Thursday, October 23, 2008

Finally Maxwell Back On Tour!!! 4 Stars

By Neonu Jewell


Update:

I attended the Maxwell concert last Saturday at the Chicago Theater. It was great! Jazmine Sullivan opened. If you listen to R&B radio, you have definitely heard her popular hit "Need U Bad." She sounded good. I like that some of her other songs are a combination of rock and R&B. She is not, however, much of an entertainer but does exude a warm personality. I also think her presentation needs improving. Overall, I give her 3 stars and may buy her CD.

Back to Maxwell... He still sounds and looks good. The new haircut gives him a more mature sex appeal.

The women screamed (okay, so I may have been a little hoarse the next day) and the men who attended should have enjoyed a grand finale at home later. He, too, is not much of an entertainer, but I don't go to see Maxwell expecting a Beyonce or Janet show. I bought tickets to hear his voice and look at him. He delivered.


My criticism is that he sang to many fast songs and the performance could have been longer. I love all of his music, but his ballads are what makes him special. He sang two of his new songs (a release date has not been set for the CD). They were upbeat tunes. My guess is the record label is pushing him to put out commercial "radio hits" after being off the scene so long. His true fans, the ones who will buy the CD, want to hear his beautiful god blessed voice. We need ballads for that.

Click here for tour dates and ticket information.

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Maxwell Tickets went on sale today at 5:00pm for a Chicago performance October 18. Click Here for tickets and other tour dates. I have my tickets do you?

Tuesday, October 21, 2008

Ajasteak: 5 Stars

By Neonu Jewell


Location: 660 N. State St., Chicago, IL 60610 Web:http://www.danahotelandspa.com/restaurant/index.cfm
Reservations: 312.202.6050
Price: $$$$

Ajasteak is located at the Dana Hotel & Spa in Chicago. Ajasteak has an East Asian inspired menu ranging from sushi to variety of meat cuts, including Kobe Beef, American Prime, Chops, and Wagyu. The modern design is subtle and warm. Downstairs is the main restaurant and bar; upstairs are a sushi lounge and private dining rooms.

The staff was immediately and consistently welcoming and helpful. We dined at the bar and Susie our bartender was very attentive. We were attending the Maxwell concert after dinner, and Susie was very conscious that we were on a time schedule and made sure our dishes came up fast. The General Manager came by to introduce himself and to confirm that we were enjoying our dining experience. The answer was an unequivocal, yes!


We started with the Kumamoto oysters on the half shell with a soy mignonette of Red onion, capers, lime. If you have not had Kumamoto oysters, you must try them. They are small, plump, and flavorful. For dinner we ordered the 6 oz. Wagyu filet mignon, iron seared main lobster, and whipped potatoes. The filet was butter knife tender, cooked a perfect medium and was served with a choice of side sauce and butter. I chose the standard ajasteak sauce with smoked tamarind chipotle and white truffle butter. The ajasteak sauce had a delightful light bbq flavor. The lobster, which was also cooked perfectly, (I still don’t understand why so many restaurants under/over cook lobster) was served out of shell on a bed of yuzu basil butter succotash. Yum. Sides are sold a la carte. We chose the truffle whipped potatoes. They were buttery, fluffy, heavenly delish.

For dessert we ordered the coconut creme bulee with fruit cerviche and macaroons and the Oreo dessert, which was two homestyle chocolate cookies with a whipped crème center and side of milk.

Monday, October 20, 2008

This Week in South Florida

Monday, October 20



This Week in Chicago

October 17 - 31

Chicagoween
Location: Franken Plaza at Daley Plaza, 50 W. Washington
Time: Mon.-Wed. 11am - 3pm; Thurs - Sun. 11am - 8pm
Click
here for more info.
Chicagoween is a City-Wide Celebration of Halloween during the month of October, involving the Park District, Museums, Navy Pier, the Chicago Cultural Center, and other organizations.

Winestyles Winetasting Events
Location: 1240 S. Michigan Ave.

Friday, October 24 at 6pm
Oktoberfest Beer & Wine Tasting
For those who have been asking…..beer is here! Join us in tasting fall beers and wines. Appetizers included. Cost: $12, wine club members $8. Live music by Vo!


Thursday, October 30 at 6pm

Hallowine Tasting Party
We’ll have some of our hauntingly delicious wines available for tasting. Come dressed your Hallowine best as prizes for most original costume will be awarded. Please, nothing too scary as Johnnie and Tracye can't handle it

Monday, October 20

Exposure Restaurant & Supper Club
Variety Night/Neo Soul Jazz Monday
Featured Artist: Transit
Location: 1315 S. Wabash Ave.
Time: 5pm - 10pm

Three Book Reviews: Thomas Greanias & Stephenie Meyer

By Clarence Lewis


It’s been a minute since I’ve given you the buzz on any of my reading material so I’m going to triple your pleasure, triple your fun by giving you quickies on the last three books I’ve read. First we’ll start with “Raising Atlantis” by Thomas Greanias. Set in one of the most remote places on Earth, Antarctica, this quasi Sci-Fi story is full of action and moves at a tremendous pace. No wasted words. Also, because the author is a screen writer, the books feels like a movie script. Character development is woefully lacking, but the story is strong enough to not make it too noticeable. Overall, it was enjoyable and a great airplane book. Nothing warm or fuzzy, more like a literary shot of espresso. I don’t really have a rating system yet and books are so subjective, but I give this one a “thumbs up.”...

Greanias’ sequel is titled “The Atlantis Prophecy.” I actually read this book first. I didn’t know. I hate it when there are references to previous events and characters that I don’t know about. I almost stopped reading. But now that I’ve read “Raising Atlantis”, I’ve even considered going back and reading “The Atlantis Prophecy” again, but I just don’t have that kind of time. The sequel was actually better than the first. The plot is better, though several of the same characters are utilized. This one is less Sci-Fi and more historical and they do a decent job of tying in historical figures to this modern day tale. It’s set in DC (my home town) which makes it all the more interesting because I’ve been to most of the places the characters frequent. The Atlantis Prophecy also has a movie feel. The concepts are fairly simple. Another airport book or weekend read. I also give this one a “thumbs up.” Note: I recommend you read them in order to avoid my confusion.

The Last book is “Twilight” by Stephenie Meyer. It’s a woman’s book, but a good book. It’s about vampire love, not to be confused with alien love for my “Bowfinger” fans out there. (If you’ve never seen Bowfinger with Eddie Murphy and Steve Martin, then you’ve missed a hilarious movie and you don’t get my joke, sorry.) Anyway, it’s a true love story with great character development and imagery. Even though it is a bit of a “chick book”, I still think it’s worth men checking it out. This is book is probably what they had in mind with the phrase “curl-up with a good book.” Personally, I don’t think I have ever “curled-up”, and if I did, there were no books involved. If you are starving for adventure then this one may be a little slow for you, but it’s still a good read. I give this one a “thumbs up.”
Happy reading and I hope it doesn’t take me so long the next time.

Thursday, October 16, 2008

Slow & Steady Finishes the Race: My First Marathon


You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face… You must do the thing you think you cannot do.

-- Eleanor Roosevelt.


On the ride home from a day of shopping in early March with my friend Nikki, she informed me that she planned to run the 2008 Chicago Marathon. “Wow! Have you run a marathon before?” I replied. She said, “Yes, a few years back.” So I enthusiastically told her that she could expect me to cheer her on and be there screaming at the finish line. That’s when she dropped the bomb and said she thought I should run too. “Oh no, that’s crazy! I hate running. That’s never going to happen, but I will support you.” Well, they say, never say never…

I am proud to say that I ran the Chicago Marathon, this past Sunday, October 12, 2008in support of the AIDS Foundation of Chicago.! That’s right, 26.2 miles! It was a sunny 85 degrees and not much wind. Hot weather creates dangerous conditions for distance runners. But I was one of more than 31,000 runners that beat the heat and finished. As a non-athlete, it was by far the most challenging goal I have ever set for myself. Consequently, crossing that finish line was both exhilarating and empowering.

The reality is, however, that I did not run this race alone. I want to first thank my great friend Nikki for presenting me with the opportunity to take this amazing journey. I want to thank the National AIDS Marathon Training Program and the south side coaches for the excellent preparation that enabled me to run a successful injury free marathon. I want to thank my pace group members that stuck together and ran, walked, laughed, stretched, and encouraged one another through the finish line. I want to thank my family for driving 12 hours in the middle of the night to come and support me and share this moment. I want to thank my friends who sat out in the sun for hours just to shout my name as I ran past. And a special thank you to the citizens of Chicago who lined the streets to cheer us along. Those individuals have no idea how key they were to me maintaining the mental strength to keep going long after my legs wanted to stop. THANK YOU!

And last, but certainly not least, I want to thank everyone who donated to the AIDS Foundation of Chicago on behalf. I was able to raise almost $2000 to fund essential services for people living with and at risk for HIV/AIDS. Despite recent advances in the treatment of AIDS, the epidemic is far from over. More than one million Americans and 40 million others around the world are now living with HIV, the virus that causes AIDS. It is now the leading cause of death among all people 15 to 59 years of age. The money raised through the program will allow the AIDS Foundation of Chicago to direct medical care, food, housing and other important AIDS services – to help keep people alive until there’s a cure.

During the seven-month National AIDS Marathon Training Program I logged nearly 500 miles. The reasons I decided to run a marathon were first, the cause and second, to challenge myself to do something less than one percent of the population has accomplished. I should be an inspiration to anyone who is thinking about running a marathon whether half or full. Believe me, if I can do it and my father who is 65 can do it (he walked the race in support of the AIDS Foundation of Chicago), then if you commit to it and train you too can run/walk a marathon. See you in ’09!

This Week in South Florida

Saturday, October 18
Artwalk
Time: 7pm - 10pm
Click here for more info.
Downtown Hollywood hosts a free monthly ArtWalk on the third Saturday of each month, showcasing some of the unique local galleries, shops, and restaurants in its historic downtown art and entertainment district. The ArtWalk starts at the Comfort Zone Studio and Spa, 2028 Harrison Street, and continues throughout the downtown.
Thursday, October 9 - November 3
Festival Miami
Click here for more info. and tickets.
Festival Miami, the annual music festival that opens the South Florida arts season, provides superior and diverse musical programming. Festival Miami hosts 23 concerts over a four week period, with each week having its own unique theme. The four one-week themes include “Great Performances,” “Jazz and Beyond,” “Creative American Music,” and “Music of the Americas.”
Friday, October 17 -19
Sunny Isles Beach Jazz Fest
Click here for more info. and admission prices.
The inaugural Sunny Isles Beach 2008 Jazz Fest promises to generate excitement within the South Florida community and abroad; attracting both local audiences and tourists from around the world. The Saturday, October 18th event featuring David Sanborn will be general admission (rain or shine); so bring your blankets and your lawn chairs.

DW's Loop

“How can you stay in the Loop, if you aren’t in the Loop?”
October 10 - 13, 2008


Friday 642 N Clark
A Night for the Ladies @ Manor

9pm – 2am
$20 donation for Susan G. Komen Breast Cancer Society
9pm - 11pm premium open bar
http://www.manorchicago.com/


Saturday
UBERJAM v16: The Glamorous Life 90s Party @ Versus Loft
$5 suggested cover
Hosted bar by sparks from 10pm – 11pm
Versus Loft
River North
RSVP for the location @ versusloft@gmail.com
www.myspace.com/versusloft
www.myspace.com/uberjamchicago


Sunday
Sunday, 10/19, 600 PM
Uncorked Wine Event (Every Third Sunday)
Redhead Piano Bar
16 W. Ontario
6pm - close
Chardonnay, Pinot Noir and Cabernet Flights for $10 per flight
Premium Cabernet Flight for $15 per flight including complimentary cheeses, crackers, fruits and chocolates
http://www.redheadpianobar.com/


Cocktail for the Week – Carmel Apple Martini
Ingredients:

  • 2 Parts Barcardi Big Apple

  • ½ part butterscotch schnapps

  • Splash of sprite
Directions: Pour ingredients into a shaker. Strain into a chilled martini glass. Top with Sprite


Bonus of the Week – Get Cooking
Tuesday, October 21
Cellar Notes – Dessert Wines
NoMI Cellar on the Seventh
Park Hyatt Chicago
800 North Michigan Avenue
5:30pm - 7:30pm
Cost: $30 per person
Hosted by advanced Sommelier Fernando Beteta


October Favorite:
Salud Tequila Lounge
1471 N Milwaukee
312-235-5577
http://www.saludlounge.com/

DJs spin soul, house, and hip-hop from Tuesday through Saturday
Specials:
Sundays - $10 Margarita Pitchers
Mondays - $5 Caipirinhas
Tuesdays - $5 Sangria Pitchers
Wednesdays - 1/2 price appetizers
Thursdays - $3 Corona and Corona Light
Fridays – $4 Frozen Margaritas

This Week in DC

Saturday, October 18
Howard Homecoming
Click here for event info.

11th Annual Bethesda Row Arts Festival (Sat. Oct. 18 - Sun. Oct. 19)
Where: Bethesda Row, located on Woodmont and Bethesda Avenues, and Elm Street, east of Arlington Road
Time: 11am - 6pm; 11am - 5pm
Click here for more info.

Outdoor art gallery of fine arts and crafts. It features the work of 180 leading artists and crafters from the Mid-Atlantic and around the country. On display will be the finest in: ceramics, drawings, fabrics, glass, graphics, jewelry, metalwork, paintings, pastels, photography, printmaking, sculpture, wood and mixed media.


Wednesday, October 22
Evening at the Embassy of Rwanda
Where: 1714 New Hampshire Avenue, NW, Washington DC 20009
Cost: $50 before Oct. 18
Click here for more info.

Highlights
  • Rwandan Food: Including Choma (beef served with kachumbari), goat stew (an East African favorite served with basmati rice and chapati), samosas, Ndengu (mungu beans in chicken broth seasoned with safari spice and cilantro), fruit, and more (TBA).
  • Open Bar of Rwandan/African Beer and other African Beverages: Sample the best and most unique regional beers and wines.
  • Special Rwandan Musical and Dance Presentation: Enjoy a world renowned presentation of an authentic Rwandan tribal dance. Dressed in full authentic Rwandan costume, the dancers will treat us to a very unique performance of Rwandan music and dance, along with a cultural explanation as to the each element's origin, style and meaning.

Wednesday, October 15, 2008

SPIRITUAL JOURNEY - A Hard Blog to Write

.20 A Hard Blog to Write


By Angela Skeete Davis

It is great to keep friends in your life who have known you long enough to know when you are living a lie or lying to yourself; friends who confront you with where you think you are versus where you really are; friends who love you enough to be honest with you about you. But damn it ain’t easy. Having said that, the other day I was on the phone with someone very dear to me. We were having a serious catch-up conversation. The conversation turned to me and as we talked I began to realize how wrong I had been about some things in my life. Eventually my blog came up. She and I discussed some of the things I have written. She went on to tell me, not that I had not been honest with my readers, but that I had been under a delusion about myself and just how far I had come, at least in one area of my life. She said I had not really done what I said I had done or thought I had done and that I had not really progressed as far as I thought I had. In short she said that maybe I am not where I think I am...

What am I talking about? Well, one of the things I am pleased with is that I try to be honest with others. If I like you I tell you or if I want something from you, then I will tell you. I have admitted that I am afraid of rejection from people I care about (like family or friends) and this makes me sometimes reluctant to talk about things that I feel might cause rejection. But I do so, to be true to me. Other than that, I believe I am willing to speak what is on my mind. But my friend said that whether or not I am willing to admit it to myself, lately I don’t speak up if it means I will be putting my feelings on the line and possibly getting hurt. She said that I am afraid of experiencing the pain I experienced with my husband’s death and so have not been willing to put myself out there in my relationships. While I had points to argue and refute her assessment, she was able to really get me to examine my actions, or lack thereof. It was hard to do and harder to accept, but I had to admit it. I have unconsciously wrapped my arms so tight around myself to avoid pain that I have not allowed myself to step out on faith and take chances.


Wow. The worse part is although I have, on more than one occasion, stated affirmatively and with even an air of arrogance that I have been upfront and honest and put myself out there in my relationships, I now realize that I maybe I have not. My friend said that I have stepped up to the plate, but have not taken a single swing at any of the balls that may have come my way. I told my friend that I didn’t see the balls. She said I was just too afraid to look. She said that I am truly ready to move on and enter into a real relationship again when I am ready to step out on faith and say how I feel. Worse, she said, that in the past I had always been able to step out on faith and take a chance on love.



She told me that it is not enough for me to want a relationship, I have to be willing to accept the pain that may come if it doesn’t work. I told her I had written that I was willing to love even if it meant I might get hurt. She said it is one thing to say you are ready. It is another to take the steps and show that you are ready. She asked what steps I had taken. I told her all the things I had done. She said, "that’s nice," but that none of the things I said showed a willingness to actually put myself out there. She said all I had done was make it easy for someone else to put themselves out there to me. She asked me since when did I become one of those women who wants to be rescued by a knight in shining armor. She said that had never been me and I insisted that it was not who I was now. “Good”, she said. “prove it.”

As you can imagine, our conversation was intense. We laughed and I cried. I cried remembering how much it hurt when my husband was killed. I cried to think that I might experience that pain again. I realized that I am afraid. Afraid to get hurt. Afraid to go through what I went through before. But I think even more than my fear, I do want to experience the pleasure that a good relationship can bring. I think I want that more that I am afraid.



Before we finished the conversation, she dared me to write about it in my blog. She said a true blog is about the successes and failures of the writer. She said it would not only help me, it might help others. I believe she is right (she usually is). So I took her challenge and am sharing with you our conversation. I am acknowledging that although I have repeatedly said I am ready that I have, unbeknown to myself, done everything but take that leap of faith. So now I am not only saying that I am ready, this time I will prove it. I will take action. But, I am also going to be gentle with myself and allow myself to go with the flow of things while being honest with myself about where I want things to end up.

This week, for real, step out in faith and tell someone how you feel (boss, family, friend, lover). You may be glad you did.

Take risks: if you win, you will be happy; if you lose, you will be wise.

Author Unknown

Why not go out on a limb? Isn't that where the fruit is?

Frank Scully

Wednesday, October 8, 2008

DW's Loop

“How can you stay in the Loop, if you aren’t in the Loop?”
October 10 - 13, 2008



Friday
Reggae Night @ Subterranean
2011 W North Ave
No cover before 10:30, $5 after
Say "cold sweat" after 10:30pm for $3 cover
Red Stripe from 9:30pm -10:30pm
www.subt.net


Saturday
Grey Goose presents The Next Garde
Victor Hotel
311 North Sangamon
9pm-3am
Live Performance by Ryan Leslie (www.ryanleslie.com)
For more: 312 431 8801 or info@richmondgrouponline.com


Sunday
Bank of America Chicago Marathon
Start Time: 7:50am
Grant Park corner of Monroe and Lakeshore Drive,
Cheer on Neonu and the 2008 South Side Silva Team as they run to raise money for the AIDS Foundation of Chicago through 29 of Chicago’s neighborhoods.
www.chicagomarathon.com
www.aidsmarathon.com


Cocktail for the Week – Kickin Kool-Aid
Ingredients:

  • 1 oz Vodka
  • 1 oz Amaretto Sour
  • 1 oz Malibu rum
  • 1 oz Sloe gin
  • 1 oz Midori melon liqueur
  • 1 oz Cranberry juice

Instructions: Pour liquor into glass. Add cranberry juice last. You can stir or leave as is. Enjoy!!


Bonus of the Week – Warehouse Sale's Designer Denim Sample Sale
Friday - Saturday, October 17-18
McCormick Place Lakeside Center - E353 (Park on Lot C)
2301 S. Dr. Martin L King Dr.

L.A.’s largest premium denim sale for men and women at prices up to 80% off.
Designer collections include: Christian Audigier, Ed Hardy, True Religion and more...
RSVP @ www.thewarehousesale.com/events.php for comp admission
$5.00 cover at the door without RSVP


October Favorite:
Salud Tequila Lounge
1471 N Milwaukee
312-235-5577
www.saludlounge.com

DJs spin soul, house, and hip-hop Tuesday – Saturday
Specials:
Sundays - $10 Margarita Pitchers
Mondays - $5 Caipirinhas
Tuesdays - $5 Sangria Pitchers
Wednesdays - 1/2 price appetizers
Thursdays - $3 Corona and Corona Light
Fridays – $4 Frozen Margaritas