chicken:  Brush Dijon on one side of skinless, boneless chicken breasts.  Press mustard side into fresh bread crumbs.  Place crumb-side up in a baking pan and drizzle each breast with 2 teaspoons olive oil.  Bake at 375 degrees for 30 mins., until chicken is cooked through and crumbs are golden brown.

3.  BOXED BROTHS

Swanson's 16-oz. box gets my vote as the best-tasting one on the shelf.  Also Kitchen Basic's small boxes in ham, turkey, clam and pork flavors.

• Uses: Soups and sauces.  Cook rice in broth for a flavor boost.  Use millk and broth to trim some fat from mashed potatoes.

4.  CANNED RED ALASKAN SALMON

Milder and less fishy than tuna.  Many brands are wild-caught too - check the label.  Red, usually from sockeye, has better flavor than pink.

• Uses:  Salmon salad or salmon chowder (with broth, milk, frozen hash browns and frozen corn).
• Or salmon patties: Drain a 7.5-ounce can red salmon and mix with 1/3 cup saltine cracker crumbs.  Saute 2 tablespoons diced onion in a little olive oil and add to the salmon with a beaten egg and 2 teaspoons lemon or lime juice.  Form into 2 patties and fry about 4 mins. per side.

5.  NUTELLA

This chocolaty hazelnut spread is like a short-cut dessert in a jar.

• Uses: Roll it up in crepes.  Combine with sliced bananas in a sandwich.  Melt it in a microwave for fondue.
• Or make chocolate "croissants": Open a tube of crescent roll dough.  Spread each wedge with Nutella, roll up and bake 12 to 13 mins. at 350 degrees.

6. PILLSBURY PIE CRUSTS

They're in the refrigerator case, but you can also freeze them.  To improve them, dust a work surface with flour and roll the crusts out just a little thinner.

• Uses:  Pies, both sweet and savory, such as quiches.  Use round biscuit cutters to press out smaller circles to line tartlet pans.  Or brush a cold brie with jam, wrap in pie crust (seams on the bottom) and bake.
• If you really don't have time, make a rustic tart: Place crust on a baking sheet.  Pile canned fruit filling (any flavor) in the center, leaving about a 2-inch border.  Fold the edges up and over, leaving the center open.  Bake at 350 degrees until crust is brown and fruit is bubbling.

Remember, until next Wednesday, Keep it Simple and Fast

ANGELA'S IPOD

VIKTER DUPLAIX

BOLD AND BEAUTIFUL (2006)

3 Stars

Do any of you remember the days of the  “black light?” You know, when parties took place in the basement, in the dark; and, everyone was hot and sweaty and grinding to seductive tunes on their stereo. That is what listening to the best of Vikter makes me think of. He is no great singer or lyricist but he is seductive, even mesmerizing at times. He is also very laid back and does a good job of blending jazz with ethnic, urban grooves...

“Make A Baby” and “Fade It” are very pretty. “The Way That I Feel” is definitely a song you want to play when that special someone is over for a…romantic dinner. “Another Great Love Gone By” is very sultry, nicely layered and features lush background vocals. And, “Pure” and “Temple of Thoughts” are a breath of fresh air as the CD’s only mid-tempo tracks.

When it is good, and it is often good, his music works. It is for quiet…intimate moments. It is also good background music for an intimate gathering or for when you need to mellow out or de-stress. But beware, his music is so soft and laid back, it just might put you to sleep or, at its worst, bore you to tears. So are you in the mood for something a little different? At home with that special someone? Need to unwind? Put in Vikter. He will do the trick.

Check him out at http://www.vikterduplaix.com/main.html

This Week in Chicago

Monday, August 18

Girls Night Out for the Kids

Location: Carnivale, 702 W. Fulton St

Time: 6pm - 9pm

Cost: $125 advance, $175 at the door

Carnivale hosts a benefit to support the Chicago Children's Advocacy Center.  This is a "girls only" party complete with massages, eyelash extensions, manicures, tarot card readings, and more.

Click Here for more info. 

Friday, August 15 - 17

Grant Park Music Festival 

Location: Jay Pritzker Pavillion, Millennium Park

Friday: Great Opera Choruses at 8:30pm

Saturday: Great Opera Choruses at 7:30pm

Sunday: Brass Band of Battle Creek at 6pm 

Thursday, August 14

Jazz Featuring Nicole Henry

Location: Crimson Lounge,  333 N. Dearborn, Hotel Sax Chicago

Kelan Phil Cohran & The Legacy of Sun Ra
Location: Jay Pritzker Pavillion, Millennium Park
Time: 6:30 pm
Cohran is a former Sun Ra band member and a composer, trumpeter, and educator who connects new and old jazz traditions.

Wednesday, August 13
The Summer Breeze Jazz Concert Series
Location: Room 21,  2110 S. Wabash
Time: 6pm - 9pm

This week features jazz artist Yaw and special guest Malik Yusef, spoken word artist.  Weather permitting the performance will take place on the Room 21 patio.  Room 21 will also offer 1/2 price drink specials. 

Live Jazz at M Lounge - Gary Tu Trio
Location: 1520 S. Wabash
Time: 7pm - 10pm

Grant Park Music Festival - Act 1: Wagners Die Walkure (Concert Version)
Location: Jay Pritzker Pavillion, Millennium Park
Time: 6:30pm


Monday, August 11
Bar 1's Big Break

Location: Duffy's Tavern & Grille, 420 1/2 West Diversey

Time: Every Monday Night until a winner crowned 

Watch out American Idol it's Bar 1's Big Break, the vocal competition.  Chicago locals battle their voices for a $15,000 prize.  There are 7 contestants left out of an original 400.  This is my second year enjoying the food, drinks, and vocalists.  It's not too late for you to join the party. 

Variety Night

Location: Exposure Tapas Restaurant, 1315 S. Wabash

Cost: $20 RSVP HERE for complimentary admission

South Loop Social Presents Variety Night at Exposure. Menu Available, Drink Specials, and Band plays 6:30pm - 10:00pm.

During the month of August, Exposure will also provide you a complimentary dessert in honor of its 1st Anniversary/Birthday. Celebrate your birthday month on the following dates.

• January and February - Tuesday Aug 12th
• March and April - Wednesday Aug 13th
• May and June - Thursday Aug 14th
• July and August - Friday August 15th
• September and October - Saturday August 16th
• November and December - Sunday August 17th
  *Birthday promotion occurs on dates provided only. ID required as proof of patrons' birthday month. One complimentary dessert for the celebrating patron only.

August 1 - August 28

14th Annual Black Harvest International Festival of Film and Video

The Gene Siskel Film Center hosts the 14th edition of the Black Harvest International Festival of Film and Video. It is the  Midwest’s biggest celebration of the black experience on film, Black Harvest highlights talent from around the US and around the world, but places emphasis on Chicago-based filmmakers.

Click Here for more info and event details.

August 13 - August 27

Whiskey Unplugged
Location: Whiskey Blue at the W City Center, 172 W. Adams St.
Live music from Todd Carey and Monica de Silva.  Reservations suggested.
Click Here for more info.

PLAY IT AS IT LIES

SPRAIN LAKE GOLF COURSE: 3 stars

By Jeff Louis

Let me ask you a question, if by Disney’s standards, you whistle while you work, what do you do while playing golf? My answer, it doesn’t matter, you’re playing golf! You’re supposed to enjoy just being out amongst nature, "fellowshipping." This game is your own personal psychotherapist. That being said, this week I move the analyst’s couch up to Sprain Lake in Westchester, NY...

This is one of the most non-pretentious and fun tracks in Westchester N. It may not carry the prestige of Winged Foot (a famous private golf course that hosted the 2006 US Open), but to the players here you wouldn’t know any different. At only 6110 yards from the back tees and with a rating under its given par 70, it seems like an easy day is waiting. Be aware there are no givens on this course. Off the tee, on most holes, you can see where you should plot your shot placement. And here’s that siren, calling you to be a hero. Don’t listen to her. There are some severe downhill angles and side hill lies that will have you asking yourself “why did I do that?”

Sprain Lake plays tighter than a drummer in James Browns’ band. There are a few holes where an errant tee shot can still be played. Still not convinced? How about some of the most quietly undulated greens designed to test your patience, especially with some select pin placement. You can easily see the break go one way; yet the ball may roll the opposite way. What Sprain Lake doesn’t have in length is definitely made up by its challenges. If you like to walk the course, be prepared to warm up rigorously. The back 9 holes will definitely challenge your calves.

Sprain Lake has a very small pro shop that gets right to the point. It has shirts, gloves, balls, hats, and equipment that can be purchased at excellent prices. Here’s a big plus, a new driving range is now open at the far end of the parking lot. In addition, the halfway house behind the 9th green has very good chili dogs and reasonable prices as far as golf courses go. Done playing? Head in to the bar/restaurant behind the clubhouse to chill out with your favorite beverage in a relaxed atmosphere. Westchester County, NY golf keeps you coming back. Until next week, play it as it lies.

Recommendation: 3 Stars

Current Price: Week $42, Weekend $56

Par 70, Slope 70, Rating 69.3, Yardage 6110

Address: 290 East Grassy Sprain Rd Yonkers, NY

Website: http://www.westchestergov.com/parks/golf/SprainLake.htm

SPIRITUAL JOURNEY - Discernment

11. DISCERNMENT, Part One

By Angela Skeete Davis

I have so much in my head and heart to share I am just not sure where to begin. So bear with me if I seem to ramble. That is not my intent. Also, this will be a “two-parter“, I hope it works for you. First, a friend implied that when you are friends with a writer/blogger, you take the chance of being part of their writings. I know that to be true and this is proof.

I am reading this book and am at the part where the author seems to be saying that we, as individual and collective egos, seem to need and thrive on competition and conflict. I am not sure I agree since I long for peace in my life. But I am double-minded. You see, I also agree because it seems that the closer I get to living the life I long for, the more strife seems to come with the package. It is almost as if the “devil” is aware and doing all he can to prevent me from getting to my small haven of peace and joy and happiness. However, I do not worry any longer - I have vowed to never give up...

My point, I find that there are people in life who are also where I am, either consciously or unconsciously. Where am I? I am here; I am taking what few steps I can to change that perception of the ego, or at least I am doing my part to be the real me, the me beneath my ego, my own little bit of awareness. What am I talking about? Today I had a conversation with someone (let’s call this person B) who, for years, I hated talking to because our conversations always left me angry. B always said something to irk, annoy or irritate me. But lately I have found our conversations to be a blessing. I would like to say B has really changed and that is why our conversations are so good. But I know that is only half the story. I have also changed. Together we have changed and so now, that change, has allowed us to be able to talk and share and love together. I am so grateful and blessed.

My point, B said something I thought was monumental. Not because it was so profound but because of its simplicity. It occurs to me that we sometimes miss things in life because we are expecting things to be monumental. Instead, it is something so simple we miss it. To simplify a long conversation, B said that she and her spouse were reading a transformational book together and sharing its lessons together. I thought, WOW! That is what I want. Someone I can share a book with that is supposed to be transformative. That way we may transform and grow together. I think relationships often fail because the two do not grow together, the two make no attempts to share all aspects of their lives, where possible, together. I will never forget what B said to me. And when I finally find the person I want to share my life with, I will do the best I can to ensure that it is someone I can share growing and transforming with so that neither of us leaves the other behind.

I think this is a moment of clarity of emotion. I think this is profound for me because it is the clarity of emotion I crave. Clearly God/the universe/the ultimate energy is giving me the opportunity to receive the thing I ask for and am working towards. I am just glad that I was actually being mindful, enjoying the moment, actually in the moment. I am just glad that this time I had the discernment to realize it.

This week, seek discernment in your life. This week check your relationships. Are you letting people you care about slip away because you are allowing yourself to grow apart from them. If that is not what you want, find ways to include them in your growth. Find ways to get them on the same page as you so that the two of you will be able to share the journey of self-growth (true, inner self-growth) together. And while you are doing so, be MINDFUL. ENJOY THE MOMENT!!! And until next time…Take care of you.

The supreme end of education is expert discernment in all things--the power to tell the good from the bad, the genuine from the counterfeit, and to prefer the good and the genuine to the bad and the counterfeit.”

Author unknown

DW's Loop

“How can you stay in the Loop, if you aren’t in the Loop?”

August 8 – 10, 2008

 

Friday

Zentra's Jack Fridays 9 Year Anniversary Party

923 W. Weed

DJs: Derrick Carter and DJ Lego

Party goes from 9pm - 4am

9pm – 10:30pm Cocktail Reception / 9pm – midnight Passed Hors D’oeuvres

RSVP at zentranightclub.com

 

Saturday

WESTfest 2008 on Chicago Avenue (Between Damen & Wood)

12pm -10pm

$5 Suggested Donation

Live music all weekend

More Info: http://www.westfestchicago.com/

 

Sunday

Salsa Sundays @ the Joynt

650 N. Dearborn

Free Salsa Lessons, Live Latin Trio & 4 Rooms

Info: www.emailmediagroup.com/app/view_message/fantastic4promo/1216342559.html

RSVP: info@4fantasticos.com

 

Cocktail for the Week - Grapes of Wrath

Ingredients:

• 3oz Blue Curacao

• 1oz Vodka

• 2oz Cranberry juice
• 2oz Grape juice
• 1oz Coca-Cola
• Splash of pineapple juice

Instructions:
Fill a collins glass with ice. Pour blue Curacao and vodka into glass. Fill 3/4 of the glass with 1/2 cranberry juice and 1/2 grape juice. Then fill the rest of the glass with coke. Add a splash of pineapple at the top and then shake. (See http://www.webtender.com/)

Bonus of the Week - Mo'Nique @ the Horseshoe Casino

Horseshoe Casino

777 Casino Center Drive in Hammond, IN

Tickets are $60

www.ticketmaster.com/event/070040E284DA25D0

http://www.thevenue-chicago.com/

Dating Dimes* on a Dime in DC

*slang noun in relation to physical beauty in place of a "perfect ten"

20. Tigers & Lions

By  Howard Westmoreland

I went to a small Liberal Arts college in Atlanta. That’s a true statement, but not an honest one, exactly.

If you have never heard of Morehouse College, then I will give you a few broad strokes. It’s all dudes, and it’s 99% African American. I would estimate that about 75% of the (alum and) enrolled are type A personalities. In fact, if there were a letter in the alphabet that preceded “A”, then you would be closer, in description, to the level of intensity that runs through the campus. Sigh. Actually, I would say, comfortably, that about 50% of the total students and alum are fairly close to megalomaniacal – except only for the fact that our grandeur tends to be consistent and predictable, rather than delusional.

Oh, and our mascot is the Maroon Tiger.

I’m not reminded, often of my pedigree. I work in an environment where background is way less important than productivity. I overachieve in a technology marketplace where competitors hail from way over in Asia. Tigers are pretty common in India, but not the type of Tiger that I represent.

But what the hell does any of this have to do with dating, Dub? I ran into a classmate of mine, two Saturdays, ago. I was in Posh (again) with my (sexy) attorney, because we were celebrating my American Express’ return to responsible safekeeping. We were at the bar surveying suburbanites when I recognized T.

He was alone. Consistent with tigers, we hunt by ourselves. We greeted each other with the one-arm-hug-one-hand-shake and immediately bemoan the lack of interesting women in the nightclub.

“This is boring”, T tells me. I asked him what was new with him. “I’m in Miami, man, working for Oxxxx.” I tell him I am working for I##. The companies compete. I told him I was recently in Miami. Now let me say this, T could not seem to look in my attorney’s direction without squinting his eyes. It was as if she were a shining a bright lamp onto our conversation.

“Man, Miami is crazy.” I told him that I had some idea of its craziness. At least how crazy it could get. But I also told him that I was tired of hanging out, and that I would not be partying that much in Miami, anyway. I had had a few drinks at dinner and I had half of one in my hand. Meaning that I guess I forgot who I was talking to when I told T that I was ready to just get married to a good woman, have me some babies, and take it easy.

He looked at me like I was wearing plaid bell-bottoms and an airplane collar before he almost collapsed laughing at me. I like a good laugh myself, but never at my own expense. He was not laughing with me.

“What? Get married? Black man?!?!” Then squinted over at my attorney and asked me “What’s up with her?” Perhaps she was a spy…

Anyway, rejoin me next week as T patiently points out the many flaws in my marriage hypothesis.

O' Corner: Salisbury Steak

Tired of your usual recipes for ground beef? Then try this fast and simple recipe for Salisbury steak. It’s economical and tastes great.


I wondered how this dish got the name Salisbury steak. Apparently, the name came from an English doctor, James Salisbury, who, in 1888, claimed that if you ate cooked ground beef three times a day followed by copious amounts of hot water, then you could cure disease. I don't claim it will cure anything but your hunger.

Salisbury Steak with Mushroom Gravy

• 1 pound lean ground beef
• 1 small onion, minced
• 1/3 cup each minced green and red pepper
• 1 1/2 teaspoon Worcestershire sauce (optional)
• Salt and pepper
• 1 egg
• 1/4 cup bread crumbs
• 1 to 2 tablespoons butter
• 1/2 pound sliced button mushrooms
• 1 tablespoon all-purpose flour 
•  1 cup beef stock or beef gravy
  

Mix ground beef with onions, peppers, Worcestershire sauce, salt and pepper to taste, eggs and bread crumbs. Form into 4 oval patties. Heat half the butter in a skillet over medium heat and cook the patties until nicely browned, about 6 minutes per side. Place in single layer in baking dish. Sauté the mushrooms in the remaining butter until nicely browned, about 5 minutes on medium-high heat. Sprinkle the flour over the mushrooms and very gradually add the beef stock, whisking until it is thick, 3 to 5 minutes. If you prefer, you can use a jar of beef gravy instead of the flour and stock. Pour the mushrooms and gravy over the beef patties and bake in a 350 degree oven until heated through, about 15 minutes. Serve with rice, potatoes or risotto. Serves four.

Remember Keep it Simple and Fast.

This Week in Chicago

Wednesday, August 6

Summer Breeze Concert Series, New Location
Location: Room 21, 2110 S. Wabash

Time: 6pm -9pm

Events by Eve has moved this weekly live jazz concert from Red Kiva to Room 21. This week the featured artist is Tiaybe.

Maven Presents Wine Down Wednesdays at Flemings Steakhouse and Wine Bar!

Location: Flemings Prime Steakhouse and Wine Bar (4 Stars)

Time: 6:30pm - 8pm

Brought to you by Sarah Vargo and featuring Moet and Chandon Nector Champagne, Paul Dolan and Parducci Pinot Noir!

Mendelssohn's Violin Concerto

Location: Jay Pritzker Pavillion, Millennium Park

Time: 6:30

Thursday, August 7

Amir ElSaffar's Two Rivers Large Ensemble

Location: Jay Pritzker Pavillion, Millennium Park

Time: 6:30 pm

Chicago-born, Iraqi-American trumpeter Amir ElSaffar fuses traditional Iraqi Maqam music along with modern jazz, in a new work written for a 16-piece ensemble of Arabic and Western instrumentation. In this concert, ElSaffar contrasts the Iraqi modalities with the heavy grooves and free textures of jazz, yet, always maintaining the feeling of blues. Also appearing are Chicagoans Jeff Parker (guitar); Rudresh Mahanthappa (alto saxophone); Zafer Tawil (violin, percussion) and other special guests.

Friday, August 8 - Saturday, August 9
Beijing Games Opening Ceremonies Watch Party
Location: Sam's Wines and Spirits, 50 E. Roosevelt Road (Roosevelt and Wabash in the South Loop)
Time: 7pm - 10pm
Cost: $50 at the door
The Next Generation Leadership Advisory Council (NGLAC) celebrates the 2008 Beijing Olympic and Paralympic Summer Games and our participating USA Olympians!

The store will be closed to the public, but will remain open to NGLAC members, families and friends.

Tickets are $40.00 per person, which includes 3 hours of food and beverage, as well as wine tastings throughout the store.
Tickets can be purchased in advance for $40.00 a person, or 4 for $150.00.
To purchase tickets please visit: https://secure.acceptiva.com/?cst=49e936.
At the door, tickets can be purchased for $50.00 per person for cash or check payable to Chicago 2016.


Art di' Gras III Champagne Reception Celebration

Location: Gallery Guichard, 3521 S. King Drive
Time: 5pm - 10pm

Gallery Guichard will host its third anniversary celebration and exhibition, Art di���Gras III, with a collectors��� champagne preview reception at 5pm. The reception will feature harpist, Josefe Verna. In addition there will be an artists��� talk from 8-9pm. The exhibit runs through September 23, 2008. The festivities continue Saturday, August 9, 2008 with a twelve hour celebration in the gallery from 2pm until 2am. DJ Brian Sayles, Kahil el Zabar and the Ritual Trio, and neo-soul artist Lady J will provide the musical entertainment. In addition, the day will include live art demonstrations by Derric Clemmons, , Mohameth Diagne, Ibou Diallo, Madiop Gueye, Ibou Thiam, Yonde Thiam, Twin and Dale Washington, live body painting, food, assorted beverages, Grey Goose martinis, valet parking, and best of all--it���s free.

Click Here to see a video of the event.

This Week in DC

Monday, August 4

Crown the Best Gin Rickey

Location: Bourbon, Adams Morgan, 2321 18th St., NW

Time: 6pm

Ph: 202-625-7770

A gin rickey is a drink that was invented at a DC bar in the 1890s, called Shoemaker���s on Pennsylvania Avenue. Several great local bartenders (Central, Bar Pilar, Eat Bar) are gathering to celebrate this drink tonight at Bourbon. The winner of the best Gin Rickey will be crowned and rickeys will be served all night long.

Wednesday, August 6
New Restaurant Opens in Columbia Heights
CommonWealth, brought to you by the chef/owner of Hank's Oyster Bar (5 Stars) in Dupont Circle and Old Town, opens today.  This gastropub is sure to be winner.  If you stop by let me know what you think.

Thursday, August 7

Happy Hour at the Australian Embassy

Location: Embassy of Australia, 1601 Massachusetts Avenue NW

Time: 6pm - 8pm

RSVP: yb@si.edu by Aug. 4, due to security restrictions at the embassy, reservations are required, and all attendees must present a valid photo id for admittance.

Ph: (202) 797-3000

Cost: $10

The Smithsonian Young Benefactors is hosting a happy hour at the Australian Embassy to celebrate UTOPIA ��� A Picture Story ��� a collection of silk batiks by Indigenous Australian artists from the Utopia region. The batiks in this exhibition have never been shown in the United States before, and represent some of the earliest works produced by Australian indigenous artists. There will also be complimentary hors d'oeuvres, wine, and beer.

The Real Scoop on Upcoming Restaurant Week: August 11- 17

Getting a table during restaurant is not as easy as it used to be in DC. The Washington Post has broken down which restaurants are starting early and which are extending restaurant week. Click Here for more info.

GOLF NEWBIES

Links Life Vol. 3

By Jeff Louis

So you still want to play golf? Once again, your personal mentor, is here to guide you through.

We���re really going to get into some terms this week. I know there is some lingo that may be confusing and that you would like to better understand. As your guide, your wish is my command...

Green - The end of a golf hole. Where the flagstick and cup are located and where a golfer will putt to end the hole.

Pin or flag - This is the marker/pole on the green with a flag. It indicates where the hole is. When you are finally on the green, you take the flag out of the hole and putt (roll the ball into the hole).

Hazard - This can be many things, water, rocks, cactus, bushes, and/or environmentally protected areas. Specifically, these are areas or objects that make it hard to get a clean shot. They are usually marked with red or yellow stakes. You can play out of any hazard except the environmental ones, as long as your club doesn���t touch anything. If your club touches any hazard, that is a penalty. The alternative is to take a drop (see below). And, yes, you can play out of water as well. It happens.

Out of bounds - These areas are marked with white stakes or poles. They are usually used to protect the yard to a residence or the area outside of the golf course. If you hit a shot out of bounds - beyond those stakes, you would have to take a drop (again, see below) and play your shot over from where you last hit it.

Drop - This is a penalized do-over. Though usually used when you have lost a ball, you can take a drop even if you haven���t lost your ball. A drop is considered unplayable. This is a one stroke/shot penalty. So, say you hit your 2nd shot out of bounds. You will "drop" a ball from where you last hit. To mark your spot, hold the ball shoulder high and let it go. As long as the ball has not bounced closer to the green, it���s considered now in play. This drop is considered your 3rd shot/stroke. Your hit is your 4th shot/stroke and now you can move on with play. So, you basically lose a shot on the drop.

Provisional ball - If you hit a shot that you suspect you may not find (in the woods, out of bounds, or in a hazard), then you declare that you are going to hit a provisional ball. It is a drop with benefits. You will still lose a stroke.���but only temporarily. If you hit the provisional ball (from where you hit the original ball) and if, as you are moving forward toward the green, you find your original ball, you may play that ball. The provisional ball is now out of play and the penalty drop is removed. If, however, you do not find your ball, the provisional ball is in play and you lose a stroke. The provisional ball is used to keep pace of play, so that you don���t waste time searching for balls and replaying shots unnecessarily.

Putter - A putter is used on the greens to roll the ball in the hole. You may use any part of the head of the putter to strike the ball.

Chili dip - When you are around the green and a short shot is needed to get up to the green, sometimes we all lose focus. You may take up too much turf. That turf may go flying further than the ball. This is the dreaded miss-hit called the chili dip or ���laying sod.���