Here is a popular holiday dessert. You can substitute sweet potatoes or acorn squash and it is still delicious.
• 3 eggs 1/8 teaspoon cloves
• 1 can (1 lb.) pumpkin ½ teaspoon salt
• ½ cup packed light brown sugar ¾ cup milk or half and half
• ½ cup granulated white sugar ½ cup heavy cream
• 1 teaspoon cinnamon 9-inch unbaked pie shell
• ½ teaspoon ginger Whipped cream
• ¼ cup nutmeg
Preheat oven to 350 degrees. In large bowl, beat eggs slightly. Add pumpkin, sugars, spices, salt and beat until well blended. Slowly add milk and cream. Pour into shell. Bake 60 to 70 minutes or until knife inserted in center comes out clean. Cool on rack. Just before serving, decorate pie with Whipped cream. Refrigerate any leftover.
Remember keep it simple and fast.
Monday, December 22, 2008
Friday, December 19, 2008
O's Corner: Scandalous Spinach
This is a great way to make a vegetable spectacular. If you have little ones who won’t eat their greens, then try this recipe. Most kids love foods with cheese.
• 2-4 pkgs. Chopped frozen spinach, thawed, drained
• 1 pt. sour cream
• 1 envelope of Good Seasonings cheese garlic or garlic dressing mix
Thaw spinach and drain. Add sour cream and then dressing mix (about a hand full). If you can’t find the packaged dressing mix, substitute a cheese dressing of your choice, such as Parmesan or ranch bacon dressing (Adults may prefer blue cheese). Heat in 350-degree oven.
2 packages will serve 2-4 and 4 will serve 4-6.
• 2-4 pkgs. Chopped frozen spinach, thawed, drained
• 1 pt. sour cream
• 1 envelope of Good Seasonings cheese garlic or garlic dressing mix
Thaw spinach and drain. Add sour cream and then dressing mix (about a hand full). If you can’t find the packaged dressing mix, substitute a cheese dressing of your choice, such as Parmesan or ranch bacon dressing (Adults may prefer blue cheese). Heat in 350-degree oven.
2 packages will serve 2-4 and 4 will serve 4-6.
Remember, keep it simple and fast.
SPIRITUAL JOURNEY (DIVORCE)
DIVORCE PERSPECTIVE
JC’s Interview; Part One
By Angela
JC’s Interview; Part One
By Angela
My next interview is with a man who has been divorced for three years. I shall call him JC. He has had a hard time and is still recovering. Here are some things you should know about him. He is a former truck driver. He knew his ex-wife for five years before they married. They were married for seven years before she asked him for a divorce. Their marriage produced no children although she had one child from a prior relationship. They were separated for three months before their divorce was finalized. He is still single. This is his story.
Your wife was the one who asked for a divorce, right? How did it happen?
She came to me one Friday night in October and said she wanted a divorce. She said we were growing apart; that we weren’t growing together and that the marriage was stagnant.
Did you have any prior indications that she wanted a divorce?
No.
This was a total surprise?
Yes
How long were you separated?
Three months. She asked me for a divorce in October. We were divorced December 31st and the final papers came in January.
How did you manage to finalize things so quickly?
I consented to the divorce and we split everything. She took the furniture, I took the car
What was your reaction when she said she wanted a divorce?
I didn‘t believe her at first. I told her we should just separate for a while. She could do whatever it was she needed to do and when she was ready, she could come back. The house and I would be there and we could move on.
What was her response?
She wanted a divorce. She cried and said, “please let me have a divorce. Don‘t give me any problems.”
What did you do?
I didn’t contest. But I still left it open for her. If she wanted to work it out, we could work it out.
Describe the three months that you were separated.
She lived upstairs, in the bedroom. I lived downstairs, in our son’s old room. I had my own bathroom. We started living separate lives. That’s when I started finding out why she wanted a divorce...
Which was?
The other man that was in her life. She wanted to leave me for him. She is married to him now.
I must ask again. Were there no clues, no indications of any kind that she was unhappy?
She was unhappy but so was I. I thought we could work it out. I didn’t think she was seeing anybody else. I had no indications that she was seeing someone else. I just thought we were both stressed out because our son was getting into a lot of trouble. I thought maybe that was the factor that was stressing us. I thought that we would get past that.
Did you two talk about the issues?
Yes we did. There were days when I did not want to talk and days when she did not want to talk, and days when we both did not want to talk. When we did talk, it was mostly about our son and paying bills.
So was there no real talk between the two of you?
She eventually told me that she had emotional needs. She told me I didn’t tell her how beautiful she was, I didn’t tell her how much I cared for her. I told her I loved her, every day, more than once a day. But I didn’t tell her the things she needed to hear to make her feel good about herself
But I had emotional needs, too. And she didn’t tell me the things she wanted me to tell her, either. I was under stress. I was working two jobs, working seven days a week. But, at the time, there was so much happening that we both couldn’t see what was right in front of us. No one was being abused, we were not disrespecting each other, at least as far as I knew. We were still doing the household and family things that needed to be done. As far as I was concerned, she was my best friend and I was hers. We just allowed things to get between us - like our son, our friends….
At that point, would you have taken her back?
At the beginning sure. But not at that point. Not when I found out that other people knew there was another man. Then, all bets were off. Even then, though, I thought about it. I weighed it out, because this was the only person I had ever loved. And people make mistakes. You could be married for thirty years or forever, and you still have to work things out. Divorce was never in my vocabulary.
How did you cope?
I started hanging out more often after work with the other truck drivers. And I held on for the sake of holding on, I guess, just to get through it. But once the papers came in and the house was sold, and I was left with, pretty much, nothing, I felt nothing.
How did your family react when you told them you were getting a divorce?
They didn’t know. I didn’t tell them until the divorce was finalized. Then it was the usual: “you’ll be okay”, “everything will be alright”, “you’ll move on”, “good thing you didn’t have any kids together.”
Do you feel they were supportive?
In their own way. I guess they did the best they could. I never asked for any help and they never offered.
Why?
I’ve always been like, "I’ll be okay. I’ll take this one on the chin and keep it moving.” So, they were like, “J. will be all right.” I think they felt I would just take it like a man and keep going. They had no clue what I was going through.
What about your friends?
Same thing. Two of my friends were going through the same thing. They were helpful. Well, not really. They were bitter, so they did the best they could with what they knew. They said things like, "it will be alright”, “forget her”, “move on.” Some said "it takes a while.” One friend said, "do your thing.” And, one said, “you shouldn’t date at all.”
What did you do different while you were separated?
I still went to work. But I drank constantly. I was devastated. I didn’t do any drugs, but I ate a lot and drank a lot. I’d go to a bar at about six or seven o’clock in the evening and stay ‘til it closed. That would be my Monday through Friday.
How did you get home?
I drove home. I made it home. God was with me, because there were several nights when I would be in the parking lot, passed out, with the engine running. I should be dead or locked up but God was with me.
And so concludes Part One of my interview with JC. It is clear this divorce was, at least for JC, totally unexpected and devastating. It is a shame he felt there was no one he could turn to for help and support. That is what is most needed during times of great adversity, what he most needed. Next time, more of my interview with JC.
Your wife was the one who asked for a divorce, right? How did it happen?
She came to me one Friday night in October and said she wanted a divorce. She said we were growing apart; that we weren’t growing together and that the marriage was stagnant.
Did you have any prior indications that she wanted a divorce?
No.
This was a total surprise?
Yes
How long were you separated?
Three months. She asked me for a divorce in October. We were divorced December 31st and the final papers came in January.
How did you manage to finalize things so quickly?
I consented to the divorce and we split everything. She took the furniture, I took the car
What was your reaction when she said she wanted a divorce?
I didn‘t believe her at first. I told her we should just separate for a while. She could do whatever it was she needed to do and when she was ready, she could come back. The house and I would be there and we could move on.
What was her response?
She wanted a divorce. She cried and said, “please let me have a divorce. Don‘t give me any problems.”
What did you do?
I didn’t contest. But I still left it open for her. If she wanted to work it out, we could work it out.
Describe the three months that you were separated.
She lived upstairs, in the bedroom. I lived downstairs, in our son’s old room. I had my own bathroom. We started living separate lives. That’s when I started finding out why she wanted a divorce...
Which was?
The other man that was in her life. She wanted to leave me for him. She is married to him now.
I must ask again. Were there no clues, no indications of any kind that she was unhappy?
She was unhappy but so was I. I thought we could work it out. I didn’t think she was seeing anybody else. I had no indications that she was seeing someone else. I just thought we were both stressed out because our son was getting into a lot of trouble. I thought maybe that was the factor that was stressing us. I thought that we would get past that.
Did you two talk about the issues?
Yes we did. There were days when I did not want to talk and days when she did not want to talk, and days when we both did not want to talk. When we did talk, it was mostly about our son and paying bills.
So was there no real talk between the two of you?
She eventually told me that she had emotional needs. She told me I didn’t tell her how beautiful she was, I didn’t tell her how much I cared for her. I told her I loved her, every day, more than once a day. But I didn’t tell her the things she needed to hear to make her feel good about herself
But I had emotional needs, too. And she didn’t tell me the things she wanted me to tell her, either. I was under stress. I was working two jobs, working seven days a week. But, at the time, there was so much happening that we both couldn’t see what was right in front of us. No one was being abused, we were not disrespecting each other, at least as far as I knew. We were still doing the household and family things that needed to be done. As far as I was concerned, she was my best friend and I was hers. We just allowed things to get between us - like our son, our friends….
At that point, would you have taken her back?
At the beginning sure. But not at that point. Not when I found out that other people knew there was another man. Then, all bets were off. Even then, though, I thought about it. I weighed it out, because this was the only person I had ever loved. And people make mistakes. You could be married for thirty years or forever, and you still have to work things out. Divorce was never in my vocabulary.
How did you cope?
I started hanging out more often after work with the other truck drivers. And I held on for the sake of holding on, I guess, just to get through it. But once the papers came in and the house was sold, and I was left with, pretty much, nothing, I felt nothing.
How did your family react when you told them you were getting a divorce?
They didn’t know. I didn’t tell them until the divorce was finalized. Then it was the usual: “you’ll be okay”, “everything will be alright”, “you’ll move on”, “good thing you didn’t have any kids together.”
Do you feel they were supportive?
In their own way. I guess they did the best they could. I never asked for any help and they never offered.
Why?
I’ve always been like, "I’ll be okay. I’ll take this one on the chin and keep it moving.” So, they were like, “J. will be all right.” I think they felt I would just take it like a man and keep going. They had no clue what I was going through.
What about your friends?
Same thing. Two of my friends were going through the same thing. They were helpful. Well, not really. They were bitter, so they did the best they could with what they knew. They said things like, "it will be alright”, “forget her”, “move on.” Some said "it takes a while.” One friend said, "do your thing.” And, one said, “you shouldn’t date at all.”
What did you do different while you were separated?
I still went to work. But I drank constantly. I was devastated. I didn’t do any drugs, but I ate a lot and drank a lot. I’d go to a bar at about six or seven o’clock in the evening and stay ‘til it closed. That would be my Monday through Friday.
How did you get home?
I drove home. I made it home. God was with me, because there were several nights when I would be in the parking lot, passed out, with the engine running. I should be dead or locked up but God was with me.
And so concludes Part One of my interview with JC. It is clear this divorce was, at least for JC, totally unexpected and devastating. It is a shame he felt there was no one he could turn to for help and support. That is what is most needed during times of great adversity, what he most needed. Next time, more of my interview with JC.
Saturday, December 13, 2008
DW's Loop
“How can you stay in the Loop, if you aren’t in the Loop?”
December 12 - 14, 2008
Friday
Jbar Fridays
610 N. Rush
http://www.jameshotels.com/Chicago
Saturday
Salud's Holiday Party
1471 N. Milwaukee
8pm - 11pm
$25 per person - includes Open Bar
RSVP @ 773-276-7582
Space is limited
Sunday
2nd Annual Ugly Christmas Sweater & Naughty Elves Party
Krem
1750 N. Clark
For reservations call Brandon 708-769-5555
Toys for Tots donation at the door
For more info: www.kremchicago.com
Cocktail for the Week - Aztec Punch
Ingredients
Instructions:
Mix all ingredients in a pitcher thoroughly and pour into high ball or Collins glass
Bonus of the Week – Drambuie Presents: Belmont Burlesque
Monday, December 15th
Angels & Kings
710 N Clark St
Drambuie cocktails from 8pm - 11pm
RSVP @ www.myopenbar.com/belmontburlesque
December 12 - 14, 2008
Friday
Jbar Fridays
610 N. Rush
http://www.jameshotels.com/Chicago
Saturday
Salud's Holiday Party
1471 N. Milwaukee
8pm - 11pm
$25 per person - includes Open Bar
RSVP @ 773-276-7582
Space is limited
Sunday
2nd Annual Ugly Christmas Sweater & Naughty Elves Party
Krem
1750 N. Clark
For reservations call Brandon 708-769-5555
Toys for Tots donation at the door
For more info: www.kremchicago.com
Cocktail for the Week - Aztec Punch
Ingredients
- 1 can Lemonade Concentrate
- 5 oz Vodka
- 7 oz Rum
- About 1 bottle Ginger ale
- Ice
Instructions:
Mix all ingredients in a pitcher thoroughly and pour into high ball or Collins glass
Bonus of the Week – Drambuie Presents: Belmont Burlesque
Monday, December 15th
Angels & Kings
710 N Clark St
Drambuie cocktails from 8pm - 11pm
RSVP @ www.myopenbar.com/belmontburlesque
Wednesday, December 10, 2008
To Do in South Florida - December
Dec. 9
Ex- Doobie Brother – Michael McDonald
8 p.m.: Culture Room, 3045 N. Federal Hwy., Fort Lauderdale;
954-564-1074; $40-$68.
Dec. 12
Alhambra Orchestra’s holiday pops concert; 7 p.m.;
The Barnacle Historic State Park, 3485 Main Hwy., Coconut
Grove, 305-442-6866 or www.alhambramusic.org; $10.
Dec. 13
Y-100’s Jingle Ball, featuring Rihanna, Fall Out Boy, Katy
Perry and Jesse McCartney,; 7 p.m.; BankAtlantic Center, 2555
Panther Pkwy., Sunrise. Ticketmaster, $43.
Mixed Fighting Alliance’s “There Will Be Blood 2008”;
8 p.m., American Airlines Arena, 601 Biscayne Blvd. Miami;
786-777-1250 or aaarena.com; $33-$200.
Dec. 14
Lil Wayne’s “I Am Music Tour,” with Keyshia Cole,
T-Pain and Gym Class Heroes; 7 p.m.; American Airlines Arena,
601 Biscayne Blvd., Miami. 786-777-1250 or aaarena.com;
$36.75-$76.75.
Ex- Doobie Brother – Michael McDonald
8 p.m.: Culture Room, 3045 N. Federal Hwy., Fort Lauderdale;
954-564-1074; $40-$68.
Dec. 12
Alhambra Orchestra’s holiday pops concert; 7 p.m.;
The Barnacle Historic State Park, 3485 Main Hwy., Coconut
Grove, 305-442-6866 or www.alhambramusic.org; $10.
Dec. 13
Y-100’s Jingle Ball, featuring Rihanna, Fall Out Boy, Katy
Perry and Jesse McCartney,; 7 p.m.; BankAtlantic Center, 2555
Panther Pkwy., Sunrise. Ticketmaster, $43.
Mixed Fighting Alliance’s “There Will Be Blood 2008”;
8 p.m., American Airlines Arena, 601 Biscayne Blvd. Miami;
786-777-1250 or aaarena.com; $33-$200.
Dec. 14
Lil Wayne’s “I Am Music Tour,” with Keyshia Cole,
T-Pain and Gym Class Heroes; 7 p.m.; American Airlines Arena,
601 Biscayne Blvd., Miami. 786-777-1250 or aaarena.com;
$36.75-$76.75.
O's Corner: Quick, Sweet, Beef Stew
I don’t remember who I got this recipe from. All I remember is that I’ve been preparing it since the early eighties. It became a favorite for cold days, especially Saturdays, when you have less preparation time because of the long list of errands. This works very well in the crock pot or your big soup pot. The preparation time is only about 10 minutes. This serves 4-6.
- 2 lbs. stew beef (cut in bite-size pieces)
- 1 pkg. brown gravy mix or one jar of beef or mushroom gravy
- 2 cups apple juice
- ½ pkg. Lipton’s onion soup mix
- 1 cup chopped onion and green peppers/ already diced in container from store
Pour apple juice into casserole dish, add brown gravy mix, onion soup mix, and raw, cubed, bite-size beef. Cover. Bake 3 hours at 300 degrees or until tender in crock pot. Add onions and green pepper for the last half hour. You can add any other vegetables of your choice at this time. Carrots, parsnips, peas, green beans, corn are good choices (Note: Carrots and parsnips should be added an hour before completion). Taste test and if necessary, add salt, pepper and other spices to suit your taste. Serve over noodles, rice or biscuits.
If fewer servings are needed, the leftovers taste as good or better the next day.
Tuesday, December 9, 2008
SPIRITUAL JOURNEY - Love Angst (part two)
.23 Love Angst (Part Two)
by Angela Skeete Davis
Morrie Schwartz (December 20, 1916 to November 4, 1995, an American educator)
by Angela Skeete Davis
Think about this, if you don’t let go, you will become stagnant and
paralyzed. But if you do let go, you open yourself to the possibility of forever next time. Does that not work for you? I have another. Write all the bad stuff down on paper. Then rip it up into tiny pieces, put those tiny pieces in an ashtray, set it all on fire and watch them burn away. Hopefully some of your pain will burn away too. Or bury the paper. The point is to put some action to your letting go to make the letting go a little easier.
Does that not work for you? Do you need an example, instead? How about a story? I know a man who has had his share of relationship endings and heartache. Yet when he talks, you can hear in his voice and see in his face how much he loved in those past relationships. You can hear and see how hard he tried to make the relationships work. I am sure that when women hear him speak about his past, about his former loves, they want to get next to him. A man that can love like that and keep the good and speak of the good in spite of the bad is a man to be cherished. Most women want to be loved like that. Hell, most men want to be loved like that. When he says he wants to experience the joy that loving can bring, the happiness that being in love can bring, you believe him.
Still not convinced that choosing not to fall in love is not the answer? How about this?(I may have told you about this already, I don’t remember) A few years ago, a friend of mine met a man and six months later told me she was in love with him. As she is a widow like me and we have had, in the past, similar feelings about the possibility of falling in love again (never), I was surprised. I asked her how it could happen. She said her capacity to love her husband gave her the capacity to love again. She said she had enough love in her to still love her husband deeply and yet love this man deeply and truly. She said she brings to the relationship all that she had with her husband plus all of her maturity and other experiences; that now, older, she can love deeper, more passionately, with more knowledge and more abilities. She said she was excited about the relationship and its possibilities.
I was skeptical. But I thought a lot about what she said and eventually a light bulb came on in my head and I got it. A loving relationship that ends does not limit our ability to love, it enhances it. The more we love, the more we can love. The more we can love, the more we are given opportunities to love. The more opportunities we are given, the more we love. It is a beautiful circle of love. That I get. That I want to be a part of. Like a love-fest of life. If it is a ride, sign me up. If it is a party, where can I get my ticket. If it is just about life, let me live it to the fullest.
I guess the ultimate comment is it is better to step out on faith, and take a chance at love and true, everlasting happiness than to stay within one’s self and deny love to prevent possible heartache. Besides, whoever heard of possible heartache. Shouldn't possibility be about hope, be about heart-joy or heart-happiness. After all, without hope there is no real chance at love and without love, we die or become scarred. So, if I must die and I must, I want to die knowing I gave love every possible chance.
Still not sure, here are some things I think are true…
It doesn’t matter how they left you feeling, what matters is how you felt at the very best of times.
Do not honor them by remembering the worst and how it left you emotionally, honor yourself by remembering the best, how much of yourself you gave and how good that was.
Do not deny yourself because it did not work out that time, delight yourself with the anticipation and expectation of “possible forever happiness” this time.
Do not count your moments by the memories that broke your heart, fill your heart album with the moments that caused your soul to soar.
Do not look to the failure as the whole of the relationship, remember the success within and use them as your barometer for what to expect next.
“The most important thing in life is to learn how to give out love, and to let it come in.”
paralyzed. But if you do let go, you open yourself to the possibility of forever next time. Does that not work for you? I have another. Write all the bad stuff down on paper. Then rip it up into tiny pieces, put those tiny pieces in an ashtray, set it all on fire and watch them burn away. Hopefully some of your pain will burn away too. Or bury the paper. The point is to put some action to your letting go to make the letting go a little easier.Does that not work for you? Do you need an example, instead? How about a story? I know a man who has had his share of relationship endings and heartache. Yet when he talks, you can hear in his voice and see in his face how much he loved in those past relationships. You can hear and see how hard he tried to make the relationships work. I am sure that when women hear him speak about his past, about his former loves, they want to get next to him. A man that can love like that and keep the good and speak of the good in spite of the bad is a man to be cherished. Most women want to be loved like that. Hell, most men want to be loved like that. When he says he wants to experience the joy that loving can bring, the happiness that being in love can bring, you believe him.
Still not convinced that choosing not to fall in love is not the answer? How about this?(I may have told you about this already, I don’t remember) A few years ago, a friend of mine met a man and six months later told me she was in love with him. As she is a widow like me and we have had, in the past, similar feelings about the possibility of falling in love again (never), I was surprised. I asked her how it could happen. She said her capacity to love her husband gave her the capacity to love again. She said she had enough love in her to still love her husband deeply and yet love this man deeply and truly. She said she brings to the relationship all that she had with her husband plus all of her maturity and other experiences; that now, older, she can love deeper, more passionately, with more knowledge and more abilities. She said she was excited about the relationship and its possibilities.
I was skeptical. But I thought a lot about what she said and eventually a light bulb came on in my head and I got it. A loving relationship that ends does not limit our ability to love, it enhances it. The more we love, the more we can love. The more we can love, the more we are given opportunities to love. The more opportunities we are given, the more we love. It is a beautiful circle of love. That I get. That I want to be a part of. Like a love-fest of life. If it is a ride, sign me up. If it is a party, where can I get my ticket. If it is just about life, let me live it to the fullest.
I guess the ultimate comment is it is better to step out on faith, and take a chance at love and true, everlasting happiness than to stay within one’s self and deny love to prevent possible heartache. Besides, whoever heard of possible heartache. Shouldn't possibility be about hope, be about heart-joy or heart-happiness. After all, without hope there is no real chance at love and without love, we die or become scarred. So, if I must die and I must, I want to die knowing I gave love every possible chance.
Still not sure, here are some things I think are true…
It doesn’t matter how they left you feeling, what matters is how you felt at the very best of times.
Do not honor them by remembering the worst and how it left you emotionally, honor yourself by remembering the best, how much of yourself you gave and how good that was.
Do not deny yourself because it did not work out that time, delight yourself with the anticipation and expectation of “possible forever happiness” this time.
Do not count your moments by the memories that broke your heart, fill your heart album with the moments that caused your soul to soar.
Do not look to the failure as the whole of the relationship, remember the success within and use them as your barometer for what to expect next.
Morrie Schwartz (December 20, 1916 to November 4, 1995, an American educator)
Tuesday, November 25, 2008
DW's Loop: Thanksgiving Special
Too many options to list here. Click Here for the full details on what's hot in Chicago for Thanksgiving week.
Sunday, November 23, 2008
SPIRITUAL JOURNEY (THANKSGIVING)
HAPPY THANKSGIVING
by Angela Skeete-Davis
Once again it is time for Thanksgiving. I love Thanksgiving … sharing a meal with people I love, some of whom I only get to see during the holidays. I also love cooking for thanksgiving and for the people I love; watching everyone enjoy the meal, and eating all the different foods at a thanksgiving feast ( some that I only eat during Thanksgiving). But most of all, I enjoy taking the time to go over the past year and say thanks for all the blessings of the year and then putting out there my wishes for the next twelve months …. Or so. So here a few of the things I am thankful for this year and a few of my wishes for the next twelve months or so.
I am thankful for my mother and daughter. I am thankful for my family, my extended family, my church family, my neighbors, my mentors, my coaches and my friends. I am thankful for the health of my mothers and daughter. I am thankful for the success of my sister and brother and I am thankful for my new nephew.
I am thankful for the young people and children in my life. I wish them lots of happiness and laughter. I am thankful for the older people in my life. I wish them peace of mind, very little pain and lots of love and support. I am thankful for the men in my life. I wish them the ability to conceive of the life they would love to live and the opportunity and ability to manifest that life. I am thankful for the women in my life. I wish them lots of love and happiness and the opportunity to live the life they dream of.
I am thankful for all the people who have come and gone in my life: my father, husband, sister, aunts, uncles, mentors, children and friends. I am thankful for the ability to see, hear, taste, touch, smell, think, run, jump, dance and sing. I am thankful for the ability to discern the good in my life and be appreciative of it. I am thankful for all of the blessings in my life and any future blessings. I am thankful that almost all of my needs and most of my wants are met and that my dreams are supported. I am thankful for my home, my animals and my car. I am thankful for a life filled with beauty, love, joy, happiness, moments of peace and laughter and I hope I make a difference in the life of others.
I am thankful to live where I live and in the era that I am living. I pray the people of the world have adequate food, drink, clothing, shelter, love, happiness and peace. I am thankful for an election that brought Obama to the White House and I wish him safety, lots of support and good health.
More than anything I am thankful to be alive and to be able to share my life with others and to give love to so many people. I am thankful to have happy, healthy, loving relationships in my life and I am thankful to all who read and support Neonu’s InSite. May you all have a very blessed and happy thanksgiving.
Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. It turns what we have into enough, and more. It turns denial into acceptance, chaos to order, confusion to clarity. It can turn a meal into a feast, a house into a home, a stranger into a friend. Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today, and creates a vision for tomorrow.
by Angela Skeete-Davis
Once again it is time for Thanksgiving. I love Thanksgiving … sharing a meal with people I love, some of whom I only get to see during the holidays. I also love cooking for thanksgiving and for the people I love; watching everyone enjoy the meal, and eating all the different foods at a thanksgiving feast ( some that I only eat during Thanksgiving). But most of all, I enjoy taking the time to go over the past year and say thanks for all the blessings of the year and then putting out there my wishes for the next twelve months …. Or so. So here a few of the things I am thankful for this year and a few of my wishes for the next twelve months or so.
I am thankful for my mother and daughter. I am thankful for my family, my extended family, my church family, my neighbors, my mentors, my coaches and my friends. I am thankful for the health of my mothers and daughter. I am thankful for the success of my sister and brother and I am thankful for my new nephew.
I am thankful for the young people and children in my life. I wish them lots of happiness and laughter. I am thankful for the older people in my life. I wish them peace of mind, very little pain and lots of love and support. I am thankful for the men in my life. I wish them the ability to conceive of the life they would love to live and the opportunity and ability to manifest that life. I am thankful for the women in my life. I wish them lots of love and happiness and the opportunity to live the life they dream of.
I am thankful for all the people who have come and gone in my life: my father, husband, sister, aunts, uncles, mentors, children and friends. I am thankful for the ability to see, hear, taste, touch, smell, think, run, jump, dance and sing. I am thankful for the ability to discern the good in my life and be appreciative of it. I am thankful for all of the blessings in my life and any future blessings. I am thankful that almost all of my needs and most of my wants are met and that my dreams are supported. I am thankful for my home, my animals and my car. I am thankful for a life filled with beauty, love, joy, happiness, moments of peace and laughter and I hope I make a difference in the life of others.
I am thankful to live where I live and in the era that I am living. I pray the people of the world have adequate food, drink, clothing, shelter, love, happiness and peace. I am thankful for an election that brought Obama to the White House and I wish him safety, lots of support and good health.
More than anything I am thankful to be alive and to be able to share my life with others and to give love to so many people. I am thankful to have happy, healthy, loving relationships in my life and I am thankful to all who read and support Neonu’s InSite. May you all have a very blessed and happy thanksgiving.
Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. It turns what we have into enough, and more. It turns denial into acceptance, chaos to order, confusion to clarity. It can turn a meal into a feast, a house into a home, a stranger into a friend. Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today, and creates a vision for tomorrow.
--Melody Beattie
Thursday, November 20, 2008
DW's Loop
“How can you stay in the Loop, if you aren’t in the Loop?”
November 21 - 23, 2008
Friday
Friday Night Fever @ The Joynt
650 N Dearborn$100 bottles of Three Olives Vodka & $150 bottles of Grey Goose before 11pm
Ladies pay no cover all night with RSVP
Guys pay no cover until midnight & $10 after with RSVP
RSVP @ www.trystnightlife.com/event/rsvp/145
Saturday
Dino Latino's Ultimate 70'S 80'S 90'S Party
Rios D'Sudamerica
2010 W Armitage Ave
RSVP @ crpartylist@aol.com
http://www.riosdesudamerica.com/
Sunday
SALSA Sundays @ Cubby Bear
1059 W Addison
6pm - 2am
Latin dance lesson at 7pm
Food served until 11pm.
Free Parking
Guest list @ http://www.livesalsasundays.com/
Cocktail for the Week – Passion Play
November 21 - 23, 2008
Friday
Friday Night Fever @ The Joynt
650 N Dearborn$100 bottles of Three Olives Vodka & $150 bottles of Grey Goose before 11pm
Ladies pay no cover all night with RSVP
Guys pay no cover until midnight & $10 after with RSVP
RSVP @ www.trystnightlife.com/event/rsvp/145
Saturday
Dino Latino's Ultimate 70'S 80'S 90'S Party
Rios D'Sudamerica
2010 W Armitage Ave
RSVP @ crpartylist@aol.com
http://www.riosdesudamerica.com/
Sunday
SALSA Sundays @ Cubby Bear
1059 W Addison
6pm - 2am
Latin dance lesson at 7pm
Food served until 11pm.
Free Parking
Guest list @ http://www.livesalsasundays.com/
Cocktail for the Week – Passion Play
- 2oz SKYY Infusions Passion Fruit Vodka
- 2oz Orange juice1oz 7up
Add SKYY and OJ into a shaker. Add ice and shake vigorously. Strain over fresh ice into a Collins glass. Top with 7up and garnish with a slice of orange.
Bonus of the Week – Get over the “Hump”
Celebrate Hump Day at Crobar for Tropical Wednesdays
1543 N. Kingsbury
10pm to 4am
Salsa, Merengue, Bachata, with a splash of Reggaeton and a sprinkle of Hip-Hop
$4 Heineken & Heineken Lights, $5 Cazadores tequila shots, $5 Bacardi drinks
No cover with RSVP until midnight @ http://baila.com/v5group-chicago
November Favorite – Hunt Club
Hunt Club
1100 N State http://www.huntclubchicago.com/
Monday: $4 Effen mixers
Tuesday: 1/2 price bottles of wine
Wednesday: $5 mango martinis
Thursday: $5 'O' Bombs, No cover, DJs from 10pm - 2am
Friday: $5 Kamikaze shots, DJs from 10pm - 2am
Saturday: $5 Skyy Bloody Mary's, DJs from 10pm - 2am
Sunday: $5 Skyy Bloody Mary's, $3 Miller Lite & MGD bottles
Wednesday, November 19, 2008
SPIRITUAL JOURNEY - a love angst (part one)
.22 Love Angst (Part One) by Angela Skeet Davis
This is about love. As I have said in the past, I was not going to write about love. It is not that I have anything against love. But, I wanted to write about my spiritual journey and I thought the two were separate. Quite the contrary. It seems to me that love is pretty much all we talk about. Even when we are not talking about love, we are talking about love….or sex (but that is another conversation left for another day).
Anyway, isn’t love what most of our conversations are about, at least underneath. When we complain about how others treat us, we are really complaining that they don’t treat us with love. When we look at all the “isms” and prejudices that we experience aren’t they all about someone denying us love. And when we are happy or joyful isn’t it really because something positive has happened to us that opens up our hearts to love
Maybe I am over-simplifying things. My point really is, we are made from love, for love, to love. When we deny ourselves the opportunity to experience love, in all its forms, we deny ourselves our very essence. In point of fact, we deny our spirits, our souls, ourselves the ultimate nourishment. You know, scientists have discovered that babies will die or become emotionally dysfunctional if not given love and affection the first year of their lives. So too, we die or become emotionally scarred if we are not given love, if we do not experience love. The profundity of it is almost mind-blowing.
So my question - why would we want to deny ourselves love? ...
This is about love. As I have said in the past, I was not going to write about love. It is not that I have anything against love. But, I wanted to write about my spiritual journey and I thought the two were separate. Quite the contrary. It seems to me that love is pretty much all we talk about. Even when we are not talking about love, we are talking about love….or sex (but that is another conversation left for another day).
Anyway, isn’t love what most of our conversations are about, at least underneath. When we complain about how others treat us, we are really complaining that they don’t treat us with love. When we look at all the “isms” and prejudices that we experience aren’t they all about someone denying us love. And when we are happy or joyful isn’t it really because something positive has happened to us that opens up our hearts to love
Maybe I am over-simplifying things. My point really is, we are made from love, for love, to love. When we deny ourselves the opportunity to experience love, in all its forms, we deny ourselves our very essence. In point of fact, we deny our spirits, our souls, ourselves the ultimate nourishment. You know, scientists have discovered that babies will die or become emotionally dysfunctional if not given love and affection the first year of their lives. So too, we die or become emotionally scarred if we are not given love, if we do not experience love. The profundity of it is almost mind-blowing.
So my question - why would we want to deny ourselves love? ...
And so many of us do, either because of bad break ups or because of broken hearts. But love is a majestic feeling. And while it can cause us to descend to the lowest of lows, it can also lift our hearts and spirits. It can bring a glow to our faces, brighten a day and ease pain. The expression “friendship doubles our joy and divides our grief” is true because friendship is based on mutual love.
Now, don’t get me wrong. I am not saying that love is perfect. It is not. Nor am I saying that all love lasts. We all know that love can end and sometimes it can end cruelly or bitterly. I recognize that sometimes the end of love can be soooo painful, can beat us up soooo badly, we never want to take a chance on love again. I just do not believe that is the answer.
That is really what I want to talk about. The immobilization that a bad end to loving can bring about. I have read many books and heard many say that we can control our emotions and that the emotions that others cause us to feel are their story and that, as such, we should be able to let go and move on with our own story. Deep inside, I know it is true - the people who break our hearts are not thinking about us or how we are feeling. Half the time, they don’t even realize that we are still lamenting that thing they said or did. So, if they can move on, we should move on. But to know it and then to believe it and act as if it true is each very different and very hard to do.
More importantly, you would think we would all want to let go of the negative effects of painful endings to love. You would think we would all want to just put them out of our minds - leaving space for the next good relationship. But we don’t. Letting go and moving on is like cleaning out the clothes in one’s closet. First, we have to make time to clean out the closet and there are always so many other things we would rather do. Then, we have to figure out what we are going to do with the things we decide to get ride of, which can be a hassle. Now, if we get past this stage and actually start to go through our closet, that is when the hard part begins. We keep things we no longer wear because we hate parting with things we have invested part of our selves in. We tell ourselves that either we are actually going to wear that one day because the style is going to come back or we are going to lose those extra pounds. In reality, it is just easier to keep what we have than deal with throwing things out. We forget getting rid of old means making space for new.
Similarly, we hold on to past relationships. They take up residence in our hearts and minds. Sometimes we believe they will come back. But, more often, we are just scared to venture back out into the world of dating and the possibility of loving again. That fear of falling in love and it failing rears its ugly head and prevents us from experiencing the wonder, beauty and happiness of love. We become cautious in spite of ourselves, because of ourselves.
I know, I know …. tell that to someone who is going through a break-up or a divorce. The pain and devastation left behind is like the work of a wrecking ball - all chaos and confusion and destruction with no hope of recovery. Yet, most of us do, eventually, learn to go on. We do eventually go on again. Granted we take with us the baggage that the ended relationship has left us with, but we move on.
What I want is for us (myself included) is to learn to let go of the baggage. At least some of it. This is one of my favorite things to do to let go and move on. Take some time and think about your relationship. Remember the good memories and take them and place them in your heart album. Then, take all the lessons you have learned and store them away in your brain to be pulled out as needed. Take what is left, grind it into grains of sand and blow it all away. It is not an easy task but with practice, it can work. What it does is allow you to let go of the negatives and keep only the positives.
Now, don’t get me wrong. I am not saying that love is perfect. It is not. Nor am I saying that all love lasts. We all know that love can end and sometimes it can end cruelly or bitterly. I recognize that sometimes the end of love can be soooo painful, can beat us up soooo badly, we never want to take a chance on love again. I just do not believe that is the answer.
That is really what I want to talk about. The immobilization that a bad end to loving can bring about. I have read many books and heard many say that we can control our emotions and that the emotions that others cause us to feel are their story and that, as such, we should be able to let go and move on with our own story. Deep inside, I know it is true - the people who break our hearts are not thinking about us or how we are feeling. Half the time, they don’t even realize that we are still lamenting that thing they said or did. So, if they can move on, we should move on. But to know it and then to believe it and act as if it true is each very different and very hard to do.
More importantly, you would think we would all want to let go of the negative effects of painful endings to love. You would think we would all want to just put them out of our minds - leaving space for the next good relationship. But we don’t. Letting go and moving on is like cleaning out the clothes in one’s closet. First, we have to make time to clean out the closet and there are always so many other things we would rather do. Then, we have to figure out what we are going to do with the things we decide to get ride of, which can be a hassle. Now, if we get past this stage and actually start to go through our closet, that is when the hard part begins. We keep things we no longer wear because we hate parting with things we have invested part of our selves in. We tell ourselves that either we are actually going to wear that one day because the style is going to come back or we are going to lose those extra pounds. In reality, it is just easier to keep what we have than deal with throwing things out. We forget getting rid of old means making space for new.
Similarly, we hold on to past relationships. They take up residence in our hearts and minds. Sometimes we believe they will come back. But, more often, we are just scared to venture back out into the world of dating and the possibility of loving again. That fear of falling in love and it failing rears its ugly head and prevents us from experiencing the wonder, beauty and happiness of love. We become cautious in spite of ourselves, because of ourselves.
I know, I know …. tell that to someone who is going through a break-up or a divorce. The pain and devastation left behind is like the work of a wrecking ball - all chaos and confusion and destruction with no hope of recovery. Yet, most of us do, eventually, learn to go on. We do eventually go on again. Granted we take with us the baggage that the ended relationship has left us with, but we move on.
What I want is for us (myself included) is to learn to let go of the baggage. At least some of it. This is one of my favorite things to do to let go and move on. Take some time and think about your relationship. Remember the good memories and take them and place them in your heart album. Then, take all the lessons you have learned and store them away in your brain to be pulled out as needed. Take what is left, grind it into grains of sand and blow it all away. It is not an easy task but with practice, it can work. What it does is allow you to let go of the negatives and keep only the positives.
“I have found the paradox, that if you love until it hurts, there can be no more hurt, only more love.”
Mother Theresa of Calcutta (August 26, 1910 to September 5, 1997
Thursday, November 13, 2008
Live Video From Obama Election Night Rally in Grant Park
By Neonu Jewell
I was there for this momentous night. God blessed us with 70 degree weather (Chicago? November?); the stage was set. You have heard the stories, commentary, and seen footage. Now Click Here for my video experience of the night Illinois Senator Barack Obama became the 44th President (elect) of the United States of America. Sounds good every time, doesn't it?!
I was there for this momentous night. God blessed us with 70 degree weather (Chicago? November?); the stage was set. You have heard the stories, commentary, and seen footage. Now Click Here for my video experience of the night Illinois Senator Barack Obama became the 44th President (elect) of the United States of America. Sounds good every time, doesn't it?!
DW's Loop
“How can you stay in the Loop, if you aren’t in the Loop?” November 14 - 16, 2008
Friday
IMAGE Chicago 3 Year Anniversary Party @ Bon V
1100 W Randolph
Presented by Outfit Events and Vibe Is Right
Hosted Bar from 9pm - 10:30pm
No Cover before 11pm with RSVP
RSVP @ http://app.mobilestorm.com/stun/viewRsvpForm.php?q=Mzk3OA
Saturday
Saturdays @Y Bar with DJ KJ
Y Bar
224 W Ontario10pmn – 3am
Hosted by Tony Macey
Sunday
Poetry Slam at the Green Mill
4802 N. Broadway
Open mic @ 7pm
Performers @ 8pm
Slam competition @ 9pm
www.greenmilljazz.com
Cocktail for the Week – Windy City Breezing
Pour over ice in a Collins glass. Garnish with an orange wedge
Bonus of the Week – Get to Tapping
Chicago Tap Summit
November 14 - 16
South Shore Cultural Center
7059 S South Shore Drive
$10 per performance
$15 history panel and lunch
$30 per class
$300 all-access pass
For more information:
Call 773-604-1899
http://maddrhythms.com/Summit08.html
November Favorite – Hunt Club
Hunt Club
1100 N State
www.huntclubchicago.com
Monday: $4 Effen mixers
Tuesday: 1/2 price bottles of wine
Wednesday: $5 mango martinis
Thursday: $5 'O' Bombs, No cover, DJs from 10pm - 2am
Friday: $5 Kamikaze shots, DJs from 10pm - 2am
Saturday: $5 Skyy Bloody Mary's, DJs from 10pm - 2am
Sunday: $5 Skyy Bloody Mary's, $3 Miller Lite & MGD bottles
Friday
IMAGE Chicago 3 Year Anniversary Party @ Bon V
1100 W Randolph
Presented by Outfit Events and Vibe Is Right
Hosted Bar from 9pm - 10:30pm
No Cover before 11pm with RSVP
RSVP @ http://app.mobilestorm.com/stun/viewRsvpForm.php?q=Mzk3OA
Saturday
Saturdays @Y Bar with DJ KJ
Y Bar
224 W Ontario
10pmn – 3amHosted by Tony Macey
Sunday
Poetry Slam at the Green Mill
4802 N. Broadway
Open mic @ 7pm
Performers @ 8pm
Slam competition @ 9pm
www.greenmilljazz.com
Cocktail for the Week – Windy City Breezing
- 1 part Vodka
- 1 part Cranberry juice
- 2 smart dashes of grapefruit
Pour over ice in a Collins glass. Garnish with an orange wedge
Bonus of the Week – Get to Tapping
Chicago Tap Summit
November 14 - 16
South Shore Cultural Center
7059 S South Shore Drive
$10 per performance
$15 history panel and lunch
$30 per class
$300 all-access pass
For more information:
Call 773-604-1899
http://maddrhythms.com/Summit08.html
November Favorite – Hunt Club
Hunt Club
1100 N State
www.huntclubchicago.com
Monday: $4 Effen mixers
Tuesday: 1/2 price bottles of wine
Wednesday: $5 mango martinis
Thursday: $5 'O' Bombs, No cover, DJs from 10pm - 2am
Friday: $5 Kamikaze shots, DJs from 10pm - 2am
Saturday: $5 Skyy Bloody Mary's, DJs from 10pm - 2am
Sunday: $5 Skyy Bloody Mary's, $3 Miller Lite & MGD bottles
Wednesday, November 12, 2008
5 Guys Moves to Chicago: 5 Stars
By Neonu Jewell
My favorite burger joint in D.C. is now in Chicago. Five Guys Burgers and Fries opened its first Chicagoland restaurant in Oak Park (1115 Lake St.) yesterday. Five Guys started in Arlington Virginia and has spread to over 300 locations in 25 states.
Why do we love Five Guys? It is the taste, quality, options, and price. Meals are approximate $8.
My favorite burger joint in D.C. is now in Chicago. Five Guys Burgers and Fries opened its first Chicagoland restaurant in Oak Park (1115 Lake St.) yesterday. Five Guys started in Arlington Virginia and has spread to over 300 locations in 25 states.
Why do we love Five Guys? It is the taste, quality, options, and price. Meals are approximate $8.
- There are over 250,000 possible ways to order a burger at Five Guys.
- They use only 100% all-American fresh ground beef.
- There are no freezers in Five Guys locations, just coolers. Nothing is ever frozen.
- They use only Peanut oil.
- They use only Idaho potatoes.
- The menu is trans-fat free.
Five Guys has already secured four additional Chicago locations. Next month a Lincoln Park (2140 N. Clybourn) location will open. In early 2009, stores will open in Schaumburg and Orland Park. I am spreading the word about Five Guys for those of you who don't already know, because they do not advertise. They rely on word of mouth. It works. After you eat there, you will tell your friends. See you there!
SPIRITUAL JOURNEY
.21 My November Fourth
by Angela Skeete Davis
I hope all of you have been well. I also hope all of you voted and celebrated the dawn of a new era in politics. It is truly amazing
how far we have come.
My voting day was something to remember. I went to the polls with a very interesting group of voters. Two were naturalized citizens. Although each of them has been in the United States for over twenty years, neither had bothered to register to vote. Both of them felt the act to be totally pointless. However, both of them registered to vote as soon as then Senator Barack Obama became the Democratic candidate...
Both of them were up early to vote on November 4th. But because the polls were so crowded, they went to the polls later in the day with me. I asked them why they had chosen to register this time around and why they were so eager to vote. In summary they both agreed that they were proud that America had finally realized the worth of Black people, that it was an honor to be able to vote for a black person and how important it was to get out, send a message and make a difference. But they also said (the theme I heard the most of that day ) they wanted to be a part of history.
Also in my group were two older women, one was eighty-six and the other was ninety-two. The two of them were so excited to vote. They both continued to express their delight in having lived to witness not just a black man run for president, but to see a black man get the nomination of their party and then actually have a chance to win the election. They could barely contain their joy. When we arrived at the polls, the sight of all the people on line, actually waiting to vote, brought them to tears. They were overwhelmed and their joy filled me with such a sense of pride, I felt my eyes fill as well.
I also went to the polls with a young man who had just turned eighteen. It was his first time voting. He called me first thing in the morning to see if I had already voted. I hadn't. He asked if he could go with me because he had just left the polls and the were packed, but that he was impatient to get back to the polls. He said he was proud to be able to vote, proud to be able to vote for a black man, proud to be a part of history. And after he voted, he was unable to stop smiling. Later that day, when a bunch of us were talking about our voting experience, he turned and said, “It is finally true. Anyone can be anything in this country, even president of the United States. I can be anything I want. If Obama can do it, I can do it.”
I am not a senior citizen. I am not a first time voter. I am not a naturalized citizen. I have always voted and have always taken my daughter and my godson with me to vote. I have always believed my vote mattered. I have always believed black people should vote. I have always believed we can/could/would make a difference with our vote. But voting with this group of people made me proud. I am proud of them for wanting to be a part of history, proud of all the people I saw at the polls waiting to cast their vote, even if it meant hours, proud to be black, proud to be alive to witness history, proud of President Elect Barack Obama for reaching for his dreams, proud of his friends and family for supporting him, and proud of the democratic party for realizing a good man and supporting his dream. I am proud just proud.
As my girlfriend said to me, in her e-mail, the day after the election, "Welcome back America...my America, that is full of promises and hope and is once again a land that we can dream of in her greatness." Now the work really begins...
by Angela Skeete Davis
I hope all of you have been well. I also hope all of you voted and celebrated the dawn of a new era in politics. It is truly amazing
how far we have come.My voting day was something to remember. I went to the polls with a very interesting group of voters. Two were naturalized citizens. Although each of them has been in the United States for over twenty years, neither had bothered to register to vote. Both of them felt the act to be totally pointless. However, both of them registered to vote as soon as then Senator Barack Obama became the Democratic candidate...
Both of them were up early to vote on November 4th. But because the polls were so crowded, they went to the polls later in the day with me. I asked them why they had chosen to register this time around and why they were so eager to vote. In summary they both agreed that they were proud that America had finally realized the worth of Black people, that it was an honor to be able to vote for a black person and how important it was to get out, send a message and make a difference. But they also said (the theme I heard the most of that day ) they wanted to be a part of history.
Also in my group were two older women, one was eighty-six and the other was ninety-two. The two of them were so excited to vote. They both continued to express their delight in having lived to witness not just a black man run for president, but to see a black man get the nomination of their party and then actually have a chance to win the election. They could barely contain their joy. When we arrived at the polls, the sight of all the people on line, actually waiting to vote, brought them to tears. They were overwhelmed and their joy filled me with such a sense of pride, I felt my eyes fill as well.
I also went to the polls with a young man who had just turned eighteen. It was his first time voting. He called me first thing in the morning to see if I had already voted. I hadn't. He asked if he could go with me because he had just left the polls and the were packed, but that he was impatient to get back to the polls. He said he was proud to be able to vote, proud to be able to vote for a black man, proud to be a part of history. And after he voted, he was unable to stop smiling. Later that day, when a bunch of us were talking about our voting experience, he turned and said, “It is finally true. Anyone can be anything in this country, even president of the United States. I can be anything I want. If Obama can do it, I can do it.”
I am not a senior citizen. I am not a first time voter. I am not a naturalized citizen. I have always voted and have always taken my daughter and my godson with me to vote. I have always believed my vote mattered. I have always believed black people should vote. I have always believed we can/could/would make a difference with our vote. But voting with this group of people made me proud. I am proud of them for wanting to be a part of history, proud of all the people I saw at the polls waiting to cast their vote, even if it meant hours, proud to be black, proud to be alive to witness history, proud of President Elect Barack Obama for reaching for his dreams, proud of his friends and family for supporting him, and proud of the democratic party for realizing a good man and supporting his dream. I am proud just proud.
As my girlfriend said to me, in her e-mail, the day after the election, "Welcome back America...my America, that is full of promises and hope and is once again a land that we can dream of in her greatness." Now the work really begins...
Yes We Can!
Barack Obama, President Elect of the United States of America
Barack Obama, President Elect of the United States of America
O's Corner: Apple Cake Recipe
This apple recipe is from a friend in Boston. Years ago I had thanksgiving dinner with her family and her mother served this for dessert. It was truly spectacular. It took me months to convince her to give me the recipe. She only did so when I told her I was leaving Boston to get married. It was her wedding gift to me. I’m thinking of making this one for Thanksgiving.
· 3 cups raw apples, grated or finely chopped
· 2 cups sugar
· ¾ cup vegetable oil
· 2 eggs, well beaten
Mix together and let stand while sifting dry ingredients below (or drop into cake mixer, blender or food processor and mix)...
· 3 cups flour
· ¼ teaspoon nutmeg
· 1 teaspoon each baking powder, cinnamon, soda, salt, vanilla
· ¾ cup nuts, finely chopped
Add to first mixture. Beat thoroughly. Pour into buttered and floured 10 inch tube pan. Bake at 350 degrees for 1 hour and 10 minutes, or until done. Test by inserting a knife. If it comes out dry, cake is ready. Serve plain or spread while hot with broiled topping.
BROILED TOPPING
· 4 tablespoons light cream
· 1 cup coconut
· 2/3 cup light brown sugar
· ½ stick butter or margarine, softened at room temperature
Cream all together in processor or blender and spread over hot cake as it comes from the oven. Return to oven and place under broiler until bubbly and light brown.
Happy Holidays!!! Remember, until next Wednesday, Keep it Simple and Fast
To Do in DC - November
Wednesday, November 11
Lehrman Foundation Impact Award
Where: Steptoe & Johnson LLP, 1330 Connecticut Ave. NW ,Washington , DC
When: Wednesday, November 19, 2008, 6:30pm
How much: No Charge
What to do: RSVP to Noel Tieszen at noel.tieszen@interstages.org
Who: The Interstages Board - Noel Tieszen, Herb Scott, Camelia Mazard, Patrick Linehan, Kamila Thigpen, Eugenie Charles-Lewis
Join the Interstages family for an evening of celebration as we recognize the tremendous impact that Interstages is making in the lives of our girls and the support of everyone who continues to make it possible. I hope you can join the amazing Board and staff of Interstages, the 2008 Lehrman Foundation Impact Award recipient, as they celebrate the tremendous difference they are making in the lives DC middle school girls.
If you are not familiar with Insterstages, this event provides you with a great opportunity to learn more about the amazing work they are doing East of the Anacostia River. Hope to see you on the 19th!
Lehrman Foundation Impact Award
Where: Steptoe & Johnson LLP, 1330 Connecticut Ave. NW ,Washington , DC
When: Wednesday, November 19, 2008, 6:30pm
How much: No Charge
What to do: RSVP to Noel Tieszen at noel.tieszen@interstages.org
Who: The Interstages Board - Noel Tieszen, Herb Scott, Camelia Mazard, Patrick Linehan, Kamila Thigpen, Eugenie Charles-Lewis
Join the Interstages family for an evening of celebration as we recognize the tremendous impact that Interstages is making in the lives of our girls and the support of everyone who continues to make it possible. I hope you can join the amazing Board and staff of Interstages, the 2008 Lehrman Foundation Impact Award recipient, as they celebrate the tremendous difference they are making in the lives DC middle school girls.
If you are not familiar with Insterstages, this event provides you with a great opportunity to learn more about the amazing work they are doing East of the Anacostia River. Hope to see you on the 19th!
Saturday, November 8, 2008
Live Video Interviews From the 2008 Hoodie Awards Red (Blue) Carpet
Interviews by Neonu Jewell
Video by Treva Saunders
Video by Treva Saunders
Neonu's InSite was live in Las Vegas, Nevada at the Orleans Arena on the Ford Blue Carpet at the 2008 6th Annual Hoodie Awards hosted by Steve Harvey. Check out my interviews and coverage of Shirley Strawberry, Nephew Tommy, Kirk & Tammy Franklin, Noel Gourdin, Dwele, Cupid, comedian Bruce Bruce, "Showroom Shine" the Hoodie Award Winners for Best Detail Shop (St. Louis), Terrence J & Rocsi with Hoodie Award Winner "Fade Shop", Best Barber Shop, Stephen A. Smith, Steve & Marjorie Harvey with Patti LaBelle, Regina King, and Dr. Ian Smith (5o Million LB Challenge) & Sommore.
Friday, November 7, 2008
DW's Loop
“How can you stay in the Loop, if you aren’t in the Loop?”November 7 - 9, 2008
Friday
Tryst presents Friday Night Fever (Three spots in one night)
Part I
City Pool Hall
640 W Hubbard
7pm - 11pm
Get a free pass to the Joynt
Part II
The Joynt
650 N Dearborn
9pm – 2am
$200 bottles through Tryst
RSVP @ www.trystnightlife.com/event/rsvp/142
Part III
Ontourage
157 W Ontario
1am – 4am
Say Tryst for no cover
Saturday
Chicago Urban League presents nextTV Launch Party
Hilton Chicago Continental Ballroom
720 S Michigan
10pm – 2am
$50 (Scholarship fundraiser)
Performance by Noel Gourdin
Music by DJ Vince Adams
Sunday
Chris Green Quartet @ Philander's 1110 Pleasant St, Oak Park, IL 7:45pm
No coverhttp://www.chrisgreenejazz.com/
Cocktail for the Week – Frozen Mango Cocktail
Ingredients:
- 1 cup vodka
- 1/2 cup lemon juice
- 2 cups pineapple juice
- 2 mangos
- 1 tbsp superfine sugar
Combine ingredients into a blender and blend until smooth. Pour into a cocktail glass, add ice and garnish with a lemon wedge.
Bonus of the Week – Miller Genuine Draft: Genuine Flow
Thursday, November 13
MGD: Genuine Flow featuring performances by Cee-LO and the Roots
Vic Theatre
3145 N Sheffield Ave
http://rsvp.chicago.mgd.com/av.do#
November Favorite – Hunt Club
Hunt Club
1100 N State
http://www.huntclubchicago.com/
Monday: $4 Effen mixers
Tuesday: 1/2 price bottles of wine
Wednesday: $5 mango martinis
Thursday: $5 'O' Bombs, No cover, DJs from 10pm - 2am
Friday: $5 Kamikaze shots, DJs from 10pm - 2am
Saturday: $5 Skyy Bloody Mary's, DJs from 10pm - 2am
Sunday: $5 Skyy Bloody Mary's, $3 Miller Lite & MGD bottles
Wednesday, November 5, 2008
The Day After Obama's Victory: One Man's Thoughts
By Tajiri Smith 
I hope everyone wakes up to this knowing that this has been the best 24hrs. of my life. This historic moment has made me believe that anything is possible if you put your mind and your heart to it! Regardless of who you voted for I hope that each and every one of us will sit back and understand that this is history. We can sit back and tell our kids and grand kids of this election. I hope that regardless of your prior beliefs that we will open our hearts and our minds to those of all races, religious beliefs, and sexual preferences and realize that we are still all one people living in a country of great opportunity. What we all witnessed tonight was an amazing feat, and I hope that we all can take great satisfaction in knowing that we live in a country that allows that opportunity to all! Enjoy your day knowing that "Change is Here!"
Monday, November 3, 2008
Nov. 4 Election Night Events (Chicago)
Presidential Candidate Barack Obama will be spending election night in Grant Park in Chicago. But for those of us who don't have tickets, here are some other venues where we can watch the results of our votes:
Rock the Vote
Entity Entertainment and PLS Magazine Presents Party of Choice
Crimson Lounge
333 N. Dearborn (inside of Hotel Sax.)
10pm-Until
Complimentary Cocktails provided by 10 Cane, Belvedere and Hennessy
RSVP @: Helen@plsmag.com
Election Results Watch Party
Hard Rock Café
63 W Ontario
7pm – 2am
Hosted by Common, Talib Kweli and Rahsaan Gordon
DJs: Vince Adams, Mark Fullaflava and Sean Mac
RSVP @ changeevent@attorneygordon.com
CS Magazine and Landmark Grill + Lounge: Campaign Headquarters
Landmark Grill + Lounge
1633 N Halsted Street
6pm - 9pm
Cocktails, Complimentary Hors D'oeuvres
$8 Specialty Blue & Red Champagne Cocktails
RSVP @ RSVPCHICAGO@Modernluxury.Com
Afrodisiak Clothing @ Steele Life Gallery
4655 S King Dr
5pm to 5am
DJs: Sean Alvarez, DJ Limelight, DJ Phokiss, DJ Chill Will nka Joe Kollege.
Al Jeezera news will be broadcasting from the gallery
RSVP @ rsvp.steelelife@gmail.com
Red, White and Whiskey Blue Election Party
Whiskey Blue
172 W Adams
6 pm - 12 am
No cover
$4 themed cocktails such as Obamagranate Martinis and Maverick Manhattans
AND MORE...
Election viewing Party at Room 43
1043 E 43rd Street
5pm – until
No Cover
Hosted by Rhonda Flowers and KoKo
Live entertainment by Maggie Brown
DJs: Andre Hatchett, KoKo, Brain Sayles, David Sabat and more
Lip Service Productions and Chrome Entertainment present the Election Night Soiree
Rio’s
2010 West Armitage (just west of Damen)
6pm-2am
Complimentary Wine from 7:30-8:30pm
Salsa Dancing After 10:30pm
$12 Sangria Pitchers All Night
Serving Dinner until 11pm
RSVP for the VIP Guest List @ DowntownMissyB@Yahoo.com
Election Night at the Fifty/50
2047 W Division St.
Begins at 4 pm
No cover
Bring voting receipt for a complimentary beer.
Election Night special at C-View
166 E Superior St.
4 pm - 10pm
No cover
One complimentary appetizer with the purchase of two drinks.
TVONE & ESSENCE.com presents Results Watch Party Election ‘08Hilton & Towers - International Ballroom
720 South Michigan Features DJ BIZ MARKIE
RSVP @ http://www.jessejacksonjr2008.com/ print out your confirmation for entry.
Call 312-431-8801 for info on reserving a table
N Da House Promotions Election Day Celebration
The New Reynolds
938 E. 75th St (3 blocks east of Cottage)
6pm -2am
Free food and drink specials all night
DJs Mike Dunn, Nick Non-Stop and Byron Burke of Ten City.
Party at the Polls Event
Community Family Life Center
119 E Garfield Blvd
8am – 3pm
Hosted by Rock the Vote, I-GO Car Sharing & K.L.E.O. Community Center
Live radio broadcast by KISS-FM 103.5’s Nina Chantele
Performances by Robert Jones; The Youth for Christ; Jessie White Tumblers and more
For more info contact Lincoln Stephens @ lincoln.stephens@gmail.com
Election '08 Viewing Party
Exposure Restaurant & Lounge
1315 S Wabash
RSVP @ RSVPMe@ChicagoBlackProfessionalNetwork.com
Lumpen & the Silver Room present Election Night Fight
Sonotheque
1444 W. Chicago
All specialty cocktails only $5!
No Cover
Election Viewing Party at Powerhouse Restaurant and Bar
11:30am - 1am
215 N Clinton St
$2 appetizers
Drink specials: McCain Mango Mojito and Obama's Chi-Town Cocktails. Wabash
No Cover
Rockit the Vote
Rockit Bar and Grill
22 W Hubbard
Lounge Open at 4pm
Live Election Coverage All Night Long
M Lounge
1520 S Wabash
Doors open at 5pmComplimentary appetizers. Julia Huff playing jazz in the background 7pm – 10pm. 10pm turn up the TVs.
Crimson Lounge
333 N. Dearborn (inside of Hotel Sax.)
10pm-Until
Complimentary Cocktails provided by 10 Cane, Belvedere and Hennessy
RSVP @: Helen@plsmag.com
Election Results Watch Party
Hard Rock Café
63 W Ontario
7pm – 2am
Hosted by Common, Talib Kweli and Rahsaan Gordon
DJs: Vince Adams, Mark Fullaflava and Sean Mac
RSVP @ changeevent@attorneygordon.com
CS Magazine and Landmark Grill + Lounge: Campaign Headquarters
Landmark Grill + Lounge
1633 N Halsted Street
6pm - 9pm
Cocktails, Complimentary Hors D'oeuvres
$8 Specialty Blue & Red Champagne Cocktails
RSVP @ RSVPCHICAGO@Modernluxury.Com
Afrodisiak Clothing @ Steele Life Gallery
4655 S King Dr
5pm to 5am
DJs: Sean Alvarez, DJ Limelight, DJ Phokiss, DJ Chill Will nka Joe Kollege.
Al Jeezera news will be broadcasting from the gallery
RSVP @ rsvp.steelelife@gmail.com
Red, White and Whiskey Blue Election Party
Whiskey Blue
172 W Adams
6 pm - 12 am
No cover
$4 themed cocktails such as Obamagranate Martinis and Maverick Manhattans
AND MORE...
Election viewing Party at Room 43
1043 E 43rd Street
5pm – until
No Cover
Hosted by Rhonda Flowers and KoKo
Live entertainment by Maggie Brown
DJs: Andre Hatchett, KoKo, Brain Sayles, David Sabat and more
Lip Service Productions and Chrome Entertainment present the Election Night Soiree
Rio’s
2010 West Armitage (just west of Damen)
6pm-2am
Complimentary Wine from 7:30-8:30pm
Salsa Dancing After 10:30pm
$12 Sangria Pitchers All Night
Serving Dinner until 11pm
RSVP for the VIP Guest List @ DowntownMissyB@Yahoo.com
Election Night at the Fifty/50
2047 W Division St.
Begins at 4 pm
No cover
Bring voting receipt for a complimentary beer.
Election Night special at C-View
166 E Superior St.
4 pm - 10pm
No cover
One complimentary appetizer with the purchase of two drinks.
TVONE & ESSENCE.com presents Results Watch Party Election ‘08Hilton & Towers - International Ballroom
720 South Michigan Features DJ BIZ MARKIE
RSVP @ http://www.jessejacksonjr2008.com/ print out your confirmation for entry.
Call 312-431-8801 for info on reserving a table
N Da House Promotions Election Day Celebration
The New Reynolds
938 E. 75th St (3 blocks east of Cottage)
6pm -2am
Free food and drink specials all night
DJs Mike Dunn, Nick Non-Stop and Byron Burke of Ten City.
Party at the Polls Event
Community Family Life Center
119 E Garfield Blvd
8am – 3pm
Hosted by Rock the Vote, I-GO Car Sharing & K.L.E.O. Community Center
Live radio broadcast by KISS-FM 103.5’s Nina Chantele
Performances by Robert Jones; The Youth for Christ; Jessie White Tumblers and more
For more info contact Lincoln Stephens @ lincoln.stephens@gmail.com
Election '08 Viewing Party
Exposure Restaurant & Lounge
1315 S Wabash
RSVP @ RSVPMe@ChicagoBlackProfessionalNetwork.com
Lumpen & the Silver Room present Election Night Fight
Sonotheque
1444 W. Chicago
All specialty cocktails only $5!
No Cover
Election Viewing Party at Powerhouse Restaurant and Bar
11:30am - 1am
215 N Clinton St
$2 appetizers
Drink specials: McCain Mango Mojito and Obama's Chi-Town Cocktails. Wabash
No Cover
Rockit the Vote
Rockit Bar and Grill
22 W Hubbard
Lounge Open at 4pm
Live Election Coverage All Night Long
M Lounge
1520 S Wabash
Doors open at 5pmComplimentary appetizers. Julia Huff playing jazz in the background 7pm – 10pm. 10pm turn up the TVs.
Friday, October 31, 2008
G Cue Billiards & Restaurant: 3 Stars
157 N. Morgan St.
Chicago, IL 60607
(312) 850-3170
Prices: $
By Neonu Jewell
Chicago, IL 60607
(312) 850-3170
Prices: $
By Neonu Jewell
If you are looking for a nice place to play pool, then G Cue in the West Loop is your spot. G Cue is a pool bar/lounge with 15 plasma televisions, 24 regulation pool tables, and 2 official billiards tables. The food is basic bar food and the chicken fajita salad is pretty tasty. They promote the availability of over 30 specialty martinis and 40 premium beers. I suggest sticking to basic cocktails and beer. Through the digital jukebox, you can enjoy the music of your choice on a great sound system while you play or watch the game. G Cue is also a great casual date spot.
The Prime Rib: 3 Stars
Price: $$$$
By Neonu Jewell
On a recent business trip to D.C. I dined at The Prime Rib, an elegant steakhouse designed to model a 1940's Manhattan Supper Club. The tuxedoed waiters and strict dress code (jacket and tie required for dinner) attracts the Washington elite looking for a traditional steakhouse experience. The experience, however, was inconsistent.
At first glance the decor is impressive, but as you pay attention to the detail it is clear that it is time for a few updates. The curtains are thin and a little creepy, the linoleum paneled ceiling looks cheap, and the carpet should be replaced.
My group
agreed that our waiter was as stiff as his tuxedo and the temperature in the restaurant was uncomfortably chilly. The best we could get for a recommendation from our server was that the prime rib was the signature dish. Well it says that on the menu, so that comment was not very helpful. But, I will admit he was right. I had the prime rib steak and two of my colleagues had the roast prime rib. It was excellent. One in our group had the crab cakes. While she said they were delicious, the portion seemed child size next to our chops. For dessert I recommend the the hot fudge sundae.
I would return to The Prime Rib for, you guessed it, the prime rib. But, I will have moderate expectations for service, which is incongruous given that this is upscale dining at upscale dining prices.
At first glance the decor is impressive, but as you pay attention to the detail it is clear that it is time for a few updates. The curtains are thin and a little creepy, the linoleum paneled ceiling looks cheap, and the carpet should be replaced.
My group
agreed that our waiter was as stiff as his tuxedo and the temperature in the restaurant was uncomfortably chilly. The best we could get for a recommendation from our server was that the prime rib was the signature dish. Well it says that on the menu, so that comment was not very helpful. But, I will admit he was right. I had the prime rib steak and two of my colleagues had the roast prime rib. It was excellent. One in our group had the crab cakes. While she said they were delicious, the portion seemed child size next to our chops. For dessert I recommend the the hot fudge sundae.I would return to The Prime Rib for, you guessed it, the prime rib. But, I will have moderate expectations for service, which is incongruous given that this is upscale dining at upscale dining prices.
DW's Loop - Halloween in Chicago
“How can you stay in the Loop, if you aren’t in the Loop?”
October 31 – November 2, 2008
Friday - Happy Halloween
Yelloween @ Cuatro
2030 S. Wabash
5:30pm - 2am (Music starts at 8pm)
$10 cover
Surreal and Global Adrenaline Halloween Night Events
Three parties at three unique venues over 9 1/2 hours time
Haunted Hotel @ W Chicago 9pm - 2am - City Center 2am - 4am After Party
Deadman's Ball @ Crobar 4am – 7am
Black Pearl After Hours Cruise @ Anita Dee II - Navy Pier
http://www.surrealchicago.com/
http://www.globaladrenaline.net/
Bon V Fridays - Versailles Insane Asylum
1100 W Randolph
Hosted by Outfit Events & VibeisRight
http://www.outfitevents.com/
Debonair Monster's Ball 2008 @ Crimson Lounge
333 N. Dearborn
9pm – 2am
Features DJ Homicide and Tomeo
Guest list: jim@debonairentertainment.com
www.myspace.com/debonairchicago
http://www.crimsonchicago.com/
The Lincoln Park Young Professionals: Ghost Bash at Ghost Bar!
440 W Randolph
Costume Contest and Raffles
$25.00 in advance and $40.00 at door.
http://www.lp-yp.com/
Devil's Masquerade @ Y Bar
224 W Ontario
Monsters Ball 2008! A Costume & Masquerade Affair at OHM Nightclub
1958 W North Ave
No Cover with password: "ONEWORLD" for ladies all night, guys til 12am
$150 bottles of Effen
Absolute $35 Party Packages available (includes bar reception from 10pm-12:30am)
Call Manny @ 312.371.8755 or email party@oneworldchicago.com
'Naked' Halloween @ Soundbar
226 W Ontario
$5 patron shots
$125 bottles of Effen
$5,000 in cash and prizes for costumes
RSVP for no cover @ www.exactevents.com/event.php?event_id=8054
A Vampire Halloween Bash @ Transit Night Club
1431 West Lake St Three rooms of music
RSVP @ www.Baila.Com/V5group-Chicago
4th Annual HOUSE OF HORROR @ Enclave
222 W Chicago Ave
Features an 8,000 Square foot Haunted House
http://enclave.cachefly.net/halloween_mini_08/start_halloween.html
8th Annual Black i Ball @ Cat’s Meow
2700 W. Chicago
5 pm - 2 am
Hosted by Music 101, Three Olives Vodka, and Cat's Meow
$500 Grand Prize Costume Contest, iPod for the second place , and gift card for the third place
$5 Three Olives Cocktails
$3 domestic bottles Late night menu
Mannequin presents: Witches & Bitches
306 N Halsted
Hosted Cocktail Reception 10pm-11pm (Level Vodka, Malibu & Absolut)
Costume contest with $5000 in cash & prizes.
$150 Level Bottle SpecialsNo cover until 11pm when you RSVP @ www.mannequinchicago.com/rsvp/php
Boutique's Halloween Haunted House
809 W Evergreen
10pm – 4am. No Cover before 11:30pm
Celebrity Costume Ball.
$500 & a bottle of Champagne for Best Overall costume, $300 & a bottle of Champagne for Sexiest Costume
DJs: TimBuck2 & Jay Illa http://www.theboutiquelifestyle.com/
Victor Hotel
311 N Sangamon
$1000 Cash Prize for best costume
Bottle Specials & Drink Specials all night
Table reservations: 312.733.6900
Tryst 3rd Annual Halloween Party @ The Joynt
650 N Dearborn
Ladies no cover all night with RSVP
Fellas no cover til 12am and $10 after with RSVP
$200 bottles specials
RSVP @ www.trystnightlife.com/event/rsvp/140
Heroes & Villains @ Climax
324 W Chicago
RSVP with Full Names to: tommyz@tommyzproductions.com
Sinner's Party @ NV Penthouse
116 W. Hubbard
Cover $25; No cover before 11pm with RSVP
RSVP @ http://www.nvpenthouselounge.com/
The Costume Bash @ Martini Park
151 W. Erie
http://www.martinipark.com/
Friday Fright @ Stone Lotus Lounge
873 N. Orleans
$30 Advance / $40 Door
10pm -1am private cocktail reception with ticket purchase
Purchase tickets online @ http://www.wanttickets.com/
http://www.stonelotuslounge.com/
Annual Halloween Masquerade Bowl @ 10pin Bowling Lounge
330 N. State Street
9pm -1am
$45 Tickets include bowling, shoe rental, call drinks, and buffet
Get tickets @ www.signmeup.com/62043
Saints and Sinners @ Religion Nightclub
720 N. Wells
Contest for sexiest angel and devil for $1000 in cash and prizes
Zentra's Jack Fridays Halloween House of Horrors
923 W. Weed
Resident DJ Lego, a live performance by Jose "Papo" Santiago
9pm - 4am
RSVP at http://www.zentranightclub.com/
Saturday
X-ecutioner's Ball VII @ Excalibur
632 N Dearborn
7pm - 5am
Cover $10-$15
Co-hosted by Vision Nightclub
$10,000 in cash and prizes.
http://www.excaliburchicago.com/
http://www.visionnightclub.com/
Sunday
Sunday of Soul @ Room 43
1041 E. 43rd St @ Berkley Ave
4pm – 8pm
$10 Donation
This event benefits The Dream Scholarship Fund
Live music performances by Fusion Jazz Trumpeter Kafele
Complimentary Food by Chef Hames
Silent auction and audience giveaways
RSVP: dreamfund@soundchickmedia.com
Tickets available @ http://www.sundayofsoul.eventbrite.com/
http://www.thedreamscholarship.org/
Cocktail for the Week – Cherry Red
Ingredients
October 31 – November 2, 2008
Friday - Happy Halloween
Yelloween @ Cuatro
2030 S. Wabash
5:30pm - 2am (Music starts at 8pm)
$10 cover
Surreal and Global Adrenaline Halloween Night Events
Three parties at three unique venues over 9 1/2 hours time
Haunted Hotel @ W Chicago 9pm - 2am - City Center 2am - 4am After Party
Deadman's Ball @ Crobar 4am – 7am
Black Pearl After Hours Cruise @ Anita Dee II - Navy Pier
http://www.surrealchicago.com/
http://www.globaladrenaline.net/
Bon V Fridays - Versailles Insane Asylum
1100 W Randolph
Hosted by Outfit Events & VibeisRight
http://www.outfitevents.com/
Debonair Monster's Ball 2008 @ Crimson Lounge
333 N. Dearborn
9pm – 2am
Features DJ Homicide and Tomeo
Guest list: jim@debonairentertainment.com
www.myspace.com/debonairchicago
http://www.crimsonchicago.com/
The Lincoln Park Young Professionals: Ghost Bash at Ghost Bar!
440 W Randolph
Costume Contest and Raffles
$25.00 in advance and $40.00 at door.
http://www.lp-yp.com/
Devil's Masquerade @ Y Bar
224 W Ontario
Monsters Ball 2008! A Costume & Masquerade Affair at OHM Nightclub
1958 W North Ave
No Cover with password: "ONEWORLD" for ladies all night, guys til 12am
$150 bottles of Effen
Absolute $35 Party Packages available (includes bar reception from 10pm-12:30am)
Call Manny @ 312.371.8755 or email party@oneworldchicago.com
'Naked' Halloween @ Soundbar
226 W Ontario
$5 patron shots
$125 bottles of Effen
$5,000 in cash and prizes for costumes
RSVP for no cover @ www.exactevents.com/event.php?event_id=8054
A Vampire Halloween Bash @ Transit Night Club
1431 West Lake St Three rooms of music
RSVP @ www.Baila.Com/V5group-Chicago
4th Annual HOUSE OF HORROR @ Enclave
222 W Chicago Ave
Features an 8,000 Square foot Haunted House
http://enclave.cachefly.net/halloween_mini_08/start_halloween.html
8th Annual Black i Ball @ Cat’s Meow
2700 W. Chicago
5 pm - 2 am
Hosted by Music 101, Three Olives Vodka, and Cat's Meow
$500 Grand Prize Costume Contest, iPod for the second place , and gift card for the third place
$5 Three Olives Cocktails
$3 domestic bottles Late night menu
Mannequin presents: Witches & Bitches
306 N Halsted
Hosted Cocktail Reception 10pm-11pm (Level Vodka, Malibu & Absolut)
Costume contest with $5000 in cash & prizes.
$150 Level Bottle SpecialsNo cover until 11pm when you RSVP @ www.mannequinchicago.com/rsvp/php
Boutique's Halloween Haunted House
809 W Evergreen
10pm – 4am. No Cover before 11:30pm
Celebrity Costume Ball.
$500 & a bottle of Champagne for Best Overall costume, $300 & a bottle of Champagne for Sexiest Costume
DJs: TimBuck2 & Jay Illa http://www.theboutiquelifestyle.com/
Victor Hotel
311 N Sangamon
$1000 Cash Prize for best costume
Bottle Specials & Drink Specials all night
Table reservations: 312.733.6900
Tryst 3rd Annual Halloween Party @ The Joynt
650 N Dearborn
Ladies no cover all night with RSVP
Fellas no cover til 12am and $10 after with RSVP
$200 bottles specials
RSVP @ www.trystnightlife.com/event/rsvp/140
Heroes & Villains @ Climax
324 W Chicago
RSVP with Full Names to: tommyz@tommyzproductions.com
Sinner's Party @ NV Penthouse
116 W. Hubbard
Cover $25; No cover before 11pm with RSVP
RSVP @ http://www.nvpenthouselounge.com/
The Costume Bash @ Martini Park
151 W. Erie
http://www.martinipark.com/
Friday Fright @ Stone Lotus Lounge
873 N. Orleans
$30 Advance / $40 Door
10pm -1am private cocktail reception with ticket purchase
Purchase tickets online @ http://www.wanttickets.com/
http://www.stonelotuslounge.com/
Annual Halloween Masquerade Bowl @ 10pin Bowling Lounge
330 N. State Street
9pm -1am
$45 Tickets include bowling, shoe rental, call drinks, and buffet
Get tickets @ www.signmeup.com/62043
Saints and Sinners @ Religion Nightclub
720 N. Wells
Contest for sexiest angel and devil for $1000 in cash and prizes
Zentra's Jack Fridays Halloween House of Horrors
923 W. Weed
Resident DJ Lego, a live performance by Jose "Papo" Santiago
9pm - 4am
RSVP at http://www.zentranightclub.com/
Saturday
X-ecutioner's Ball VII @ Excalibur
632 N Dearborn
7pm - 5am
Cover $10-$15
Co-hosted by Vision Nightclub
$10,000 in cash and prizes.
http://www.excaliburchicago.com/
http://www.visionnightclub.com/
Sunday
Sunday of Soul @ Room 43
1041 E. 43rd St @ Berkley Ave
4pm – 8pm
$10 Donation
This event benefits The Dream Scholarship Fund
Live music performances by Fusion Jazz Trumpeter Kafele
Complimentary Food by Chef Hames
Silent auction and audience giveaways
RSVP: dreamfund@soundchickmedia.com
Tickets available @ http://www.sundayofsoul.eventbrite.com/
http://www.thedreamscholarship.org/
Cocktail for the Week – Cherry Red
Ingredients
- 2 oz SKYY Infusions Cherry Vodka
- 2 oz Cranberry juiceSplash of Soda
- Directions: Mix SKYY Infusions Cherry with cranberry juice in a tall glass. Shake vigorously and strain over fresh ice into a highball glass. Top with a splash of Soda
Bonus of the Week – The Experience with Wayne Brady
Tuesday, November 18, 2008
The DuSable Museum, 740 East 56th Place
7pm - 9:30pm
Tickets: $20
An Interview. A Mini-Performance. A CD Signing with Wayne Brady.All paid guests will receive the new CD as a gift when they hand in their ticket at the door.
Purchase tickets at The Music Experience, 1959 1/2 East 73rd St
Tickets also available at http://www.amusicexperience.com/
All tickets purchased online will be held at the door.
October Favorite:
Salud Tequila Lounge
1471 N Milwaukee
312-235-5577
http://www.saludlounge.com/
DJs spin soul, house, and hip-hop from Tuesday through Saturday
Specials:
Sundays - $10 Margarita Pitchers
Mondays - $5 Caipirinhas
Tuesdays - $5 Sangria Pitchers
Wednesdays - 1/2 price appetizers
Thursdays - $3 Corona and Corona Light
Fridays – $4 Frozen Margaritas
Thursday, October 30, 2008
To Do This Week in South Florida
Fridays in Miami
REGGAE @ BELLA ROSE ON SOUTH BEACH EVERY FRIDAY
Time: 11pm - 4am, No Cover
Special invited guests every week include: SIZZLA KALONJI, CAPELTON, JAH CURE, RED RAT, MAVADO, DAMIAN "JR. GONG" MARLEY, COLLIE BUDDZ, MIDNITE, MORGAN HERITAGE, BARINGTON LEVY, FREDDIE MCGREGOR AND MANY MORE OF YOUR FAVORITE REGGAE ARTISTS.
Click here for more social events and Halloween events for a cause in South Florida (Miami, Ft. Lauderdal, etc).
REGGAE @ BELLA ROSE ON SOUTH BEACH EVERY FRIDAY
Location: Bella Rose Lounge, 423 16TH Street, Miami Beach (between Washington & Drexel)
Time: 11pm - 4am, No Cover
Starring one of the most thorough reggae DJs on South Beach: DJ DHARMA "THE NIGHT NURSE",Featuring the most magnificent and the most humble DJ on the planet: DJ SELF BORN, rockin everything else you love but don't usually get to hear.
Special invited guests every week include: SIZZLA KALONJI, CAPELTON, JAH CURE, RED RAT, MAVADO, DAMIAN "JR. GONG" MARLEY, COLLIE BUDDZ, MIDNITE, MORGAN HERITAGE, BARINGTON LEVY, FREDDIE MCGREGOR AND MANY MORE OF YOUR FAVORITE REGGAE ARTISTS.
Click here for more social events and Halloween events for a cause in South Florida (Miami, Ft. Lauderdal, etc).
Things to Do in Charlotte
November 4
The Best Damn Election Party
Location: ALIVE in NoDa, 2909 North Davidson St, Charlotte
Time: 6pm
Brought to you by The Sol Kitchen, Generation Engage & Friends Who Want A Better America. Free Food (while it lasts), Drink Specials, 21 and over and plenty of tv's.Come check out the new venue with non-partisan groups as we see countdown to see who will be out next PRESIDENT.
November 23
Playin It Cool Tour with Anthony Hamilton
Time: 7:30
Location: Amos Southend, 1423 S. Tryon, Charlotte NC
November 29
Q-Tip in the QC
Time: 8pm
Location: Amos Southend
The Best Damn Election PartyLocation: ALIVE in NoDa, 2909 North Davidson St, Charlotte
Time: 6pm
Brought to you by The Sol Kitchen, Generation Engage & Friends Who Want A Better America. Free Food (while it lasts), Drink Specials, 21 and over and plenty of tv's.Come check out the new venue with non-partisan groups as we see countdown to see who will be out next PRESIDENT.
November 23
Playin It Cool Tour with Anthony Hamilton
Time: 7:30
Location: Amos Southend, 1423 S. Tryon, Charlotte NC
Playin' It Cool Tour with Anthony Hamilton is coming to Charlotte on Sunday, Nov. 23. See one of today's best singers perform selections from his new album as well as his classics. For tickets and info, Kelly: 704.287.7653, Amos: 704.377.6874, http://www.thesolkitchen.com/ and http://www.amossouthend.com/.
November 29
Q-Tip in the QC
Time: 8pm
Location: Amos Southend
Come hear Q-Tip's new music (new album - 11/4) & classics (tribe's and solo). For tickets: http://www.thesolkitchen.com/, http://www.amossouthend.com/, or call Amos - 704.377.6874 or Kelley - 704.287.7653.
Tuesday, October 28, 2008
To Do in DC
Friday, October 31
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Tuesday, October 28
High Heel Race
Location: 17th Street NW between Church and R streets
Time: 9pm
The streets and bars will fill very early. But this event, held annually the Tuesday before Halloween, is worth it! Don't miss the opportunity to attend this annual neighborhood where drag queens in over-the top costumes race down 17th Street. The parade of costumes will start before the race.
Thursday, October 30
The Art of Fashion previewing the season's hottest trends.
Time: 6:30 - 8:30pm
Location: 5255 Western Ave. NW, DC
RSVP by October 24 by calling 202.362.9600 dial 1, then x220 or email april.riccio@lordandtaylor.com
Enjoy an evening with your favorite D.C. United players, celebrate the team's accomplishments on and off the field, and indulge in decadent desserts at this year's Awards Reception. Awards presentation will include the 2008 team awards (such as Coaches' Award, Defender of the Year and Most Valuable Player) as well as recognize United for D.C.'s activities throughout Washington, D.C.
Looking for Halloween festivities tonight, Click here.
Tuesday, October 28
High Heel Race
Location: 17th Street NW between Church and R streets
Time: 9pm
The streets and bars will fill very early. But this event, held annually the Tuesday before Halloween, is worth it! Don't miss the opportunity to attend this annual neighborhood where drag queens in over-the top costumes race down 17th Street. The parade of costumes will start before the race.
Thursday, October 30
The Art of Fashion previewing the season's hottest trends.
Time: 6:30 - 8:30pm
Location: 5255 Western Ave. NW, DC
RSVP by October 24 by calling 202.362.9600 dial 1, then x220 or email april.riccio@lordandtaylor.com
United Bank presents theUnited Awards Receptionto benefit United for D.C.
Enjoy an evening with your favorite D.C. United players, celebrate the team's accomplishments on and off the field, and indulge in decadent desserts at this year's Awards Reception. Awards presentation will include the 2008 team awards (such as Coaches' Award, Defender of the Year and Most Valuable Player) as well as recognize United for D.C.'s activities throughout Washington, D.C. The United Awards Reception is open to the public, with tickets available for $100. Tickets are available at http://emailer.modernluxury.com/go2.shtml?Wcg2sBXW5pNpcJfJ/59e7d46a390c9a54/94cc6bf5be0bce13/cmazard@dbmlawgroup.com and by calling D.C. United at 202.587.5000.
Time: 7:00 - 10:00 PM
Location: Atlas Performing Arts Center, 1333 H Street, NE, Washington, DC
Location: Atlas Performing Arts Center, 1333 H Street, NE, Washington, DC
All proceeds from the event benefit United for D.C. and help carry out its mission to create and support programs to advance the opportunities of the economically, physically and mentally disadvantaged youth of the Greater Washington, DC area.
Check out The Washingtonian's list of best wine bars.
Juste Lounge
4867 Cordell Ave., Bethesda, MD 20814
Events Wednesday - Saturday see: http://www.justelounge.com/
Check out The Washingtonian's list of best wine bars.
Juste Lounge
4867 Cordell Ave., Bethesda, MD 20814
Events Wednesday - Saturday see: http://www.justelounge.com/
Sunday, October 26, 2008
SPIRITUAL JOURNEY - Finishing up The Invitation
.21 Finishing The Invitation
By Angela Skeete Davis
By Angela Skeete Davis
It doesn’t interest me if the story you are telling me is true. I want to know if you can disappoint another to be true to yourself; if you can bear the accusation of betrayal and not betray your own soul; if you can be faithless and therefore trustworthy.
I have disappointed another so I can be true to myself and I have borne the accusation of betrayal so as not to betray my own soul. I have borne it through pain and sadness and love. It is a hard lesson to learn to be true to one’s self. But, if we are not true to our selves, how can we be true in other aspects of our life or to anyone else.
I want to know if you can see beauty, even when it’s not pretty, every day, and if you can source your own life from its presence. I want to know if you can live with failure, yours and mine, and still stand on the edge of the lake and shout to the silver of the moon, “Yes!”
Can I see beauty, even when it’s not pretty, every day, and can I source my own life from its presence? And, can I live with failure and still stand on the edge of the lake and shout to the silver of the moon, “Yes!” Yes! I see beauty everywhere. I see beauty in all things. Or at least I try. I believe in the beauty of creation and the beauty of life, its good and its bad. People tease me because I tend to see the good in everyone, or at least try to. I often remember taking a little girl to the bathroom. When it was time to wash her hands I was upset because the bar of soap was dirty. She, however, looked at the soap and began to smile. When I asked her what made her so happy she told me the bar of soap looked like a flower. I had to work hard to look past the dirt but, eventually I was able to see what she saw. I have never forgotten that. There is beauty in everything, you just have to be willing and open to it.
And, who has not lived with failure of some kind. I have experienced failure and then bounced back from it. I have shaken my head at the unfairness of life and said “Yes, I can go on and will.” I have seen the bottom of the barrel and pulled myself out of it to go on. I have done it in the past with the deaths of my husband (a police officer shot to death), my uncle (a Veterans Administration police officer also shot to death), my father (from cancer) and my sister-in-law (from lupus) and with other things that I have experienced. I am sure I will in the future. It is part of life and I accept that. I just know I will not let life beat me down; instead, I try to remember just how good life can be. This and hope always help me to go on.
It doesn’t interest me to know where you live or how much money you have. I want to know if you can get up, after the night of grief and despair, weary and bruised to the bone, and do what needs to be done to feed the children. It doesn’t interest me who you know or how you came to be here. I want to know if you will stand in the center of the fire with me and not shrink back.
Can I get up, after a night of grief and despair, weary and bruised to the bone, and do what needs to be done to feed the children? I can and I have many, many, many times. When my husband was killed, the nights were hard to get through. But no matter how hard, I had a six year old to think of and I had to keep her life as normal as possible. No matter what I went through at night, in the morning I got up, got her cleaned, dressed, fed and off to school with a smile, a hug and an "I love you." I believe it was my child and the semblance of normalcy that helped me to get out of bed and go on, even when I didn’t want to. Thankfully, I am not there any more. Thankfully time and I have moved on.
I have had someone very dear to me live with and die of cancer. I have had someone else very dear to me live with and die of lupus. I helped those two people through very hard and painful times. I have had two people very dear to me get shot and killed. I, like so many others, learned the hard way that life is not easy. I have faced the fire alone and with others. I have not shrunk back. I have faced it out of love, caring and compassion. I have faced it because I have not thought of myself. I have faced it sometimes in spite of myself. I have faced it with faith and hope. And, I am sure, if necessary, I will do so again. Those are truly moments that are just not about you (not "what about me" moments). I have heard them referred to as moments of “the grand gesture”. I just think of them as moments of true humility and gentleness. And I just hope that should I have to face the fire again, I will stand tall.
It doesn’t interest me where or what or with whom you have studied. I want to know what sustains you, from the inside, when all else falls away.
What sustains me, from the inside, when all else falls away- hope and faith. Faith and hope carry with them, for me, the belief that tomorrow is another day, that tomorrow will be better and that tomorrow is another chance. My faith is deep and strong. It has been tested, but it has held on. I have been angry at fate, at life, at God/the Creator, the Universe. But I have always believed in Him/It. In even the worst of times, those "I want it all to be over" times, my faith has kept me holding on. In the dark of night when I no longer want to go on and when hope is gone, faith (though smaller than a mustard seed) has kept me from throwing in the towel. What sustains me? My faith and hope sustain me.
I want to know if you can be alone with yourself and if you truly like the company you keep in the empty moments.
Honestly. I like my company. I need me time, crave me time. And, in the empty moments, I do like my company. I read, meditate, write, sing, dance, pray, sit in silence with my thoughts and praise and say thank you. I even take myself out on a date sometimes. In the end, I am the only person on earth I can never get away from, so I better like myself and I do. I like my company.
Now, do “The Invitation” on your own and, if you ask yourself nothing else, ask: “what sustains me?" And, if you do nothing else ….do you - get to know and like you.
“Amazing, isn't it, how some see the basket half empty and others see it half full? Some see life hopeless, some hopeful. Even when things are less than perfect, if you can think of the good, the beautiful, the hopeful, you'll be more than sustained.”
Author Unknown
And, who has not lived with failure of some kind. I have experienced failure and then bounced back from it. I have shaken my head at the unfairness of life and said “Yes, I can go on and will.” I have seen the bottom of the barrel and pulled myself out of it to go on. I have done it in the past with the deaths of my husband (a police officer shot to death), my uncle (a Veterans Administration police officer also shot to death), my father (from cancer) and my sister-in-law (from lupus) and with other things that I have experienced. I am sure I will in the future. It is part of life and I accept that. I just know I will not let life beat me down; instead, I try to remember just how good life can be. This and hope always help me to go on.
It doesn’t interest me to know where you live or how much money you have. I want to know if you can get up, after the night of grief and despair, weary and bruised to the bone, and do what needs to be done to feed the children. It doesn’t interest me who you know or how you came to be here. I want to know if you will stand in the center of the fire with me and not shrink back.
Can I get up, after a night of grief and despair, weary and bruised to the bone, and do what needs to be done to feed the children? I can and I have many, many, many times. When my husband was killed, the nights were hard to get through. But no matter how hard, I had a six year old to think of and I had to keep her life as normal as possible. No matter what I went through at night, in the morning I got up, got her cleaned, dressed, fed and off to school with a smile, a hug and an "I love you." I believe it was my child and the semblance of normalcy that helped me to get out of bed and go on, even when I didn’t want to. Thankfully, I am not there any more. Thankfully time and I have moved on.
I have had someone very dear to me live with and die of cancer. I have had someone else very dear to me live with and die of lupus. I helped those two people through very hard and painful times. I have had two people very dear to me get shot and killed. I, like so many others, learned the hard way that life is not easy. I have faced the fire alone and with others. I have not shrunk back. I have faced it out of love, caring and compassion. I have faced it because I have not thought of myself. I have faced it sometimes in spite of myself. I have faced it with faith and hope. And, I am sure, if necessary, I will do so again. Those are truly moments that are just not about you (not "what about me" moments). I have heard them referred to as moments of “the grand gesture”. I just think of them as moments of true humility and gentleness. And I just hope that should I have to face the fire again, I will stand tall.
It doesn’t interest me where or what or with whom you have studied. I want to know what sustains you, from the inside, when all else falls away.
What sustains me, from the inside, when all else falls away- hope and faith. Faith and hope carry with them, for me, the belief that tomorrow is another day, that tomorrow will be better and that tomorrow is another chance. My faith is deep and strong. It has been tested, but it has held on. I have been angry at fate, at life, at God/the Creator, the Universe. But I have always believed in Him/It. In even the worst of times, those "I want it all to be over" times, my faith has kept me holding on. In the dark of night when I no longer want to go on and when hope is gone, faith (though smaller than a mustard seed) has kept me from throwing in the towel. What sustains me? My faith and hope sustain me.
I want to know if you can be alone with yourself and if you truly like the company you keep in the empty moments.
Honestly. I like my company. I need me time, crave me time. And, in the empty moments, I do like my company. I read, meditate, write, sing, dance, pray, sit in silence with my thoughts and praise and say thank you. I even take myself out on a date sometimes. In the end, I am the only person on earth I can never get away from, so I better like myself and I do. I like my company.
Now, do “The Invitation” on your own and, if you ask yourself nothing else, ask: “what sustains me?" And, if you do nothing else ….do you - get to know and like you.
“Amazing, isn't it, how some see the basket half empty and others see it half full? Some see life hopeless, some hopeful. Even when things are less than perfect, if you can think of the good, the beautiful, the hopeful, you'll be more than sustained.”
Thursday, October 23, 2008
DW's Loop
“How can you stay in the Loop, if you aren’t in the Loop?”
October 24 - 26, 2008
Friday
The Cocktails & Connection @ Club Royale
205 N. Peoria
DJ Set by ?UEST LOVE of the Roots
8PM -2AM
No Cover
You Must RSVP (1 RSVP per unique email)
RSVP @ RSVP@SLDMarketingGroup.net
Table/Bottle Service Contact info@sldmarketingGroup.net
Saturday
La Grande Cirque @ Climax
324 W. Chicago
Climax transforms into the most unique cirque experience including aerial acrobat contortionists, fire spinners, UV dancers, and jugglers.
No cover before 10:30pm & $10 cover until 11:30pm
RSVP before 6pm on Saturday @ www.globaladrenaline.net/viplist_c.shtml
Sunday
Duchamp
$35 for two glasses of champagne, two appetizers and two chocolate cupcakes
5pm - 7pm
2118 N Damen Ave.
http://www.duchamp-chicago.com/
Cocktail for the Week – Absolut Apeach Surrender
Ingredients
- 2 parts Absolut Apeach
- 3 parts orange juice
- Splash of grenadine
- Maraschino cherry
Directions: Combine ingredients, on ice, in a highball glass, Garnish with the cherry
Bonus of the Week – High Gloss Sample Sale
Friday-Sunday, October 24-26
High Gloss
1520 N. Milwaukee Ave
Over 40 designers’ collections at up to 80% off retail
Opening Night Beauty Bar event by Fringe Salon on Friday, October 24 from 4-9pm
RSVP @ info@shophighgloss.com; http://www.shophighgloss.com/
October Favorite:
Salud Tequila Lounge
1471 N Milwaukee
312-235-5577
http://www.saludlounge.com/
DJs spin soul, house, and hip-hop from Tuesday through Saturday
Specials:
Sundays - $10 Margarita Pitchers
Mondays - $5 Caipirinhas
Tuesdays - $5 Sangria Pitchers
Wednesdays - 1/2 price appetizers
Thursdays - $3 Corona and Corona Light
Fridays – $4 Frozen Margaritas
This Week in Atlanta
Sunday, November 2
SUNDAY NIGHT SOIREE presents KAMERON CORVET
Location: The Grape Wine Bar @ Inman Park, 300 N. Highland Ave., Atlanta
Time: 6:00pm - 11:00pm
SUNDAY NIGHT SOIREE presents KAMERON CORVET
Location: The Grape Wine Bar @ Inman Park, 300 N. Highland Ave., Atlanta
Time: 6:00pm - 11:00pm
Desert Son Entertainment presents the Live Stylings of International Recording Artist, KAMERON CORVET at Sunday Night Soiree. The event is a R&B/Neo-Soul, Networking Mixer with a different Live Band each month in a non-traditional atmosphere that allows young, professional people with mingle. This is NOT a PARTY, it's an Experience. Visit http://www.sundaynightsoiree.com/ for details.
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