Tuesday, September 30, 2008

ANGELA'S iPOD

ESPERANZA SPALDING: HEADS UP (2008) 4 Stars


There has been a lot of buzz around the young bassist and vocalist Spalding. I was curious; so I picked up her album to see if she was as good as I had heard she is. This is her second album and with this album she successfully melds jazz, decent singing, Latin music, soul and R&B. While she is joined by a rotating cast of musicians on this album, it is she who dominates. She plays terrific bass and sings in a sweet manner. You will find textures of Latin-flavored jazz compositions, combinations of tantalizing acoustic bass play, and sultry jazzy sounds. She sings in three languages - English, Spanish, and Portuguese. She plays bass, does the arranging, and acts as her own producer. And, she is only twenty-three years old. Now you may be surprised by the skill, precision & composure of this young artist, but don‘t be. She is clearly a prodigy...

This album is a tasty gem from the minute you press "play." “Ponta De Areia" is a breezy, infectious Spanish gem that blends her voice with a piano grooveline. “I Know You Know” is a real treat. It combines sultry, soulful sounds with some scatting, classic jazz, and the soft touch of a Caribbean beat. She writes and sings a straight ballad on “Fall In.” Her voice and the piano are all you hear, but it is gorgeous and melodic. And with “I Adore You”, she scats to the backdrop of a rich Brazilian Rhumba. To quote one review, “Spalding's bass part here is anything but basic, it's startling in its rhythmic and lyric invention as it adds another harmonic counterpart to the piano and percussive textures."

“She Got To You“ is a provocative number with a delightful saxophone, a quick tempo and driving percussion. “Precious” is a blend of soul and jazz (with an emphasis on soul) done beautifully. It should be on the radio. “Love In Time" showcases her voice over rich jazz tones, while “Mela” is a pure jazz session with a dazzling trumpet and piano solo and a terrific opening bass solo by Spalding.

Ms. Spalding’s latest album is indeed a fascinating display of special skill and talent. I encourage you to check out this album and enjoy this young, musically endowed, jazz artist. If you do so, you will not only find much to delight in, but plenty to be amazed by as well.

Check her out at http://esperanzaspalding.com/

Monday, September 29, 2008

GOLF NEWBIES

Links Life Vol. 5

By Jeff Louis


So you still want to play golf? Once again, your personal mentor is here to guide you through.

Let’s discuss some of the points of golf reservations.

I hope you’ve all been practicing. It’s almost time to take you out on the course. Before we do that, however, you’ll need to know a few more things...

Tee time: This is your reserved appointment to play golf at a particular course. Sometimes these times are held with a credit card number because most courses have a cancellation policy. If you or a member of your group does not show up or cancel in time, then the credit card may be charged.

Pairings: This is the number of people you have promised will be there. The tee time can be made for up to 4 people, in a time slot. If you have more, then you have to work that out directly with the course.

Outings: Usually, if you need to book tee times for more than 8 people (2 foursomes) this is considered an outing. You should inquire about getting a discount if you have a large number in attendance.

Walk up: A walk up is an individual that comes to the course to play, but doesn’t have a designated (reserved) tee time. Usually, single players can not reserve a tee time.

Sign Up List: The name of a walk up goes on this list. You will be called to play according to your position on the list, or, need. If 2 players come together as walk ups and a group has 3 players and needs one more to fill out the slot, you have 2 choices. You and your friend can break up or you can let the next single walk up go next and wait for a time slot with 2 places available.

Starter: This is the individual usually positioned near the 1st tee. He or she takes your tickets and keeps tee offs running in a smooth and orderly fashion.

Ranger: This is the law & order keeper of the course. The ranger can help find your ball or give you advice on how to play a particular hole. The ranger can also ask you to play faster if your group is playing so slow that you hold up the rest of the course. One more piece of information, the ranger can also escort you off the course if he or she deems you are causing damage to the course on purpose - a/k/a vandalism.

This Week’s Golf Term:
“Playing Through": If your group is playing efficiently, or faster than the group ahead of you, and the group that is ahead of you is not in sight, then you can ask to “play through.” This means that the faster group of players is allowed to pass the slower group on the course. It is an acceptable, well mannered practice. There is, however, a caveat. The slower group does not have to let you play through, as they may feel that this is a personal affront to their skill sets. Size up the risk. You have more choices. You can call the ranger for an assist or decide to skip that hole to avoid confrontation. Do not cause a commotion and manhandle (figuratively speaking of course) the slow group. Allow them to finish the current hole and tee off 1st on the next hole.

Saturday, September 27, 2008

SPIRITUAL JOURNEY - loving yourself

.18 Self love
by Angela Skeete Davis

Okay, so for the past few weeks I have been working on a piece and looking forward to putting it up. But the other day, I woke up in a totally different place and started to write. This whole thing is about my journey to a better me and I have hit a cornerstone, I think...

Let me tell you how it started. I got an ear infection. No big deal, right. I used to get them all the time. When I did they immobilized me. They were painful, uncomfortable, gave me headaches, affected my equilibrium, sent me to bed. So, to say the least, I was not happy to get another ear infection.

The other thing that was different …. I was alone. In the past, my daughter was with me. She would do reflexology on my feet, rub my back and bring me tea and toast. This time I had no one to do that for me. Now that is not to say that I have no one in my life who cares about me. I have friends and family who checked on me ….once I told them I was sick. No, what I am talking about is a partner (you know, someone I want to share my life with). It occurred to me that I had no one I could call and tell I was sick, no one who would actually make the effort to come over and check on me, no one who would call to see if I was okay.

At first, I was disappointed with this realization. I mean, now that my daughter is away at college, I should have a man in my life, right. Or at least the possibility. I don’t. Moreover, I am, now, in the minority, since most of my friends have a relationship going.

But the point of this is not to lament my lack of a man. Instead, it is to say this…. I woke up this morning, two and a half weeks later, still dealing with ear issues, but totally happy. I noticed that I have been waking up happy. Specifically, I got through the worst of my infection all by myself and I was/am okay. I took care of me. I made sure I was okay. I loved me. I looked after me. I learned that I can be sick and be by myself and be okay. If I never find the one I want to share my life with, I will be okay. I have me and we will do just fine together.

So, this week, spend time with you, appreciate you, be good to you. You are the only person you can never get away from. Make friends with you, learn to love you. Take yourself out to lunch and say thank you to you.

You can explore the universe looking for somebody who is more deserving of your love and affection than you are yourself, and you will not find that person anywhere.”
Author Unknown

Thursday, September 25, 2008

2008 6th Annual Hoodie Awards Hosted by Steve Harvey: 5 Stars


Neonu's InSite was live in Las Vegas, Nevada at the Orleans Arena on the Ford Blue Carpet at the 2008 6th Annual Hoodie Awards hosted by Steve Harvey.





(Left: Shirley Strawberry)



Right: Steve & Marjorie Harvey with Patti LaBelle



Left: "Showroom Shine"
Hoodie Award Best Detail Shop
(St. Louis)


Right: Kirk & Tammy Franklin



Noel Gourdin


Left: Dwele


Right: Terrence J & Rocsi with Hoodie Award Winner "Fade Shop",
Best Barber Shop




Left: Stephen A. Smith




Right: Joe with Jamie Hall (Representing Ford)





Left: Wendy Raquel Robinson & Husband Marco Perkins



Right: Regina King










Left: From Celebrity Fit Club Dr. Ian Smith (5o Million LB Challenge) & Sommore



Right: Cassi & LaVan Davis






Photography by Carmen Allen; Editing by Neonu Jewell


DW's Loop



“How can you stay in the Loop, if you aren’t in the Loop?”

September 26 – 28, 2008

Friday
Bon V Fridays
1100 W. Randolph St
Level Vodka cocktails from 9pm -10:30pm
Password :"VibeIsRight" for free admission to the private cocktail reception.
www.bonvchicago.com







Saturday

Savin' Tabs for Things We Grabs: A Fundraiser Event for Tabs for Ta-Tas
Lumen
839 W. Fulton Market
Cover: $20
Proceeds donated to the American Cancer Society
Complimentary TaTatini's provided by belvedere with RSVP only.
RSVP @ info@lumen-chicago.com
www.lumen-chicago.com


Sunday
AKIRA Garden of Eden fashion show
Galleria Marchetti
825 W. Erie
4:30pm
Cover: Advance $15 / Door $20
Cocktail reception begins at 4:30 p.m
Fashion Show begins at 6:30 pm featuring Ford Models
Proceeds benefit Imerman Angels
Get tickets at www.ImermanAngels.org
www.akirachicago.com


Cocktail for the Week – Welcome to Metropolis
Ingredients:
5 oz Vodka
2 oz De Kuyper Blue Curacao
1 oz De Kuyper Razzmatazz
1/2 oz Cranberry infused vodka
Instructions:
In a shaker, combine Vodka and blue curacao. Chill until cloudy.
Pour into martini glass. Tilt glass and pour in raspberry schnapps.
Float cranberry vodka on top


Bonus of the Week – Next/Fest
WIRED NextFest
Millennium Park, Chicago
September 27 - October 12, 2008
Premier showcase of the global innovations transforming our world.
FREE and Open to the Public.
Tuesday - Wednesday 11am – 7pm
Thursday 12pm -8pm
Friday - Sunday 11am-7pm
www.wirednextfest.com

Wednesday, September 24, 2008

UNIVERSAL/MOTOWN ARTIST LONDON BREEZES THROUGH THE QC

Thursday, October 2 - Saturday, October 4
Charlotte Reel Film Festival
Host: Black Film Appreciation Society
Click Here for more info. and schedule.



Wednesday, September 24

Location: Allure, Corner of S. Mint & Summit
Time: 9:30pm - 12:30am
Host: CAROLINA CONCERT CONNECTION- BROUGHT TO YOU BY THE BLOSSOM GROUP

What the Hosts have to say:

If you haven't heard of LONDON yet, its only a matter of time before he's all over the radio. His new joint was produced by Rodney "DarkChild" Jerkins (music royalty/Grammy winner etc.)...so you know dude is on point. If you're already onto him...Congrats, and welcome to the cool side. It feels good to be in the know huh? :)Reporters from Honeysoul, Scheme and Clutch Magazines will be in the building, along with ASCAP reps and Charlotte's social elite to welcome "the majors" to the QC...make sure you're there too!

Official Congressional Black Caucus Guide

TUESDAY, September 23
CBC 2008: Congressional Black Associates Reception

WEDNESDAY, September 24
CBC 2008: CBC Spouses Celebration of Leadership of the Visual and Performing Arts - VIP Reception
CBC 2008: Authors Pavilion Showcase
CBC 2008: The Council of the District of Columbia Reception
CBC 2008: Virginia Leadership Institute's 1st Annual Awards Reception
CBC 2008: Urban League and Opportunity Journal's Salute to the CBC
CBC 2008: NBA Reception
CBC 2008: Young and Powerful for Obama and Telented Tenth Presents the Final Count Down
CBC 2008: MLT Information Session
CBC 2008: Post Event -- Young and Powerful for Obama and Telented Tenth Presents the Final Count Dow
CBC 2008: CBC Spouses Celebration of Leadership of the Visual and Performing Arts - VIP Reception
CBC 2008: Authors Pavilion Showcase
CBC 2008: CBC 2008: Authors Pavilion Showcase
CBC 2008: CBC Spouses Celebration of Leadership of the Visual and Performing Arts

THURSDAY, September 25
CBC 2008: Town Hall Meeting
CBC 2008: Jazz Concert
CBC Weekend: Pre-Black Party
CBC 2008: The Black Press of America, NNPAF/NNPA Champions Reception
CBC 2008: CBC Spouses Celebration of Leadership of the Visual and Performing Arts - VIP Reception
CBC 2008: Authors Pavilion Showcase
CBC 2008: Pandora Happy Hour and Party at the Park at Fourteenth
CBC 208: Thurgood Marshall College Fund, Phi Beta Sigma, Zeta Phi Beta 9th Annual Community Leadersh
CBC 2008: Reps. Carson, Clarke, Edwards and Jackson, Jr. Present "Impact: Preview '08 A Red Carpet A
CBC 2008: A Taste of Louisville Cocktail Reception
CBC 2008: Nation's Young and Powerful Reception
CBC 2008: An Event Honoring Congressman Al Green
CBC 2008: Community Health Centers Reception
CBC 2008: One Reception Celebrating Successes in US-Africa Partnership
CBC 2008: Congressman Bobby Rush Reception
CBC 2008: Howard University Alumni Club of Greater Washington
CBC 2008: Jazz Forum and Concert
CBC 2008: Congressmen Clyburn, Butterfield and Watt's Carolina Party
CBC 2008: Congressman Bennie Thompson Presents "Back to Blues"
CBC 2008: Gospel Extravaganza
CBC 2008: The Black Party
CBC 2008: CBC Spouses Celebration of Leadership of the Visual and Performing Arts - VIP Reception
CBC 2008: Authors Pavilion Showcase
CBC 2008: Nation's Young and Powerful Post Affair

FRIDAY, September 26
CBC 2008: Congressman Al Green Reception
CBC 2008: Talented Tenth Society: Be Seen
CBC 2008: Congressman Chaka Fattah Reception
CBC 2008: Generation Now! Reverse the Brain Drain Networking Reception
CBC 2008: Delta's CBC Reception
CBC 2008: 2nd Annual Young Leaders Recognition and Newtworking Event
CBC 2008: Presidential Debate Watch
CBC 2008: The California Project Chairman's VIP Reception
CBC 2008: The California Project's "California Reception"

SATURDAY, September 27
CBC 2008: Prayer Breakfast
CBC 2008: Georgia Party
CBC 2008: VIP Reception
CBC 2008: Annual Awards Dinner
CBC 2008: The Movemakers and NBLSA: Be Powerful
CBC 2008: After Dinner Gala

Parties:




Layla Lounge, 501 Morse St. NE (corner of 5th & Florida)



Ozio Cigar & Martini Lounge, 1813 M St. NW



FAMU/TSU Annual Atlanta Classic

Thursday, September 25


THE ATLANTA CLASSIC JUMPOFF IS GOING DOWN THURSDAY SEPT. 25TH @ THE LOFT AT CASTLEBERRY HILL

  • LOCATED AT 170 NORTHSIDE DRIVE (BLOCKS FROM THE GEORGIA DOME)
  • POWERED BY FAMU GRADS/F&AM/KAPPA ALPHA PSI BRIAN "BT" THOMAS & ERNEST "SKEETER" WILSON(MARCHING 100)
  • HOSTED BY FAMU GRAD/ALPHA PHI ALPHA/RAINFOREST FILMS WILL "WILLPOWER" PACKER AND A HOST OF HIS CELEBRITY FRIENDS - ONE OF THE FORCES BEHIND THE MULTIMILLION DOLLAR BOX OFFICE HITS "STOMP THE YARD", "THIS CHRISTMAS", & "THE GOSPEL" JUST TO NAME A FEW.
  • SOUNDS BY FAMUS #1 PARTY ROCKERS DJ SAXWELL AND DJ NEAUX (NORRIS SUMRAL)
  • ALSO FEATURING A SPECIAL LIVE PERFORMANCE BY FAMU GRAD/MARCHING 100/DELTA SIGMA THETA KIMBERLY HOLLOWAY & FAMU GRAD/MARCHING 100 AL "LONDON" ARRINGTON.
  • ALSO PERFORMING IS INTERNATIONAL RECORDING ARTIST KAMERON CORVET
  • SHARP TWO LEVELS TO PARTY, BOTTLE SERVICE, VALET PARKING, & LATE NIGHT MENU WILL BE AVAILABLE.

DOORS OPEN @ 9:30 & SHOW STARTS @ 11PM

FOR MORE INFO CALL 404-550-4034 OR 407-575-7903

Tuesday, September 23, 2008

PLAY IT AS IT LIES

SKYVIEW GOLF COURSE 3.5 stars

By Jeff Louis

“Shhhhhh. Don’t turn around. It’s just me!” I just wanted to sneak up on my readers as we head into the fall season with a tasty nugget of real estate. Are you coming in to visit from out of town? Would you like to see the change in seasons as they affect the color of the leaves on the trees? Is your significant other out shopping and you’re hoping to sneak in a round of golf? Grab your clubs and come with me to Sparta, New Jersey. We’re going to play Skyview Golf Course...

Skyview was designed by Robert McNeil and I can tell you this about the layout - yes this is considered a mountain course, but it plays different. Skyview is more like a serene, parkland-style course, that has attention deficit disorder. It starts out easy enough, with a straight away par 4. The only trouble present, comes into play if you hit a wayward drive into the street which lines the entire right side of the hole. However, the tone of the course is set on hole number two. This is the aptly named “Skyward.” How about a 547 yard par 5 that plays 100% uphill? Carts are not allowed on this hole, making it play even longer.
Oh, and it’s not over my friend. Prepare yourself for putting greens slicker than chicken grease on plate glass. Indiana Jones will have to help you play the next par 5. It’s called “The Edge.” (My goodness how the designers had fun naming these holes.) “The Edge” is a Par 5, 552 yards, and is the #3 Handicap hole - rated "Most Intimidating" by NJ Golfer Magazine. Okay, let’s examine this closer. Is the #3 hole the most intimidating? You bet it is!! Your tee shot had better be straighter than a William Tell arrow trying to hit an apple. You have no shot if your ball goes left, and, if it goes right, you’ll be up a hill, in a rock cropping that is filled with all snakes. That’s not even the scary part. Once you get to the end of the fairway, there is a blind 80 foot drop to the green. Oh don’t worry, Ashton Kutcher won’t be there to “Punk” you.

This type of psychotic, Jekyll & Hyde golf is exactly what makes this a lot of fun. Now, before some of you scream this is a ‘tricked out’ course, it’s not. This course is extremely fair. As long as you hit that ball straight or like to work your shots left or, right. Another part of the fun factor of Skyview lies in the angles which the holes play. Pictured above is the 7th hole, “Rock Pile.” You can see at the end of the fairway, there is a left tilt that leads into a right turn. Much of the same awaits you on the back 9 holes. Although, they play downhill, you can’t take them for granted. The number 14 hole, “Falling Rock” has a boulder precariously perched to the left of the tee box. This is not a marker. This is a reminder of the danger. McNeil has this hole squeezed tighter than a grizzly bear in a thong. (Extreme visualization, indeed). Once you get downhill, the hole is 90 degrees to the right. The drawing card is the extra large green. So inviting, so deadly. Come closer, closer. Pssst, Bagger Vance couldn’t read this green, no matter how many times he took his shoes off.
Now, I don’t want to scare you away from this course. On the contrary. You should line up to play it, regularly. Grab some apple cider and put your name on the list. I’ll be right there. Oh, and play it as it lies!

Recommendation: 3.5 stars
Current Price: Week $60; Weekend $85
Par 72, Slope n/a, Rating n/a, Yardage n/a
Address: 226 Lafayette Road, Sparta, NJ 07871
Website: http://www.skyviewgolf.com/golf/proto/skyviewgolf/

Photo courtesy of SkyView GC http://www.skyviewgolf.com/golf/proto/skyviewgolf/coursetour07/coursetour07.htm

Friday, September 19, 2008

SPIRITUAL JOURNEY - can you be with joy

.17 CAN YOU BE WITH JOY?More on The Invitation
By Angela Skeete Davis

I want to know if you can be with joy, mine or your own, if you can dance with wildness and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your fingers and toes without cautioning us to be careful, to be realistic, to remember the limitations of being human.

Can I be with joy, dance with wildness and let the ecstasy of the moment fill me to the tips of my fingers and toes without cautioning myself or others? Yes, I can and I have. I have experienced joy so amazing I could not sit still; joy so moving that I reveled in it and then had to share it. On my wedding day I was joyful. I was emotionally full. I could not eat and I could not sit still. I talked to everyone, smiled constantly, danced every chance I could and laughed a lot. That day was so joyful for me I could not contain my feelings. And after the day was done, I wanted to do it all over again so that I could experience that feeling all over again...

I have also felt joy when in the throes of saying thank you. A quiet joy that has lifted my heart and made my soul and my situation feel lighter. A joy that has made the aches that I experienced almost nonexistent. A joy so freeing that tears of release cleansed me.

I have felt joy when taking the time to think of others and not myself. I can remember working in a soup kitchen, helping a victim of abuse, getting charges dropped against an immigrant who was wrongfully accused of a crime. The thank you from the people I helped was so special I have never forgotten it. I guess, even then I was mindful of the moment. I can still remember how those encounters left me feeling - joyful and blessed.

And I have danced and laughed and played with total abandon many times. While most of those moments have come when I was with my daughter, I believe they were the times when I was most willing to allow the moment to seize me. Those times when I was most willing to give in to impulse, when it was almost impossible not to give in to the feeling of being a living, vibrant being. But I don’t think you can plan to act with total abandon. I think it happens when you are so caught up in the moment, so mindful of the moment that you allow it to, at least in a sense, consume you such that the only way to proceed any further is to release the feelings through acts of total abandonment.

So, I have cavorted through sandy beaches, cried with abandon, basked luxuriantly in the sun, laughed until I cried, embarrassed myself in the streets with foolishness and danced in the rain. I have sung out loud to no one and shouted my joy to whosoever was present to hear. I have let the ecstasy of the moment fill me to the tips of my fingers and toes. And, I am open, eager and ready to do so again. I do believe there is joy that lasts. You just must be open to the moment.

This week, let joy catch you unawares and give in to it. This week, live with abandon, seize the moment, rejoice, find your ecstasy, laugh, love - in essence, be the fully alive, vibrant being you were created to be. Than look back and say thank you.

“Live with intention. Walk to the edge. Listen hard. Practice wellness. Play with abandon. Laugh. Choose with no regret. Appreciate your friends. Continue to learn. Do what you love. Live as if this is all there is.”
Mary Anne Radmacher


Thursday, September 18, 2008

On My Way to Vegas

I am on my way to Vegas for the 2008 Hoodie Awards. Not everything will stay in Vegas...I will provide reviews and more upon my return...

Neonu

Tuesday, September 16, 2008

O’S CORNER: Dips




CRAB PATE and
HOT BROCCOLI DIP



Planning to entertain. Here are two special dips sure to please and simple to make.


Crab Pate


  • 1 can cream of mushroom soup (undiluted)
  • 1 envelope unflavored gelatin
  • 3 tablespoons cold water
  • ¾ cup mayonnaise
  • 8 ounces cream cheese, softened
  • 6 ½ ounce can crab meat, drained and flaked ( or fresh )
  • 1 small onion, grated
  • 1 cup finely chopped celery
  • Parsley sprigs for garnish

Heat soup in pan over low heat. Remove. Dissolve gelatin in cold water and add to soup. Add remaining ingredients except parsley and mix well. Spoon into oiled 4-cup mold. Chill until firm. Unmold onto a pretty plate or platter and garnish with parsley sprigs. Serve with crackers. Makes 4 cups.

This next recipe is from my friend, Nancy Dickerson. She and I met while working for the State of VA, many years ago.



Hot Broccoli Dip

  • 1 pkg. frozen chopped broccoli
  • ¼ cup margarine
  • 1 lg. onion – chopped
  • 1 can mushrooms – drained
  • 1 can cream of mushroom soup


Cook broccoli in unsalted water – drain. Melt margarine, add chopped onions and saute until transparent. Add mushrooms, soup, stirring until mixed. Layer alternately in casserole the broccoli and sauce. Bake – covered – about 40 minutes in a 350 degree oven. Serve hot with crackers, raw vegetables, or use as a vegetable casserole.

Remember: Until next Wednesday, keep it simple and fast


This Week in DC - Black MBA Conference

























Special MBA Edition of Status Wednesdays, hosted by Big Tigger and DJ Biz Markie

Location: Layla Lounge, 501 Morse St. NE (5th & Florida Ave. NE)

Time: Free Until 11pm, Grey Goose Open Bar 10pm - Midnight


This Week in Chicago

Monday, September 29
Variety Night/Neo Soul Jazz Mondays
Location: Exposure, 1315 S. Wabash Ave.
Time: 5pm - 10pm


Friday, September 26
Professional After Work Committee First Anniversary Happy Hour
Location: Plush, 1140 W. Madison
Time: 6pm - 10pm

Wednesday, September 17

Jazz at M Lounge
Location: M Lounge, 1520 S. Wabash
Time: 7pm - 10pm

Wednesday, September 17 Gary Tu Trio
Tuesday, September 23 Quadrangle
Wednesday, September 24 Dave Van Der Laan Trio
Tuesday, September 30 Julia Huff

September Concerts

9/13, Ice Cube @ House of Blues
9/20, Huey Lewis and The News @ The Venue (Horseshoe Casino)
9/21, Rock of Love Featuring Bret Michaels @ The Venue (Horseshoe Casino)
9/24 & 9/25, The Eagles @ United Center
9/25, Janet Jackson @ Allstate Arena Saturday
9/27, Common @ House of Blues

Monday, September 15, 2008

PLAY IT AS IT LIES

BLACK BEAR GOLF COURSE: 3.75 STARS

By Jeff Louis


Hmmmph. What’s up? Well, I played some mountain golf a few weeks ago and it was so good, I need to think about where I can possibly go for the good vibrations to continue. Mountain golf is very hilly and has acute angles that you can use to place your ball properly. Definitively speaking, course management skills are a must. What am I talking about? Well read on...

I decided to accept an invitation from a good friend to head North to Franklin, NJ and go bear hunting. No, it’s not the type of hunting where you need either a license or a self defense excuse, just a tee time. Black Bear Golf Course ("BBGC") is part of the Crystal Springs Resort community. When you pull into Franklin, look out for the Weis Shopping Center. The course entrance is a little hard to find but there are signs directing you accordingly (which prevent you from going shopping instead).

BBGC, in a word or two, would be described as ‘ruggedly brawny’. Forget the fact that on rare occasions you may actually spot a black bear strolling about, this course has it all. You’ll find hills, water, deep rough, undulating greens and scenery. There are certain points on the course where you feel like you are on top of the world looking across vastness. You may even want to make sure the parking brake on your cart is secure, so you don't have to chase it back down the hill!

BBGC has enough challenges to make things very interesting for even the most skilled golfer. There is no way any player can possibly sleepwalk through its layout. Pictured is the 210 yard par 3. As you can see, the green is fronted by a long pond and rocks with very little bail out area to the right. The golf axiom: "it’s better to be long, than short", applies here to your tee shot.

This is a severely contentious course. If you like to play golf, you come to courses like BBGC and challenge your game to its limits; and when you’re done, proclaim your intentions to come back and try it again. It’s worth the trip. Have I steered you wrong yet? So, I plan to come back again and again...to “feed” the bears. Not food, just my greens fees. That’s my story and I’m sticking to it.

Remember, Play It As it Lies.


Recommendation: 3.75 Stars
Current Price: Week $59, Weekend $89
Par 72, Slope 130, Rating 72.2, Yardage 6673
Address: 138 State Rte 23, Franklin, NJ 07416
Website: http://www.%20CrystalGolfResort.com


Photo courtesy of Crystal Springs Golf Resort

Sunday, September 14, 2008

War on Drugs? Really?

American Drug Wars: The Last White Hope
5 Stars

By Neonu Jewell


Kevin Booth's film American Drug Wars illuminates the history, the politics, the money, the companies, and the people behind the illegal drug market in the United States. Similar to the way Cocaine Cowboys (5 Stars) detailed how Miami really funded its renaissance. The film is rational and revealing. Booth was inspired by the death of four family members from "legal drugs."

Factual support is provided for many of the "drug myths" we have heard over the years, including the fact that the CIA was instrumental in flooding South Central, Los Angeles with cocaine in the 90's. Booth interviews gang members, legendary drug trade leader "Freeway" Ricky Ross, former DEA agents, CIA officers, narcotics officers, judges, politicians, prisoners, and celebrities.


The film compares the addictive and lethal nature of illegal drugs and alcohol, tobacco, and prescription drugs. It questions why the U.S. Government categorizes marijuana in the same category as drugs like heroin, crystal methamphetamine, and cocaine. It also explores the role privatizing the prison industry is playing in the increased incarceration of nonviolent drug offenders. And much, much more.

The message: "Prohibition Never Works as Well as Regulation and Control!" Watch it and let me know what you think. See it on DVD or Showtime On Demand until October 7.

SPIRITUAL JOURNEY

WHAT A WEEK OR TWO IT HAS BEEN: Part Two

By Angela Skeete Davis


Last week I spoke of the impact of life and death on our lives. I ended with a bit about a woman I met whose husband had died. They clearly had a relationship that was filled with love. This week I think I will speak on love. And speaking of love, several people in my life are about to embark on a journey of love. Can I call it love? Should I call it love? Well you know what they say...if it looks like a duck and quacks like a duck.... What am I talking about? Let’s call two of my friends Frick , Frack and Freck. I spoke to each within days of each other. Frick called first. Frick had met a special person. The attraction between the two of them was intense. Though they did not live near each other, they were spending weekends together and talking about taking a chance with each other, seeing where it leads and anticipating their future together. They were even discussing the possibility, if this worked, of moving in together.

A few days later Frack called. Frack had met someone. Their relationship was also a distant relationship. Though they did not venture to see each other every weekend, they spent hours talking to each other on a daily basis. Modern technology was their best friend. I was concerned about their meeting and their being no chemistry. Not too worry, Frack assured me, the sparks are there when they are together. I asked what did they talk about. The answer was, "everything - each other, their past, their goals, their friends and families, the possibility of a future together, the possibility of being a family together."

Then there’s Freck. Freck has sort of been in a relationship for the past few years. I say sort of because of the inconsistency. They spend time together, sometimes. They are intimate, sometimes. They share their lives, sometimes. The good news is that they clearly love each other - at least on some level. The problem is baggage from the past and trust issues. How do they handle it? They pull each other close because they need and care for each other. But when they feel the pull of love, they back away.

I say, go for it. A friend once said, and I can’t say it better, “better to take a chance on love and it not work out, then not and possibly miss out on forever.” I agree. Our friends agree. Just go for it! Take the chance! The possibility of forever should be just too amazing to pass up.

When I think about Frick and Frack, and even Freck, I am so happy for each of them. There is nothing like a relationship when it is new, shiny and full of possibility. But it is more than that. Listening to each describe the other person, it was/is clear to me they each provide the other the things they need emotionally. That is what will keep their relationships going when the newness wears off, which, of course, is inevitable.

I believe fulfilling needs in each other is necessary for a relationship to survive. If I am a loner, shy about going out, but would love to and I meet someone who is also a loner and shy, we may get along, we may be able to be friends, but in a relationship we do not necessarily fulfill a need that would bring out the best in each other. Instead, if I meet a social butterfly who cares for me and takes me with them to social events and helps me to over come my shyness, then this person has met a need of mine. That helps the relationship. Similarly, if I see that my new mate needs quiet time to recharge theirs batteries and I provide them with that quiet time, then I have met a need of theirs. The combined meeting of needs helps to bring out the best in each other thus taking the relationship to higher levels and helping it to soar.

In life, when trying out new relationships, it helps if each of you brings out the best in each other. You both should not only see the best in each other, but believes the best in each other, care for each other because of and in spite of each other. Your chosen possibility should cause you to want to be your best self, and vice versa. If you do all that, have all that and if your relationship satisfies things you each need, consciously or unconsciously, your relationship has a better chance of survival.

Now you may be asking yourself how all this impacts me. I firmly believe that seeing other relationships around me thrive is a sign that we can all experience great relationships. Seeing others forge bonds provides me with hope. If it can happen for them, it can happen for me. But, even if it doesn’t happen for me, seeing them happy brings me happiness and trust...often, that is enough.

This week, take a chance on love, step out in love, try a new love. This week appreciate the newness, live in the newness. This week...GO FOR IT!!


A kiss that is never tasted is forever wasted
We are all longing to go home to some place we have never been Deep in my heart, I am concealing things that I am longing for
I would have missed you even if we had never met

Author unknown

September Festival Dining in DC

September 8 - 22
Greek Modern Festival at Zaytinya
Location: Zaytinya, 701 9th St. NW, Washington, D.C. 20004
3 Stars, $$$
Ph: 202.638.0800
Click Here for more information and reservations (recommended)

Chef Christoforos Peskias of 48 The Restaurant in Athens spends two weeks at Zaytinya for the festival. Diners can expect special additions to Zaytinya’s menu for lunch and dinner, which will range in price from $8 to $14. Highlights include a pork belly souvlaki "sous vide" with tzatziki foam, sardines and grape leaves in three variations and imam bayildi, roasted eggplant with tomatoes & onions with feta ice cream. During the Festival, Zaytinya will also offer dessert specials developed by Moisides, ranging in price from $10 to $12. Guests can also sample exciting cocktails (priced at $10) based on 48 The Restaurant’s recipes. The restaurant also highlights the great wines of Greece during this festival. A special flight will be offered for $25 and will include Evharis Eva Sparkling Moschofilero, Hatzidakis Assyrtiko Santorini 2007 (white), Dalamara Xinomavro Naoussa 2002 (red) and Samos Muscat of Samos Vin Doux.

September 10 - October 5
Rosa Mexicano's 6th Annual Chocolate Festival
Location: Rosa Mexicano, 575 7th St. NW, Washington, DC 20004
4 Stars, $$$
Ph: 202-783-5522

The program includes menu specials, guest chefs, and cooking classes. Click Here for more information and reservations (recommended).

September 15 - October 12
Paella Festival: Taberna del Alabardero & Jaleo
September 15 - October 30
Location: Taberna del Alabardero, 1776 I St. NW
Ph: 202.429.22oo
Special Paella dishes will be offered during the Festival. The downtown restaurant will also host cooking demonstrations and give away free samples from 11 a.m. to noon on Monday, Sept. 15.

September 29 - October 12
Location: Jaleo (Bethesda, DC, Crystal City)
Jaleo, in collaboration with Chef Rafael Vidal of Restaurante Levante in Valencia, Spain, designed a special menu of paellas ranging in price from $30 to $45. Chef Vidal will host the cooking of a giant paella and give out free samples at the Dupont FreshFarm Market Market on Sunday, Sept. 28. The Bethesda Jaleo will offer free paella samples at the bar during a happy hour from 5 to 7 p.m. on Oct. 1.

In Chicago and Getting Married?

Modern Luxury Invite

CS BRIDES presents

AN AFTERNOON OF
BRIDAL LUXURY

Oak Street's Second-Annual
Charitable Wedding Walk


Sunday, September 28 I 12PM - 4PM


Walk begins at The Private Dining Rooms of Spiaggia
980 North Michigan Avenue - Level Three

Experience couture gowns, elegant jewels, haute cuisine, delectable cakes and exquisite florals, all on Oak Street. Brides receive a Luxury Tote Bag filled with extraordinary gifts.

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RSVP REQUIRED by September 19
For event details, call 312.274.2506


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